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9dpo bfn am I out

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 10:06

So currently on month 3 of tcc...really felt positive this month but dod a test this and bfn im 9dpi...

Do u think im out...struggling with this ttc getting me down

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Annonomous29 · 15/02/2025 22:00

Thank you it reallys means alot….🥰

Annonomous29 · 15/02/2025 22:00

gtx1797h · 15/02/2025 21:55

@Annonomous29 ok so I was going to get the dye after you said it on your previous post as I did some deep reading as it cleans everything out and it’s very common to conceive in the first few months following the dye test. I was due after you said it also above to get my day 21 cycle blood test on the 3rd of Jan which would have been day 21. I booked these when you said and just as a precaution on day 20 I took a cheap test to discover I am pregnant. I can only put this down to being relaxed that I had the tests booked in. I can’t think of any other reason it would happen. I’m now 10 weeks pregnant
I really hope you get your BFP soon as you kept the hope alive for me

@gtx1797h OMG Im really happy for you Bless you I hope everything goes well……keep me updated hows you pregnancy been so far…

gtx1797h · 15/02/2025 21:55

@Annonomous29 ok so I was going to get the dye after you said it on your previous post as I did some deep reading as it cleans everything out and it’s very common to conceive in the first few months following the dye test. I was due after you said it also above to get my day 21 cycle blood test on the 3rd of Jan which would have been day 21. I booked these when you said and just as a precaution on day 20 I took a cheap test to discover I am pregnant. I can only put this down to being relaxed that I had the tests booked in. I can’t think of any other reason it would happen. I’m now 10 weeks pregnant
I really hope you get your BFP soon as you kept the hope alive for me

Annonomous29 · 13/02/2025 23:37

@gtx1797h hey hope you’re well just wanted to let you know that I had my dye scan yesterday and it turns out that my left tube is blocked however that doesn’t explain the infertility. It’s been about two years right now. I hope you’ve got the used to got your BFP. I’ll let you know the next steps.

aggiemay24 · 11/02/2025 08:52

Bex4567 · 05/11/2023 09:48

No I didn't due on today going into month 4

Heya Bex.

Just stumbled upon your post when searching about BFN on 9DPO. As that's what I have currently. Read your journey and wondered if you did fall pregnant.

We've been trying for our first baby for 39 cycles (3 years!). Had all the possible tests, all normal, nothing wrong. Just unexplained infertility. I'm now 41 as been trying so long. (Met my husband when I was 37 and we got married after a year and started trying on honeymoon when I was 38).

We did conceive on cycle 16 and I got my BFP early on 8DPO but it ended in a loss at 6+5. :-(

I kinda expect to get a BFP early so getting a BFN on 9DPO tells me I'm out.

Any encouragement would be appreciated. Thanks all.

Annonomous29 · 18/12/2024 11:21

I have not done the xray yet when i do i will let u know

Annonomous29 · 18/12/2024 11:21

gtx1797h · 14/12/2024 14:41

@Annonomous29 it so cruel! Can you let me know how the due xray goes? Is this on the NHS? I think o need this but am petrified of doctors due to a previous bad experience!
im 2 days late now. Body is messing with me as im sure im not pregnant
last month 25 day cycle this month 30 majorly messing with me. So horrible

Hey sorry forbthe delay

yes its on Nhs and i had to ask to be referred to fertility which my gp did not refer as i have 2 previous children so my Gynae reffered me to fertility.

Gps try their best to not refer nowadays.

gtx1797h · 14/12/2024 14:42

*dye

gtx1797h · 14/12/2024 14:41

@Annonomous29 it so cruel! Can you let me know how the due xray goes? Is this on the NHS? I think o need this but am petrified of doctors due to a previous bad experience!
im 2 days late now. Body is messing with me as im sure im not pregnant
last month 25 day cycle this month 30 majorly messing with me. So horrible

9dpo bfn am I out
Annonomous29 · 11/12/2024 10:02

gtx1797h · 09/12/2024 18:07

@Annonomous29 hey how are you ?
still nothing my end due on today! So bloody Wish it will happen next year

@gtx1797h
Hey all good thanks still no news on my end… this month i was 6 dsys late and that never happens so had had my hopes up but what can you do.
im having investigations i am due to have a dye xray of my uterus fallopian tubes to see if anything is wrong . Hopefully they can get to thr bottom of why i cant fall pregs at all..

gtx1797h · 09/12/2024 18:07

@Annonomous29 hey how are you ?
still nothing my end due on today! So bloody Wish it will happen next year

ClaudiaRaff · 17/11/2024 12:34

So frustrated, 12dpo today and AF did not appear. Now it took a bit of photo manipulation to get the faintest of lines on the top two tests to appear but the top is 11 dpo fmu and 2nd down is 12dpo fmu. Surely if I was actually pregnancy they would be unmistakenly visible at this stage and not just the faintest of shadows? Now I'm not looking for false hope from anybody, just maybe someone who has been in a similar situation before and what their outcome was?

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Annonomous29 · 13/11/2024 00:20

gtx1797h · 12/11/2024 22:11

@Annonomous29 afraid not!
giving up hope now
it’s absolutely useless!
how are you getting on?

@gtx1797h
hey same been over a yr now also giving up feel like i was stupid to have kept my hopes up even the lube didn’t help. Dr say they cannot help as i have 2 kids.

gtx1797h · 12/11/2024 22:11

@Annonomous29 afraid not!
giving up hope now
it’s absolutely useless!
how are you getting on?

Annonomous29 · 31/10/2024 15:38

@gtx1797h
any luck????

Annonomous29 · 16/10/2024 23:35

@gtx1797h fingers crossed for you i really hope it is….☺️ keep me updated

gtx1797h · 16/10/2024 16:13

10DPO today on route home from work and had the sharpest pain for about 30 seconds
was thinking could be implantation pain….@Annonomous29

Annonomous29 · 14/10/2024 14:31

gtx1797h · 14/10/2024 13:21

Same it makes no sense, what tests did you have done? As everything with you is clear I would try soy isoflavanes before ovulation to see if that works @Annonomous29

I done the ovulation test had gynaecologist check ultrasound hubby had sperm anylasis all came back positive i might give it a try.

gtx1797h · 14/10/2024 13:21

Same it makes no sense, what tests did you have done? As everything with you is clear I would try soy isoflavanes before ovulation to see if that works @Annonomous29

Annonomous29 · 14/10/2024 08:16

gtx1797h · 14/10/2024 00:58

Mine is now also a year next month! Hoping it’s our time soon x @Annonomous29

Fingers crossed I just don’t seen to understand where we are going wrong tbh.

gtx1797h · 14/10/2024 00:58

Mine is now also a year next month! Hoping it’s our time soon x @Annonomous29

Annonomous29 · 13/10/2024 19:54

@gtx1797h
aww same nothings worked yet for me have not tried anything extra heard the lube works will try it had some tests done same with Dp all came back normal so just don’t know where I am going wrong been a year this month since ttc.. getting really upset now… i just hope theres a miracle.

gtx1797h · 13/10/2024 11:49

Hey same from me still chasing a positive test
nothing
we have not DTD enough this month so I know it’s not worked but I’m taking progesterone and baby aspirin anyway
I did take soy isoflavanes and had VERY strong ovulation but as I say we only DTD 2 days before and 1 day after ovulation so it hasn’t worked
how are you please tell me something has worked for you

Annonomous29 · 13/10/2024 01:40

@gtx1797h hey how are you???

Annonomous29 · 29/07/2024 10:00

@gtx1797h
Great Good luck

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