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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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starryx · 11/11/2023 11:10

Since I'm out for this month... Best chance to try again in a few weeks

Thought we could start a new chat for everyone who could potentially get their bfp in December or try again

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Pupsandturtles · 16/12/2023 12:50

@bobbles4091 i never tested positive on a regular test, even when my period was 5 days late. Only the early detection ones. This month my early tests went positive around 11dpo and are now negative. Period is 1 day late.

I spoke to a fertility specialist who was very flippant about chemicals, but it hasn’t helped me stop worrying that something is wrong.

Saffie920 · 16/12/2023 12:25

maybemumtobe · 16/12/2023 12:12

@Saffie920 Hello! Just thought I’d say hey as someone else who today has a very similar looking test to you! I’m around 11dpo and very excited 😀

Wow @maybemumtobe ! Yes our tests look v similar - tentative congratulations to you!

maybemumtobe · 16/12/2023 12:12

@Saffie920 Hello! Just thought I’d say hey as someone else who today has a very similar looking test to you! I’m around 11dpo and very excited 😀

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Saffie920 · 16/12/2023 09:14

Thank you @bobbles4091 ! 🙏

bobbles4091 · 16/12/2023 08:59

Saffie920 · 16/12/2023 08:55

Thank you @bobbles4091 ! It is quite clear albeit faint in real life. Im not sure about the sensitivity of the test (and im away for the night so I don't have the packaging with me) but it was an easy@home cheapy, the ones that come with the ovulation tests. I'll try and buy a better test today!

Ah yes I think they're 10, in a pack of 10 with the pink writing and a baby on the front?
Enjoy your weekend away, and congratulations too!! @Saffie920 !!!! 🥳

bobbles4091 · 16/12/2023 08:56

Pupsandturtles · 16/12/2023 01:05

Hi everyone. Can anyone tell me if it’s worrying that I’ve had 2 chemicals in a row? Or is it all part of the process? 2/4 cycles have been chemicals.

I'm sorry you've been through this. I think it's hard to say @Pupsandturtles but I'd be thinking it's probably just bad luck. I read that a lot of people don't actually know they've had a chemical, but obviously if you're trying and tracking then we find out earlier. I very much hope this doesn't happen to you again, but if it does I'd say 3 is definitely enough to speak to your GP or a fertility specialist for some advice.
I hope it's okay for me to ask, but was it bleeding that first informed you about the chemicals or did you notice your HcG levels not rising? I ask because I'm 14DPO (which I appreciate is v early), but my pregnancy is only showing on the very sensitive early detection tests. On the cheapies I have no line whatsoever. I know I need to give it more time and check again in a few days, but just trying to prepare myself in case it hasn't worked.

Saffie920 · 16/12/2023 08:55

Thank you @bobbles4091 ! It is quite clear albeit faint in real life. Im not sure about the sensitivity of the test (and im away for the night so I don't have the packaging with me) but it was an easy@home cheapy, the ones that come with the ovulation tests. I'll try and buy a better test today!

bobbles4091 · 16/12/2023 08:48

Saffie920 · 16/12/2023 08:46

Hello ladies - what do you think? I'm about 9/10dpo and I think this might be a line? It's very faint but I think it has some pink-ish colour in person. Came up after 3 mins

I think that's a faint line!!
What sensitivity is the test? 10 or 25? If 25 I reckon if you did a 10 one then it would be more definitive!
Such a great sign so early on!!!

Saffie920 · 16/12/2023 08:47

Sorry here is the photo!

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Saffie920 · 16/12/2023 08:46

Hello ladies - what do you think? I'm about 9/10dpo and I think this might be a line? It's very faint but I think it has some pink-ish colour in person. Came up after 3 mins

Pupsandturtles · 16/12/2023 01:05

Hi everyone. Can anyone tell me if it’s worrying that I’ve had 2 chemicals in a row? Or is it all part of the process? 2/4 cycles have been chemicals.

Noisinmaro · 15/12/2023 21:40

I see a line anyways...when you due period...
Retest due date...anytime I did a test and was negative I never had any confusion....I don't think that's negative....

maybemumtobe · 15/12/2023 21:19

Hi everyone

Hope you don’t mind me jumping in. What do you think of this test I did this morn? Think I’m around 11dpo. It was an early detection test.

