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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

RESTART TTC DECEMBER CLUB

443 replies

starryx · 11/11/2023 11:10

Since I'm out for this month... Best chance to try again in a few weeks

Thought we could start a new chat for everyone who could potentially get their bfp in December or try again

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wanderlustre · 05/12/2023 21:34

@pontipinemum @@123456789ss yeah I don't think FRERs are easy to get anymore. Think they may be discontinued. Apparently Boots own brand 5 days early with the pink dye are good. I bought some in the Black Friday sale. It was about the only thing I got in the sales. Quite sad really 😂

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 21:18

@123456789ss can't beat seeing it on the digital! I can't seem to get FRERs I'm in Ireland and Amazon don't seem to want to bring them here! I'm rapidly running out of tests once they're gone I won't buy more. I have a dr app booked for Monday for blood though I want a general MOT done anyway.

How old is your 1st child? Mine is 16 months he's a handful!! But yes I want to add another one to the mix

123456789ss · 05/12/2023 19:07

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 18:54

@123456789ss have you tested since?

@H938 it's so hard not to test! Well I find it to be anyway. It didn't help that I had 20 tests!!

@ButterflySkies oh wow 35 degrees sounds amazing it's baltic here!! Hope you caught it.

Only about 43 times 😝
My husband wouldn't believe me until I got a digital to spell it out in words on Sunday.
I've now got obsessed with watching line progression (something I didn't know to do with baby #1 and glad I didn't). Trying to stick to every 48hrs but it's just so hard to wait.

Do you have any FRERs?

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 18:54

@123456789ss have you tested since?

@H938 it's so hard not to test! Well I find it to be anyway. It didn't help that I had 20 tests!!

@ButterflySkies oh wow 35 degrees sounds amazing it's baltic here!! Hope you caught it.

Saffie920 · 05/12/2023 18:52

Hey @ButterflySkies hope you've been having a good trip and well done for managing to DTD whilst away given the circumstances! Fingers crossed for you 😊

ButterflySkies · 05/12/2023 18:38

Hello!! Sorry long time no appearance on the thread - for those that remember me from November I’m away with the fam with toddler in the room over this fertile window…!

Good news is the 35+ degree heat has been knocking my DD out for long naps so we have managed to DTD and i think I’ve ovulated during that time - no tracking this month, but hubby has been keen to try when we can… so although I’m putting it out of mind I am - i think - nervously entering the TTW…

I’ll have a look through the feed but wishing everyone baby dust, hoping you’re all ok - will check back in over the feed with how you’re all doing! Back home come Monday morning so I’m sure you’ll be seeing more of me then! Though no early testing for me this time (she says knowing I’ve got a stash of tests at home!) Xx

H938 · 05/12/2023 17:59

@LuceNumberTwo dont know why I even bothered 😂 its like I know it wouldnt come up anyway but still do it. Also last month i thought I had symptoms turns out it was nothing and this month nothing but cramping and i feel lightheaded but my iron is always low so thats probs why. Its like we convince ourselves of it 😩🤯 how you feeling?

LuceNumberTwo · 05/12/2023 17:21

@wanderlustre oh gosh, I'm so sorry to hear that! It's just a nightmare honestly, I didn't expect much but atleast for them to have told my Gp or something 🤦‍♀️ I wish you all the luck with the IVF 🤞🤞💖

@pontipinemum Might just be a little early, when I was pregnant in May/June. I didn't get a positive on the digital until around 14/15 dpo but the easy @ home strips were positive! Still time 🤞🤞💖

@H938 aww did you cave? That might well be implantation, so it could be that you'll get a BFP within the next week 🤞 also the flashing smiley test is only on a certain test- depends if you bought the more expensive kit or not. I only buy the one which tells you the two.most fertile days.. you can get one which tells you 4 or more - that's the flashing one 😊😊

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H938 · 05/12/2023 16:17

@Saffie920 I never got the flashing smileys just the static one so god knows what that means. Im sure if you are dtd lots you will catch it xx

H938 · 05/12/2023 16:15

@pontipinemum deffo a line. Its just so early thats probs why its so faint. Try in a couple of days im sure it will be darker. Mine was negative and im either 8/9dpo or 3dpo 😂 dont know why I bothered to test. I had the tinyest bit of blood today and cramps all day so I thought maybe it wss implantation. I will wait til Saturday to test again as im due on sunday anyway x

Saffie920 · 05/12/2023 16:14

Sending lots of positive thoughts for you both @123456789ss and @pontipinemum - sounds/looks tentatively promising!

I'm still waiting for my LH surge!! I had flashing smiley faces on Clearblue tests this morning and yesterday afternoon so I'm hoping that's a good sign. LH was still v low though this morning. I will try testing again in a couple of hours (or as long as my bladder can hold out!) it's CD15 for me. We've been DTD lots so hope my surge comes soon

123456789ss · 05/12/2023 15:56

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 15:55

@123456789ss :) hopefully it is. I thought so. Where are you on this lovely journey?

Got a faint line on Friday ☺️
So now the anxiety of TTC has turned into the anxiety of hoping it sticks!

