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2023 TTC 35+ Part 6

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VixFromThe6ix · 23/10/2023 21:40

New thread as the other one ran out of space

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VixFromThe6ix · 21/11/2023 18:08

@FiddleLeaf I remember you!! I'm so sorry about the results of IVF. I'm crossing all my fingers and toes that your symptoms lead to a BFP. 🤞🏻🙏💞
Out of curiousity... Do you get a free IVF cycle if one you paid for didn't result in birth? Or you have to pay again if you want another cycle? 20,000gbp sounds so expensive!!! That's like 33,000cad. Wow...

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H0pefull · 21/11/2023 18:08

Thinking of you @worldwidetravel2017 sending you lots of love and strength🤍 echo @VixFromThe6ix , I hope you have some good support at home and lots of people around you to lift you up xx

VixFromThe6ix · 21/11/2023 18:04

@worldwidetravel2017 just read your updates. I'm thinking of you. I'm hoping for the best possible outcome given the circumstances. I hope you're getting good support at home. I'll continue to read up on your updates. I'm sending you positivity, strength and virtual hugs.

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worldwidetravel2017 · 21/11/2023 12:41

Im telling nhs gp tonight i stopped daily folic acid yest
Havent had weird am neck rash today - i think theres a coralation
My folate is high
And in red on a referal online

worldwidetravel2017 · 21/11/2023 12:39

Liver bloods,back
Badnews.

Liver function - serum alt liver too high
And abnornal
.
Has been higher b4 when had ebv / glandular fever last yr but then was tested and marked normal again

Hosp rang - colonoscopy tuesday - pm

Eek

They removed many polyps in may

Praying they havent grown back
Praying anything hasnt spread too much

FiddleLeaf · 21/11/2023 11:56

Thanks @SnookyPook & @CurlyWurly1991 :) It was a rough summer but I’m feeling quite strong, mentally & physically at the mo. I do hope this is my time - finally! I think I’m 6 or 7DPO so will test this weekend. I realise I sound mad regarding symptoms but I knew only a few days I was pregnant previously due to the heartburn.

If no joy then we’re having a FET cycle in December 🙏🏼

worldwidetravel2017 · 21/11/2023 07:01

Angelsrose · 21/11/2023 00:22

@worldwidetravel2017 I was on folic acid 5mg daily for a year prior to conceiving. I didn't experience any side effects. It may be an idea to discuss with your GP.

Will do today - thanks

Angelsrose · 21/11/2023 00:22

@worldwidetravel2017 I was on folic acid 5mg daily for a year prior to conceiving. I didn't experience any side effects. It may be an idea to discuss with your GP.

worldwidetravel2017 · 20/11/2023 23:38

Do any of you take 5 mg folic acid prescription

?

Due to weight/ BMI etc.??

I read the below today -

When taken by mouth: It is likely safe for most people to take folic acid in doses of no more than 1 mg daily. Doses higher than 1 mg daily may be unsafe. These doses might cause stomach upset, nausea, diarrhea, irritability, confusion, behavior changes, skin reactions, seizures, and other side effects.

^ im on 5mg folic acid - could that be making me itchy

5mg due to current weight current BMI

Prescription

As per Tommy's baby charity advice etc

Cressie2 · 20/11/2023 21:51

@worldwidetravel2017 I hope you get your results for the bloods tonight/tomorrow and that you’re ok. It sounds like the NHS and private doctors are carrying out all of the investigations they can to get to the bottom of things and I hope you have your answers soon ❤️

SnookyPook · 20/11/2023 20:57

@FiddleLeaf so sorry to hear of your loss. That must have been a rollercoaster of emotions. Wow that would be wonderful if after everything it happens naturally! Everything crossed for you! When do you think you would test?

CurlyWurly1991 · 20/11/2023 20:51

@H0pefull Ah ok, that makes sense. Sorry to hear that it has been such a long road for you. No doubt waiting lists are long everywhere. I’m just at the start of even considering any medical intervention, of course we all hope it happens naturally first time! And it just doesn’t. Sending you luck for this cycle x

CurlyWurly1991 · 20/11/2023 20:49

@FiddleLeaf I remember you… I’m very sorry to hear about the miscarriage and no wonder you wanted some time away from it all. I hope the sensations you are feeling are the start of something very positive…

FiddleLeaf · 20/11/2023 19:51

Evening, I used to post in this thread as summer began then I moved to the IVF thread. Was successful first time but sadly ended as a MC somewhere between weeks 6-7.

We’ve had 2 months off to physically and mentally recover. For the first time in 2 years I didn’t do a single OPK & something funky is going on… I had heartburn (only had that when pregnant) and I’m having some very strange sensations in my lower stomach. Almost like pinching and feels near the surface rather than deep within my body so lord knows! We have our first IVF appt since the MC tomorrow to discuss FET but imagine if this is the month after all this trauma and £20k spent! I’ll be thrilled of course but totally bamboozled!

