TTC after ectopic/after loss/older age etc ALL WELCOME 🙂

Aaaahhh beautiful scan @YellowZ congratulations!

Thank you, 3 hours to go 🤞

@Panda101x so sorry for all your losses. Wish you lots of luck with gp appointment.

I’ve had six losses all from different weeks over four years. I’ve an apt at gp later. To confirm and get my progesterone tablets if they agree postive

@Panda101x is that pictures of the same test (Apart from ovulation test)? The latest two look positive I'd day. Where are you in your cycle? Sorry if I've missed this further up, have you had had a negative test since previous loss?

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Also strangely my LH is more than last few days yet ovulation was while back. So not sure what means as I never really test this after I get the surge earlier on

Thoughts ? I’m feeling Evap vibe

carried it correctly and read correct time frame but it’s thin

@MrsB2019x sorry I meant to say I hope your scan goes well today too.

@CurlyWurly1991 when did you say you had your surgery again? Wondering when mine will come.

Loads of luck @MrsB2019x I hope you get good news today.

@SunshineAndRainbows6 @YellowZ what a journey you’ve both had…
I am also on my first period post surgery (but for a 8 week MMC rather than ectopic). It’s quite a bit heavier and not super painful thankfully but more and different cramps to usual.

indeed we women are fighters - I am amazed by the stories I hear of what women go through and yet keep going (although stopping is fine too, of course). The resilience and strength to remain hopeful is inspiring.

Thanks for checking in everyone 🩷
Still bleeding on and off throughout the day, I’m starting to lose hope tbh. Had a couple of tiny clots when I just went to the loo. Scan is at 3:40 so I’ll know either way this time tomorrow.

Best of luck for your scan @YellowZ !

@YellowZ @MrsB2019x will be thinking of you make sure you report back!!

@YellowZ all the very best for tomorrow!

@Bumblesbee84 I’m super early at 7+4. First nhs scan is on Tuesday and I am on major count down but at the same time absolutely dreading it.

@YellowZ I wish you the absolute best of luck tomorrow! ❤️ Please let us know how you get on.

@YellowZ Us women are fighters ayyyee 💪🏼 Yes I can relate to that, leading up to the horrid day I kept saying to my hubby that I felt like I had a bit of a UTI, it felt similar to that, like my stomach felt sore inside 🤔 Plus I had a bit of shoulder pain on that side but thought it was due to my arthritis.... now I can put the puzzle pieces together and spot the signs/symptoms 😞

Just read that your 12 week scan is tomorrow 😍 how exciting! Sending loads of love your way, I know how bloody nervous you must be feeling 😮‍💨 How long did it take you to fall with this pregnancy after your ectopic? I'm trying to look back through comments but as I said I'm useless on this thing 🥴😂

@YellowZ @Bumblesbee84 @MrsB2019x

Thank you so much for the warm welcome ladies, sorry I've tagged a few of you but I'm rubbish with these things 🤭

It's soooo lovely to see these BFP's on here 🙏🏼 I'm still catching up on everyone's stories/journeys but I am sending loads of positive vibes and love for you scan tomorrow @MrsB2019x ✨

How's everyone else doing this evening!? This first period after my surgery is a killer... heavier and more painful than normal but was expecting it 😫

@Stategigi I'm sorry for your loss 🙏🏼 Was the surgery to remove a tube or just the pregnancy? Yes mine was a bit crazy, went in for an early scan as I had a little spotting and some light cramps which disappeared as quick as they came, to be told I had internal bleeding in my abdomen and pelvis and needed to go to surgery because it had ruptured 😫 It all happened so fast 😞 The doctors couldn't believe how I wasn't in pain etc... but to be honest I've got arthritis and have quite a high pain threshold, so wrote it down to that! How are you doing now!? 🙏🏼

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@Bumblesbee84 sounds like a good idea to play it by ear. It should be easy to book in a private scan if you need to at any point? Or the EPAU if you have any symptoms of concern.

yeah feeling a bit crap with heavy period. Feeling bit sad. Anyone seen kin on bbc ? Spoiler and trigger warning - MMC in ep1 of s2, quite realistic and similar to my experience 😬

@CurlyWurly1991 so sorry to hear AF turned up after the faint positive, that's tough. Hope you're doing ok? I spoke to the fertility clinic about whether or not they'd do private scans as a stand alone thing and they said they don't, they signposted me to the place I went before that nhs wouldn't accept! I think DH is keen to get an early private one to get an idea of where we stand, I'm just not sure I want to put myself through it. But will see how i feel and how things progress.
@MrsB2019x hopefully the spotting is just one of those random spotting events that can happen in pregnancy. Sending you so many good wishes for your scan tomorrow. AF didn't turn up and I'm stopping testing now, just going to wait it out and see what happens.
@Nic2908 how far along are you now? Hope you're doing ok.

I’m on to the 9th month of TTC, thought I had a faint positive at 11dpo but AF arrived bang on time. First period since the surgical management in Jan and it feels like a normal period so far - hopefully won’t get much worse.