Dd is 19, I was on the pill, so wasn't trying.
19 years of unexplained secondary infertility, various appointments, tests etc with fertility specialists and nothing ever happened, decided not to try ivf and move on.
End of the pandemic (I work in Fetal medicine) I was having a flappy moment about how busy it was and I couldn't cope... realised period was late). Our son 20 months now and a holy terror.
Went straight on the pill again, was breastfeeding, fell pregnant when ds was 4 months. Wed had sex once since the c section. Sadly, i miscarried a few weeks later.
Still on the pill... fell pregnant not long after the miscarriage, we had sex twice since the miscarriage, baby dd is 23 weeks now and genuinely the smiliest baby i have ever, ever met.
Fertility is such a strange, unpredictable thing. Wishing you loads of luck on your journey! ❤️