By the time I got home from work the line had gone!

:-/

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H938 · 15/12/2023 18:36

@LuceNumberTwo ohhh the worst!! The good thing is they dont last long then ovulation time comes quickly!! No doubt will be in the Jan group Xx

@Saffie920 its soo early so dont let it get you down Xx

@bobbles4091 thank you! Xx

Saffie920 · 15/12/2023 16:59

Thanks @bobbles4091 🙏 I know, I'm mainly annoyed with myself for testing, after I'd told myself I would wait! At least it was just a cheapy easy@home one though 👍

bobbles4091 · 15/12/2023 16:23

@H938 sorry this hasn't been your month lovely. Everything crossed for January. I hope you enjoy all the festive drinks!

@LuceNumberTwo ah thank you 🙏🏻 clotty periods are the worst. Hope it's short lived!

@Saffie920 I also had a BFN on 9DPO which left me feeling really deflated. I know some people test positive that early but most things I've read say it's unlikely.
Sending all the positive test vibes for Sunday 🥰

Saffie920 · 15/12/2023 16:06

Sorry to hear that @H938 sending you lots of luck for next month

I have been having some light cramps today and so I caved and tested with mid afternoon wee when 9dpo which was all a bit silly really. It was obvs BFN though I did the thing where you twist it in different lights and could see a shadow (why am I torturing myself?!?)

Really should have just held out until Sunday as planned, but I still have some hope - it wasn't FMU and still v early so keeping fingers crossed

LuceNumberTwo · 15/12/2023 14:40

@bobbles4091 Eeeeek! Congratulations 💖🥰🥰🎉 Wishing you a healthy happy pregnancy 🤞🤞

@H938 I'm sorry to hear that sweet, if your going to try again for Jan there's a thread open there, but if not keep us updated with how you are 💖 I had held out hope that maybe you were x

@Saffie920 good luck for testing! Keep us updated 🤞🤞

I've the period from hell, really clotty & heavy now, just hoping it slows for.tomorrow! I've got the polar express with DD first😆😆
Just bought the ovulation gear & pre seed.. Reading up it looks like it's worked for a good few, who knows! But why not!

Good luck to anyone else still in the TWW 🤞🤞💖

H938 · 15/12/2023 09:26

@Saffie920 hoping you get your BFP this weekend too.

I have just come on - Can’t moan though its only my first month trying!! I think will enjoy Christmas and drinking while I can haha see what happens the next few months. Im going to try and avoid obsessing over it, atleast I now know when I ovulate and also how long my luteal phase is so I can try at the right time! What will be will be!

I will check back on here for everyone elses positives 🤞🏼🤞🏼x

Saffie920 · 15/12/2023 09:15

Thanks @bobbles4091 I haven't really had any symptoms this month so fearing I may be out, but let's see. Congratulations again 😊

bobbles4091 · 15/12/2023 07:47

Thanks @H938 , hoping the same for you this weekend 🙏🏻 It's quite faint but it's there!

@Saffie920 thank you! My boobs have been quite tender for over a week, which isn't a usual PMS symptom for me. I've also felt slightly queasy when looking at food in supermarkets and I think my appetite is up a bit. I'm also quite bloated and have an increase of watery discharge. Hope that helps!

Sending luck, love and patience to everyone in their TWW ❤️

Saffie920 · 15/12/2023 07:18

Hi @Lovelylove4 yes several of us still in the TWW. We've had several lovely BFPs on this thread this month 😊 I'm due on 21st and am 9dpo today so waiting to test until Sunday at the earliest. Fingers crossed for you, how are you getting on with the wait this month?

Saffie920 · 15/12/2023 07:12

@bobbles4091 wow!! Yes that looks like a BFP to me! 🎉 have you been having any symptoms or anything?

H938 · 15/12/2023 07:12

@bobbles4091 Amazing!!! I knew you would. So happy for you xx

bobbles4091 · 15/12/2023 04:28

H938 · 14/12/2023 18:54

@bobbles4091 I know what you mean. I was sure I was all week but now I have given up. Im not testing again, I am waiting for AF on the weekend then will try again with less pressure!! Hoping to see your BFP this weekend 🤞🏼

Am I imagining this or do I have a faint line?! 😮

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