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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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9dpo bfn am I out

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 10:06

So currently on month 3 of tcc...really felt positive this month but dod a test this and bfn im 9dpi...

Do u think im out...struggling with this ttc getting me down

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Annonomous29 · 26/04/2024 17:53

@gtx1797h
OMG no way your children are the same age im on the same boat here both of us including the dc are desperate for a little one. But I don’t know how much i can take on mentally the dejection feels too much at times. 😔

gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 17:34

@Annonomous29 omg same DD1 is 9 DD2 is 7!! (8 in July)
I am desperate for no 3 also (we both are)
i HAttte the tww it’s super depressing I am 9DPO today xx BFN this morning obviously!! It’s winding me right up now 😩

Annonomous29 · 26/04/2024 16:49

@gtx1797h
have you got any dc i have 2 dd 1 is 9 1 is 7 i also have been diagnosed with underactive thyroid for which i take meds its a really frustrating process the tww kills and everytime not succeeding really gets me low it just feels so unreal when people get their bfp instantly and i have been unsuccessful for the 6th time. Not that im not happy for them i just can’t help the feeling low.

hahaha 😝

gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 16:35

@Annonomous29 it was to the OP but you as well :)
I’m sorry you are having no luck
I’m in the same position since OCT/ NOV 23
it’s so frustrating
I am going to convince my OH to DTD daily next month 😂

Annonomous29 · 26/04/2024 16:10

@gtx1797h
hi i have been ttc since Oct 23 no luck as if yet. I didn’t know who you message was intended to sorry but thought i would ans.

moosey89 · 26/04/2024 14:32

@Bex4567 are you doing ok? Haven't seen anything from you in a while so wanted to check in. Hope everything is ok x

gtx1797h · 26/04/2024 12:45

Im in the same boat now, did you conceive as yet I’ve been trying since nov 23

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Bex4567 · 07/12/2023 15:14

Congrats how many months and how old are u if u don't mind me asking

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Annonomous29 · 07/12/2023 14:34

@Amy7912 I forgot to say a BIG FAT CONGRATULATIONS 🥳

Annonomous29 · 06/12/2023 10:02

Amy7912 · 06/12/2023 06:30

Hi. I'm 10dpo yesterday I did a test 9dpo with an urine and had a shadow of a line you could only see by literally taking it apart and holding it in a certain light. Last night something told me to do my last test and I got a bfp! Line came up straight away very clear. So fmu wasn't better for me. Fingers crossed for your bfp!

@Amy7912
Thank you, you have given me some hope I have used opks this time so very hopeful sorry to be stupid whats does fmu stand for.

Amy7912 · 06/12/2023 06:30

Annonomous29 · 05/12/2023 21:13

Bex4567 · 05/12/2023 19:11

Hi af came unfortunately a day early ..just finishing period now in a day or to thwn onto month 5 😪good luck to you

@Bex4567 Oh nooooo… Better luck for next cycle….

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Bex4567 · 05/12/2023 19:11

Hi af came unfortunately a day early ..just finishing period now in a day or to thwn onto month 5 😪good luck to you

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Annonomous29 · 05/12/2023 18:53

@Bex4567 Hey how you doing???
im currently 9dpo but no symptoms at all i did a early pg but bfn. Im chilled actually so not that fussed about the result just got to wait and see..

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Bex4567 · 24/11/2023 10:10

I havnt stressed and thought about this month so that's maybe why I've had no symptoms lol

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Annonomous29 · 23/11/2023 22:13

@Bex4567
Oh hopefully time will pass soon.
I good thank you currently cd13 but still no positive opks have ewcm so no idea what’s happening tbh. Im trying to stay chilled about it don’t know how long it will last.
I know right its funny how you get all these symptoms and a bfn but when you don’t have any symptoms you don’t know what to expect because last month I had implantation cramps nusea bloating the full shabang and still no bfp.

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Bex4567 · 23/11/2023 22:01

Hey..im currently 4dpo I think so a way to go yet 🤦‍♀️how about u,how are u doing...the weird thing about this month is I don't seem to feel any symptoms..previous months I've had cramps, bloating ect and had bfn and this month don't feel any symptoms bar slightly sore boobs weird

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Annonomous29 · 23/11/2023 20:12

@Bex4567
Hey how you doing?
how many day you got left until your tww is over?

Annonomous29 · 21/11/2023 07:50

@Bex4567 Aww i hope it works this month

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Bex4567 · 20/11/2023 23:31

I'm ok thanks didn't concieve that month on month 4 now just going into the 2ww again 😪

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Annonomous29 · 20/11/2023 18:15

@Bex4567
Hiya… I thought to just check in see how your doing Im currently cd11 started using the opks for the first time haven’t got a peak just yet lets see how it goes

Annonomous29 · 15/11/2023 07:53

My fertile week is from Sunday with Ovulation on Friday going to do the same as you and check with opks.

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Bex4567 · 14/11/2023 00:13

And u...my fertile week is from Thursday I thjnk with ovulation on 17th but I'll confirm that with opks...its so stressful hopefully someone will get there bfp

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Annonomous29 · 13/11/2023 22:52

Awww bless her.
yh I read about people havings babies at 40-45 plus and get a boost.
I said this time im going to be chill about it but i know i am saying this now when time comes i am just going to be soo obsessed but fingers crossed i will try to keep chill like you said it will happen when it happens.
My fertile week is next week.
Fingers crossed for you tho.

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Bex4567 · 13/11/2023 20:22

I dont have any lol..going into month 4 fertile week now...im trying to be more relaxed about thing now it will happen when it happens we'll in the back of my mind it's still there 😪a women I work with had a child at 41 so that gives me hope

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