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11DPO, symptoms and BFN

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JMasey · 23/10/2023 17:29

Hi all, just thought I'd create a post based on other people's BFP to give me a little hope. Currently 11DPO. I had some quite blazing symptoms at 8/9DPO. Breasts felt a bit tender and fuller. Lower back pain. And light cramping. Been testing from 8DPO and nothing 😩. Anyone got BFP late on? In conceived twice before but first ended in MMC at 10 weeks and second a chemical/early miscarriage at 5weeks.

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Cosythere · 24/10/2023 08:47

Morning, so I had a squinter this morning, I've called it a bfn because i don't know if I was just seeing things.

I'm going to test this afternoon though.

@JMasey at 12dpo with my first dc I was getting really faint lines, there is still hope.

rosecbrm · 24/10/2023 08:40

Thanks @JMasey and so sorry to hear about your chemical!

Yeah I didn't have many symptoms either tbh, only a achey lower back.

I actually bled for just over a day after my positive which made me think it was a chemical, but I ended up doing a test a week later as I knew something was off, and it was a lot darker but unfortunately something wasn't right and I was referred to epu for blood tests, which confirmed the misscarriage!

Thank you, fingers crossed for you too 🤞🏼 x

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JMasey · 24/10/2023 08:32

Welcome to this late thread @rosecbrm. Oh really a few people have said around 13DPO for their first BFP. I suppose I'm comparing it to a few months ago with my chemical I got a faint BFP at 11DPO. Fingers crossed for you this month 🤞🏼

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rosecbrm · 24/10/2023 08:31

Hey all, can I join?

I'm 4dpo today! Had a miscarriage at around 5 weeks in early September but I remember I didn't test positive with that until around 13 dpo and it was super super faint!

Sending lots of baby dust xxx

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JMasey · 24/10/2023 08:25

@Longtobe2023 fingers crossed for us

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Longtobe2023 · 24/10/2023 08:19

@JMasey mine is also due Friday, let’s think positive! We still have time 🤞🏼

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JMasey · 24/10/2023 08:17

@Longtobe2023 AF is due Friday

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Longtobe2023 · 24/10/2023 07:37

@JMasey sorry to hear that lovely! When is AF due?

ill probably cave and go get some today and end up doing one tonight knowing me! I really do feel like I’m out but holding on to that glimmer of hope!

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JMasey · 24/10/2023 07:34

Well 12DPO today and another BFN 😩

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Longtobe2023 · 24/10/2023 07:15

Morning ladies! Tested this morning at 11dpo and got another negative, I did realise though that I’ve not looked at the sensitivity of the tests and it’s the 25 one so hoping that’s the reason and it’s not the temp dip I’ve just got 😩 3 days till AF so I have time…. Hope you all get on amazing on yours this morning!

Yes that could definitely not help...are you going to get some sensitive ones or just wait?

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Longtobe2023 · 24/10/2023 07:26

Thankyou for that @VixFromThe6ix ✨

Longtobe2023 · 24/10/2023 07:15

Morning ladies! Tested this morning at 11dpo and got another negative, I did realise though that I’ve not looked at the sensitivity of the tests and it’s the 25 one so hoping that’s the reason and it’s not the temp dip I’ve just got 😩 3 days till AF so I have time…. Hope you all get on amazing on yours this morning!

VixFromThe6ix · 23/10/2023 22:16

I'm part of another thread and one of our posters had a positive test on 13dpo so don't count yourself out. You could implant up till 12 dpo and test would only show 48hrs after implantation

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JMasey · 23/10/2023 22:10

🤞🏼

11DPO, symptoms and BFN
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JMasey · 23/10/2023 22:10

Just seen this on another thread which gives me hope! 

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Longtobe2023 · 23/10/2023 21:12

Hi @Lovelesslily hope your doing good! The brown spotting sounds a promising sign for implantation ✨

I can totally relate to the staring at a test till I can see a second line lol it drives us all Wappy this TWW doesn’t it!

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JMasey · 23/10/2023 21:11

Sorry @Lovelesslily just seen your 8/9 DPO! 🙈

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JMasey · 23/10/2023 21:11

Lovelesslily · 23/10/2023 21:08

Good luck all 🤞🤞

I'm only 8/9 DPO but have been experiencing quite bad lower back pain, some sharp stabbing sensations in lower abdomen and nausea/weird taste in my mouth on and off for last 2 days.
Also earlier this afternoon had the tiniest amount of brown spotting when I wiped.

I tested today despite clearly being too early and obviously BFN (though I stared at it so long I half convinced myself there was something 😅)

Hope for some positive news on the thread in next few days!

Welcome and all them symptoms sound promising. Similar to mine but have had BFN. How many DPO are you?

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Cosythere · 23/10/2023 21:10

@Longtobe2023 thank you. Yes I'll be testing, I can't help myself. I already have 1dc and remember being around 11/12dpo when I got my bfp. Those tests were extremely faint but positive. Can't remember much symptoms and only remembered to test after an implantation bleed.

Hi @Lovelesslily fingers crossed for you!

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JMasey · 23/10/2023 21:10

Cosythere · 23/10/2023 20:56

Good luck ladies 🤞
I'm 10dpo today. Some cramping and nausea that knocked me off guard. Came down with a cold yesterday too so just feeling rotten.

Testing negative but know it's still early days.

Yes still early days for you. I'm 11DPO today but I feel out already. I feel I would of tested positive by now

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JMasey · 23/10/2023 21:09

Longtobe2023 · 23/10/2023 20:51

@JMasey ill also be joining you tomorrow ha! Keep me posted how you get on ✨ the other thing I’ve had that’s very strange the last few days as well is very sore gums, very strange!

Yes keep me updated too! Oh really I'm sure Iv read somewhere that could be a symptom/sign 🤞🏼

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Lovelesslily · 23/10/2023 21:08

Good luck all 🤞🤞

I'm only 8/9 DPO but have been experiencing quite bad lower back pain, some sharp stabbing sensations in lower abdomen and nausea/weird taste in my mouth on and off for last 2 days.
Also earlier this afternoon had the tiniest amount of brown spotting when I wiped.

I tested today despite clearly being too early and obviously BFN (though I stared at it so long I half convinced myself there was something 😅)

Hope for some positive news on the thread in next few days!

Longtobe2023 · 23/10/2023 20:59

@Cosythere welcome to the last part of our TWW! here’s hoping we all get a nice surprise this month ✨ cold season is upon us, hopefully you feel better soon!

will you also be testing again tomorrow?

Cosythere · 23/10/2023 20:56

Good luck ladies 🤞
I'm 10dpo today. Some cramping and nausea that knocked me off guard. Came down with a cold yesterday too so just feeling rotten.

Testing negative but know it's still early days.

Longtobe2023 · 23/10/2023 20:51

@JMasey ill also be joining you tomorrow ha! Keep me posted how you get on ✨ the other thing I’ve had that’s very strange the last few days as well is very sore gums, very strange!