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9dpo bfn am I out

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 10:06

So currently on month 3 of tcc...really felt positive this month but dod a test this and bfn im 9dpi...

Do u think im out...struggling with this ttc getting me down

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booJo24902 · 01/11/2023 01:16

Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 01:04

10dpo bfn 😪def think im out this month face full of spots too and don't think that's a symptom had them for a bout 2 weeks...😪thought by 10dpo if atlear have a faint line by now

I'm 11dpo have really long cycles normally around 35. So I ovulate later. I'm 11dpo today & 4 days away from af and I got a bfn 😩 I could cry. 27months and counting 😔

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 01:04

10dpo bfn 😪def think im out this month face full of spots too and don't think that's a symptom had them for a bout 2 weeks...😪thought by 10dpo if atlear have a faint line by now

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 20:32

I thjnk im out anyway to be honest coz I've come out In spots on my chin for the last 2 weeks and I dint think that's a pregnancy symptoms only if you have your period

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moosey89 · 31/10/2023 20:13

It's too soon to know, that's why they recommend waiting until you miss a period to test.

Also, best thing you can do is find coping strategies for stress etc. I hope it doesn't happen to you, but for some of us TTC is a long slog, and struggling after only 3 months isn't good for you. Figure out what makes you happy, and what can make the two week waits go by quickly. I hope you get your BFP soon x

AnnieStar12 · 31/10/2023 13:06

I’m 11DPO today have been testing since 6DPO cause I’m impatient! I had totally negative tests days 6,7,8,9 and on 10DPO there was the faintest ever line which you had to squint and hold to the light to see, Lola! And today 11DPO it’s still very faint but definitely there.
So I’d say there is still hope right up until your due date.

We’ve been TCC since Feb so I know this process can be tedious - hang in there. If this month isn’t the one, then it will be soon.

Lala87 · 31/10/2023 12:04

Too early! The average day for implantation is 8/9 and it takes a few days for HCG to build up.

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 12:02

I've been using the easy at home.ones which are 10mg I believe so quite sensitive

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Mama09876 · 31/10/2023 11:36

Because some tests aren’t strong enough to pick up hCG in the early days and hCG I believe doubles daily.
9 DPO is still really soon! Implantation sometimes doesn’t even happen till day 9!
Just cause some people on here get faint lines at 9 DPO I wouldn’t compare yourself. I’d wait for you AF due and then take a test

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 11:31

Thankpyou I don't see how it can go from bfn to bfp in a day ...I'd atleast thought I'd see a faint line by now...

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PinkRoses1245 · 31/10/2023 11:14

Of course not, there's a reason the test instructions say use from day of missed period. I only got BFP 15 dpo.

Mama09876 · 31/10/2023 10:55

It’s still so early to test 9 DPO! I’d wait a few more days and keep testing it AF doesn’t arrive.

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