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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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37 and worried -where my over 37 ladies

29 replies

Bex4567 · 01/12/2023 15:50

Hi..im 37 and have 2 kids 17 and 13...trying for baby number 3 been activially trying for 4 months...going into month 5 now...

Does anyone worry its not going to happen or there's something wrong with u 😪.
I no people say its only been 4 months its nothing but I'm at that age now where times against me..
Just wandered if there's anyone here over 37 who took a while to get there bfp..thankyou

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Bex4567 · 01/12/2023 17:20

Thankyou all for your reply. Have any of u been to the docters for tests as I've heard if your over 35 and it's been longer than 6 months u should go docters 😪..

I take vid d,vit c and folic acid but reluctant to take pregnecare or anything as apparently it messes with your cycle 😪..
It's so hard last 4 months we've done it every other day sometimes every day over fertile week and still nothing ...
I'm beginning to think something wrong with me 😪

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bness · 01/12/2023 16:33

Same boat, 2 teens and trying now for 3rd. Been a year and I've done it loosely in ovulation dates stupidly thinking it would be easy but 10 ovulation dates later and nothing. Ive been told to up the vitamins, make sure the OH has vitamins that boost sperm, do it atleast every 2 days on ovulation days and relaaax

thejollytrolleydolly · 01/12/2023 16:31

Heyyy jumping on for support! I'm
38 and have been trying since January with a mmc thrown in for good measure. We have one 3 year old already and currently trying for number 2 😊 it's an emotional rollercoaster to say the least! I'm hoping this month is the one so I can give my partner and daughter a special Christmas present 🥰 I've just started bbt and conceive vitamins so hoping they help! We're in it together ladies xx

TwinkleStarrr · 01/12/2023 15:53

@Bex4567 you re not alone!
I m 38, trying to conceive baby #2
Like you I started 5 months ago...
Yeah it's stressful isn't it.