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Latest you’ve got a BFP after missed AF

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xxoakley · 05/12/2023 08:24

Currently a week late, I had pink CM the day I was due but nothing since. Had cramping and fully expected AF to come but nothing since. Negative tests every morning too, I’m so confused and just want to know what’s happening. I’ve had an increase in yellow tinged CM which is very gloopy and stretchy, which has now gone to clear CM but still stretchy! Help me out ladies before I loose my mind x

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missdt89 · 11/12/2023 10:28

Omg and like some cruel joke I've just gone to the toilet and I've wiped and there is blood 😞

At least AF has finally shown ! And I can start my next cycle !

What a rollercoaster! Il probably test of the next couple days and see what happens ? But I don't think it's anything else other than AF !

Xxxxx

missdt89 · 11/12/2023 08:56

Did another for good measure .... another line ?

missdt89 · 11/12/2023 07:27

I don't know if I'm going mad .... but I think I've got the start of a BFP? If it is I ovulated wayyy later than I thought

It's very faint but came up instantly, and does have colour in person

missdt89 · 07/12/2023 09:59

@xxoakley ahhh sorry you didn't get your BFP , but yay AF finally showed so you can get back to trying !

No AF here still, now on CD 40 I'm hoping she shows by the end of the week coz this is doing my head in 😤😤

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xxoakley · 07/12/2023 09:26

@missdt89 so AF came this morning, I’m so savage about it haha. Like hello you could of actually came when you were due and not nine days late 🙄

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missdt89 · 06/12/2023 23:33

@xxoakley I'm now a week late AF was due last Wednesday.

Yea they have stopped again now , so honestly not sure what to think! I keep going to the toilet checking if AF is joint any signs but nothing .

I'm so glad I'm on a course all week with work so least I'm being kept busy in the day , this stuff is enough to make you lose your mind 😂😂 xxxx

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xxoakley · 06/12/2023 22:39

@missdt89 how many days late are you? I had cramps last night and thought maybe I was coming on but nothing! Will test in the morning & then leave it, what will be will be I’m sure! X

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missdt89 · 06/12/2023 22:28

@Ivebeenthinkingtoomuch welcome to the club sorry you are here !

Like you I've also never missed a period unless pregnant so new ground for me as well and so frustrating. I've started to have AF like cramps again this evening which completely disappeared last week , so maybe AF is on the way .

My CM has also been like yours but again BFN so far . I'm not testing anymore now until next week if I can help it !

@xxoakley I wish I had used strips now as would probably make things much easier right now !

I think AF might show next couple of days as cramps are back. So the waiting game continues xxxx

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xxoakley · 06/12/2023 21:33

@Ivebeenthinkingtoomuch not out until AF shows! I was speaking to a girl on instagram & she didn’t get a BFP until she was almost 11 days late xx

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Ivebeenthinkingtoomuch · 06/12/2023 21:03

Hi ladies,
I’m also in the same boat here. Almost a week late, no sign of anything and BFNs. I’ve never missed AF before in my life unless pregnant.
I had a doctors appt Monday due to ongoing pains in my ovaries but she wasn’t overly concerned about the missing AF. I’m being referred for an ultrasound to check for ovarian cysts but this was all being investigated beforehand anyway.
I’ve got twinges, sore boobs and now white creamy discharge but I suppose I’m definitely not pregnant due to the BFNs.
it’s so frustrating.

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xxoakley · 06/12/2023 20:12

@missdt89 i didn’t to start with as was just going by what my FLO app told me but I had a few ovulation strips so used them and seemed that I peaked around the 23rd so maybe a second ovulation? I’m honestly not sure & im so confused😂xx

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missdt89 · 06/12/2023 18:57

@xxoakley see I wish I had used ovulation strips to track but didnt , so my ovulation date is a guess really and was over 2 weeks ago !

I've got zero of my usual AF symptoms now but have had nausea and I'm so tired ! But that could all be stress of not knowing what's going on and like you I could just be overthinking everything!

I think I'm gonna try hold off until next week , I hope you get your BFP ! Keep me updated !
Xxx

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xxoakley · 06/12/2023 18:27

@missdt89 SO annoying and then I’m questioning myself like am I just making symptoms up in my head😂🙄 think I’ll test tomorrow as if I ovulated late I’d be 14DPO which is when I got a positive with my son & then I’ll leave it if it’s neg xxx

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missdt89 · 06/12/2023 17:55

@xxoakley that's so frustrating I expect il get the same response next week tbh , by then my AF will be 2 weeks late !!!

Hopefully you have an answer either way , I'm gonna try not to test any more until next week it's becoming exhausting 😭

Xxx

Swirls346 · 06/12/2023 17:28

I got a positive 2 days after my period was due. Unfortunately it was a chemical. I had a positive test for a few days but it never got any darker. I then came on my period 7 days after the expected date x

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xxoakley · 06/12/2023 17:09

@missdt89 hi lovely! Doctors weren’t much help, said it could be a blip in my period or I could be pregnant and to test every week until my period shows (if it does). If nothing by next month then they’ll do my bloods for me! BFN this morning for me too!

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missdt89 · 06/12/2023 09:35

Morning ! Still no sign of AF here and another BFN this morning.

I'm not testing anymore , just gonna wait it out until I have doctors next week although I don't expect they will do much !

@xxoakley hope your appointment goes ok! X

graceinc22 · 05/12/2023 16:57

i had yellow stretchy cm in the luteal phase of my most recent cycle, where i became pregnant.

missdt89 · 05/12/2023 14:46

@xxoakley yes definitely! We can try keep each other sane !

Like you I've come off the pill twice before and always gone back to regular cycles and by the second / third month got my BFP

I've never had a cycle this long before so its frustrating but it may be because I'm older now , who knows ! Xx

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xxoakley · 05/12/2023 14:15

@missdt89 atleast we’ve got eachother to speak too! I’ve just read a forum and the girl didn’t get a positive test until she was 30 days late!

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xxoakley · 05/12/2023 14:15

@Daisies12 very true! I’ve came off a few times though and never missed a period. I’d been off the pill two months when I fell pregnant with my little boy! X

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missdt89 · 05/12/2023 14:06

@xxoakley it's all so strange , I think it's just a waiting game tbh , il likely test one last time tomorrow but then leave it until before my doctors app next week .

I think it's probably an irregular period but then you read stories of peri - menopause and it's terrifying, I'm 34 nearly 35 so I pray it's not that !

Just trying to relax but it's so difficult not knowing what's going on xx

Daisies12 · 05/12/2023 14:02

Could just be irregular period, to be expect if you only came off pill recently?

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xxoakley · 05/12/2023 14:02

@Santaiswashinghissleigh funny you actually say that as I’ve also dtd on the 23rd day of my cycle & possibly got a positive ish ovulation strip but I’m not 100%. Did you test before hand and all negative? X

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xxoakley · 05/12/2023 14:01

@missdt89 mines been yellow tinged & it’s now got clear but it’s been so gloopy and stretchy! So strange as never had this before. I can’t remember what it was like before I found out I was pregnant with my son either 😫

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