I reckon that'll be a good line tomorrow!

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 15:55

@123456789ss :) hopefully it is. I thought so. Where are you on this lovely journey?

123456789ss · 05/12/2023 15:53

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 15:52

@123456789ss that's it edited. I think I just need to wait until tomorrow! How are you? I think we've spoken before?

I can definitely see a line there ☺️
Yes we have ☺️

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 15:52

@123456789ss that's it edited. I think I just need to wait until tomorrow! How are you? I think we've spoken before?

RESTART TTC DECEMBER CLUB
123456789ss · 05/12/2023 15:11

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 14:11

@H938 9DPO today, I did that test yesterday morning. I did a cheap test this morning I think my eyes are fecked, I can't see anything but if I put it on a white sheet I think I can sort of make out the faintest of faint lines but I could be imagining it!

How long are you supposed to leave the stick in the pee? I've read 10 seconds but also been told to wait until the control line shows. IDK if I am soaking them!

Have you tried taking a photo and editing it e.g. increasing the contrast? It helps point out if there's a line there
Still early days though

Outliers · 05/12/2023 14:43

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 14:11

@H938 9DPO today, I did that test yesterday morning. I did a cheap test this morning I think my eyes are fecked, I can't see anything but if I put it on a white sheet I think I can sort of make out the faintest of faint lines but I could be imagining it!

How long are you supposed to leave the stick in the pee? I've read 10 seconds but also been told to wait until the control line shows. IDK if I am soaking them!

9DPO still early - I'd check again in 3 days

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 14:11

@H938 9DPO today, I did that test yesterday morning. I did a cheap test this morning I think my eyes are fecked, I can't see anything but if I put it on a white sheet I think I can sort of make out the faintest of faint lines but I could be imagining it!

How long are you supposed to leave the stick in the pee? I've read 10 seconds but also been told to wait until the control line shows. IDK if I am soaking them!

H938 · 05/12/2023 10:50

@pontipinemum how many dpo are you x

pontipinemum · 05/12/2023 10:04

Starting to think it is not my month. After a few positives there are now stark white so I am thinking even though I tracked LH I ovulated early and have had a chemical.

In case anyone is interesting, the CB digital, not the weeks one, only has 1 line when it is negative, it had 2 lines when I was pregnant last time even though it said not pregnant

RESTART TTC DECEMBER CLUB
wanderlustre · 05/12/2023 09:12

I'm on CD11 and my CB OPK is still showing a blank circle. I normally ovulate bang on CD12 every month which is a bit weird. We have a friend staying with us for a few days so it's making me feel a bit less stressed about needing to DTD but I've also radically changed my diet this month after finding out about the IVF (cutting out caffeine, alcohol, refined grains, processed food etc. basically all the good things in life) so I'm wondering if that's somehow had an effect.

@LuceNumberTwo I feel your pain about the long waits! I was referred by my GP in April and had an initial fertility screening in mid-May (internal scan, blood tests, semen analysis etc.). Our follow up appointment to discuss the results wasn't until 31st October 🙄if it helps, things have progressed relatively quickly for us after that. Yesterday we received our letter confirming we have funding for 3 cycles of IVF and now we're just waiting for our first appointment to get going which they think will be mid-January. The long waits have been so frustrating, especially as we then learnt time isn't on our side. I really hope you get some answers soon!

H938 · 04/12/2023 17:21

@starryx Hopefully its not!! Mine is coming sunday too so I will hold out til then - maybe saturday as im going out Saturday night!!

Noisinmaro · 04/12/2023 16:35

starryx · 04/12/2023 15:42

I'm sorry to you all
My af due in 5 days.. if it comes I will make a January thread
Let's see what happens!
I had particularly sore boobs this morning/ yesterday

Hopefully you won't be making the new thread, but once it's there is i'll join....
I bought ovulation tests...
Never used them before cause I know my form and afraid they will further stress me out...
I'm usually 29 days and try cover day 10/12 until day 20/21 every second days...but obviously keeping missing or something...its so hard going...and staying postitive to boots....anyways find the threads helpfull....

starryx · 04/12/2023 16:35

H938 · 04/12/2023 15:45

@LuceNumberTwo honestly NHS are the worst!! They literally dont communicate or theyre so overworked im not sure which one. I was reading up on people saying they take Vit C and B Complex if they have a short luteal phase - as I have now diagnosed myself with that 🤣

Also im due to come on sunday so I may aswell sit it out as im either 8dpo or 4dpo so if im 4 i would just be testing too early! When will you test? x

Probably if my periods a few days late!
I rather test later than earlier just to stop myself overthinking

Getting discouraged now as I feel minor cramps that maybe af is coming:(

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H938 · 04/12/2023 15:45

@LuceNumberTwo honestly NHS are the worst!! They literally dont communicate or theyre so overworked im not sure which one. I was reading up on people saying they take Vit C and B Complex if they have a short luteal phase - as I have now diagnosed myself with that 🤣

Also im due to come on sunday so I may aswell sit it out as im either 8dpo or 4dpo so if im 4 i would just be testing too early! When will you test? x