@worldwidetravel2017 - I read through the thread and your story. Thinking of you xxx

SnookyPook · 20/11/2023 19:06

@worldwidetravel2017 thinking of you xx

H0pefull · 20/11/2023 16:43

@CurlyWurly1991 my referral is in progress already as we're about 17 months in! Unfortunately the waiting list is very long in my area. I have been on the list since August, so hopefully not too much longer to wait😬

CurlyWurly1991 · 20/11/2023 16:03

Seems like we are in a similar position @H0pefull as my GP has said the same about onward referral. Do you need to wait 1 year for the referral? My GP agreed to do the hormone and fertility tests from 6 months and said if needed the fertility referral would be from 1 year, so about April.

H0pefull · 20/11/2023 15:58

Thank you @CurlyWurly1991 , that's really helpful! My result was 27, I have spoken with my GP this afternoon and he also said this is classed as borderline, so he would like me to repeat over the next 2 months, so to paint a "better" picture.

That's really interesting about your research showing 18, definitely something I am going to read more on tonight to get my head around it better!

Due AF in the next few days, hopefully i won't need to repeat the tests if this is the month, but if not we have a way forward. GP said if my next bloods also come back low, then we will be in a good place for when our fertility clinic referral comes through. Such a mind game isn't it?!

Thanks again for your reply xx

CurlyWurly1991 · 20/11/2023 15:31

@worldwidetravel2017 good to hear things are in motion to clarify the situation. Hope all turns out benign/treatable xx

@H0pefull day 21 blood tests need to be taken 7 days after ovulation. This is when progesterone levels peak. It can be hard to time this. My last test was taken 7 days after I had ovulated on day 26, so it was actually day 34. It has to be 7 days after ovulation in order to be a reliable result. Do you mind me asking what your result was? Mine was about 28 which GP has said is borderline. They want 30 to confirm ovulation/reliably sustain pregnancy. Thing is that I’ve read research actually says 18 should be the threshold, and lots of nhs trusts use this number. I’m sure higher progesterone is better though, as it makes miscarriage less likely. I’m repeating my day 21 tests in a few days but annoyingly it will fall on a Sunday. I asked the GP and she said first thing at 8dpo is better than earlier afternoon 6dpo (closes early on Saturdays). In case you’re wondering about timing etc.

H0pefull · 20/11/2023 15:22

Sounds like it is all moving fast for you @worldwidetravel2017 , I hope you can get some answers soon and that it all comes good for you x

worldwidetravel2017 · 20/11/2023 14:28

Had NHS urgent bloods this am
Sorta scarily those results should be on app by end of day ..

Have private gp video call tomorrow am

Getting a private liver mri very soon in London

worldwidetravel2017 · 20/11/2023 14:27

H0pefull · 20/11/2023 12:14

Morning ladies, hope everyone's ok. Thinking of you today @worldwidetravel2017 , let us know how you get on if you feel ok to do so xx

I'm after some advice this morning if anybody can help. I have had my day 21 bloods back this morning and have been asked to repeat them as they're not high enough to confirm ovulation. I was unable to go on my actual day 21 as there was no appointments available, so i went first thing in the morning on day 23 instead. So my question is could this be the reason for the low result? I'm unsure if I just went for the day 21 bloods too late, or does it not work like that and would the reading still be the same on day 21 or day 23? Sorry if I sound really stupid here, it's just all so confusing. I have only seen the results in my NHS app this morning so I will of course discuss with my GP and repeat the bloods as they have requested, but I just thought I would ask here as well for some opinions.

Thanks for any help you can give xx

@H0pefull your ovulation could of been say day 15

How long are your cycles - do they fluctuate?

August my ovulation = cycle day 21

October it was cycle day 15 ...

7 days diff basically

H0pefull · 20/11/2023 12:14

Morning ladies, hope everyone's ok. Thinking of you today @worldwidetravel2017 , let us know how you get on if you feel ok to do so xx

I'm after some advice this morning if anybody can help. I have had my day 21 bloods back this morning and have been asked to repeat them as they're not high enough to confirm ovulation. I was unable to go on my actual day 21 as there was no appointments available, so i went first thing in the morning on day 23 instead. So my question is could this be the reason for the low result? I'm unsure if I just went for the day 21 bloods too late, or does it not work like that and would the reading still be the same on day 21 or day 23? Sorry if I sound really stupid here, it's just all so confusing. I have only seen the results in my NHS app this morning so I will of course discuss with my GP and repeat the bloods as they have requested, but I just thought I would ask here as well for some opinions.

Thanks for any help you can give xx

CurlyWurly1991 · 20/11/2023 11:53

@worldwidetravel2017 hope all goes ok with the medical checks today x

1dpo here based on OPKs. Seen GP and having the day 21 repeated as progesterone came back low. GP says they can’t prescribe anything for raising progesterone, I would need to be referred after 1 year (so Apr 24). Seems like a long way away, hopefully we don’t need the referral but it’s good to have a plan.

CurlyWurly1991 · 20/11/2023 09:21

@Pineappleapple thurs 23rd looks like day 21 equivalent (7 dpo)