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9dpo bfn am I out

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 10:06

So currently on month 3 of tcc...really felt positive this month but dod a test this and bfn im 9dpi...

Do u think im out...struggling with this ttc getting me down

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Annonomous29 · 13/11/2023 11:46

I hope you get your BFP soon I pray for you.

Annonomous29 · 13/11/2023 11:40

Yes Definitely will do. I do not understand how you lovely ladies have this much strength and patience.

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Bex4567 · 11/11/2023 11:56

Yeah its def stressful...I used opks last month and month before hit peaks but still didn't happen 😪I would say def do them as my spp was saying I was ovulating earlier than I was ..u can get like 20 easy at homeones for like 9 pound

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Annonomous29 · 11/11/2023 10:37

Thank you.
I have only been actively trying for 1 month but already getting stressed as I got diagnosed with underactive thyroid after my last Dd and was told it is difficult to get pregnant with the condition.
I am 28 so doctors have said it shouldn’t have a big effect but still really scared😳.
Hats off to everyone who has been ttc for a long time this 1 month made me an emotional wreck. Thinking of using OPKs next time.

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Bex4567 · 11/11/2023 10:20

Welcome how long have u been trying for..I also have 2 children youngest 13 in Dec...trying to concievee now but 37 on month 4 of actively trying.. I no it hasn't been long but so stressful each month when uve done everything you can each month..

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Annonomous29 · 10/11/2023 23:50

Hi
can I join pls?
Im ttc but it is such a draining process I have 2 children and they were both suprise pregnancys so have never ttc before. I have had symptoms but it followed with af 12dpo 😔. I just need to speak to someone who is on a similar ship.

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Bex4567 · 07/11/2023 14:38

I will do thankyou

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Amy7912 · 07/11/2023 07:18

I'm 32. Luckily in the past I have never needed to try I could have almost planned every time I wanted to get pregnant. I've donated my eggs 6 times I'm not sure if this has affected me for conceiving now. But don't be disheartened by it yet you've only been TTC for 3months that's nothing compared to some people, I've been looking at these tablets there called concieve plus people have swore by them helping them to conceive maybe have a look at them and see if they help you. I ordered some yesterday

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Bex4567 · 05/11/2023 21:44

I used a easy @home one...im sure it will come on tomorrow..how old are u do you mind me asking ..im 37 and so worried its not going to happen.. we've only been trying for 3 months but it's so disheartening when people are catching early.

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Amy7912 · 05/11/2023 18:52

I do I have 3 children which I'm greatful for. I got told in march I was pre menapausal which set me back quite abit as I didn't expect it. This is the first month I've got a positive opk and cm and spotting on ovulation day. Then 6 days later red spotting when I wiped and now I'm waiting but the brown discharge has slightly started today, still bfn I feel like I'm out this month. What test are you using?

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Bex4567 · 05/11/2023 18:43

Sorry to here this do u have an children my youngest is nearly 13..im due on today only had a small bit of brown earlier nothing since probably come full force tomorrow
Sending baby dust

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Amy7912 · 05/11/2023 18:36

I've been trying for 9 months now it doesn't get any easier. Fingers crossed you get the result you want. I think I'm out too started with brown discharge today. Here's to another month, fingers crossed for us both

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Bex4567 · 05/11/2023 09:48

No I didn't due on today going into month 4

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Amy7912 · 05/11/2023 08:43

Hi I'm 9dpo had spotting 4 days ago so thought I'd test positive by now if it was implanting bleeding. Did you end up getting af?

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Bex4567 · 04/11/2023 10:10

Well 13 dpo period tomorrow bfn this morning 😪def out feel like my periods coming...on to the next cycle j gues

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Bex4567 · 03/11/2023 06:34

Thankyou well I'm 12dpo and still bfn do pretty sure I'm out...hopefully my time will come soon

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Starlight11111 · 03/11/2023 01:27

OP I didn't get my positive in June until a few days after my period was due. Sadly ended in a loss but just wanted to share that sometimes it really can take time to show on a test. I'm 10 DPO today and BFN on tests so far but not ruling this month out just yet :) x

moosey89 · 02/11/2023 14:30

@Bex4567 take a step back from testing. It's not doing your mental health any good! Try to find things that you enjoy to keep yourself busy. There's nothing you can do at this stage so there's no point in stressing every day about it x

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Bex4567 · 02/11/2023 12:37

11dpo today bfn im obviously out this month 😪period due in 3 days thought I would of atleast seen a faint line by now

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:40

Because I get spots when I'm on my period thts why..

I will try and get a grip thankyou

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FoleyHuck · 01/11/2023 08:12

Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:05

I no im starting to think there's something wrong witb me 😪10dpo today and bfn think I'm out to be honest

With great kindness OP, get a grip. It's only been 3 months which is nothing in the grand scheme of things, and at 10DPO you are not out of the game, you are out of the game once your period starts.

I'm not sure why you're focusing on your skin, not everything has to be a symptom! I am pregnant now (after 3 years of trying) and coincidentally have a spottier chin than I've had for years. I've put it down to the change in weather and that I'm moisturising more!

If you're not lucky this month then please try and find a way to keep busy through the TWW in future, and don't test until your period is late, only heartache and stress comes from testing so early, I speak from experience. Best of luck to you x

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:06

Have u been to the docters nd had test ect might be worth doing as its been that long

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:05

I no im starting to think there's something wrong witb me 😪10dpo today and bfn think I'm out to be honest

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booJo24902 · 01/11/2023 01:43

Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 01:33

Yeah Me too...period due in 4 days

So hard & im actually getting depressed about it now it's really affecting me. Good luck!! 🤞 for u xx

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 01:33

Yeah Me too...period due in 4 days

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