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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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571 replies

MixedCouple · 17/10/2023 06:45

Morning ladies.

AF showed up yesterday 16th Oct Booooo. This is my 9th cycle. Made an apt with GP as I am over 35 and we really tried everything so now need some tests and OH to.
TTC No.2. LO is 2 this month. Was hoping for 2 under 2. But ah well...... We plan but God is the best of planners.

Please join! And hopefully we see some BFPs this month.

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ceruleansky · 24/11/2023 17:05

@MrsHousePlant
Ooh what are you feeling? Yes I'd love to join I have soooo many questions since this is my first time lol!
I don't feel anything except something like period cramps, to be honest..
My app says 4 weeks and 3 days

MrsHousePlant · 24/11/2023 16:47

@ceruleansky a funny mix of symptoms so far but all good 😊first appointment is just over a week away. Can’t wait to have you join us over in the pregnancy forums! How are you feeling?

ceruleansky · 24/11/2023 16:44

@MrsHousePlant
Thank you so much!! How's everything coming along?

@Outliers
Thank you!! How is your health? 😊

@hicketypickety
Thank you for all your reassuring words!! 💜
How are you doing?

I did a beta hcg blood test and it was 400 so now I can rest assured. 😀

Tigger1116 · 24/11/2023 14:10

Can anyone help I’m 12dpo and negative test am I out af due tomorrow or Sunday been having different symptoms tired leg aches extra saliva cm and boobs hurt like never before so these are unusual for me am I out

Bealilet · 24/11/2023 13:36

@LetstalkaboutBruno mine are neg too so we’re in the same boat. On to next month!

hicketypickety · 24/11/2023 10:30

@ceruleansky oh wow!!! Fantastic news for you, so pleased!!

LetstalkaboutBruno · 24/11/2023 09:38

Negative this morning for me 👎🏼. I kinda expected as much but with a little hope sprinkled on top.

Outliers · 24/11/2023 09:13

Congratulations @ceruleansky and @Elg90!

@LetstalkaboutBruno I'm afraid those do look negative atm. But hopefully things change

Slowcookertea · 24/11/2023 07:33

Aw @ceruleansky this is amazing. I know how you feel - I have taken 5 tests, 3 different brands and am still unsure haha. Congratulations though, that’s defos positive tests!

MrsHousePlant · 24/11/2023 07:16

Ahhh @ceruleansky I’m so pleased for you!!

ceruleansky · 24/11/2023 00:38

AF is two days late.
I still can't believe it??? Somehow I can't believe it unless I hear the doctor confirm it!

Why are two of them so faint.. 🤔

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LetstalkaboutBruno · 23/11/2023 20:13

Hi, I am hoping to join, I am suspected 10/11DP although not confirmed as I have irregular cycles and don't temp. I am CD 54 (PCOS). I never have natural cycles and have had many transfers from IVF which have sadly ended with a MC or CP.

I did a test at lunchtime today suspecting it to be negative and to my surprise I thought something was catching my eye. I then left it for a little whilst on an online call for work and caught a glimpse of the line again. I retook a photo (pic 2, white background) and the line that I thought I could see was much more obvious. Now, I’m aware that the second pic is way out of the time limit to check the test but… I’m not sure if it’s just more obvious or if it’s an evap. It’s full thickness and not a slim line but I can’t work out colour as it’s too light.

Any thoughts?

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Elg90 · 23/11/2023 18:07

Joining :) finally got my positive after 9 months ttc following a mmc

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Optimistic2021 · 22/11/2023 10:15

Slowcookertea · 22/11/2023 09:23

@Optimistic2021 Ahh I see! I only used the cheap strip ones so I was peeing on them through the day! 😂
I’d say if you’re unsure, be cautious, treat it as positive and it won’t do any harm!

I might start using those instead, saves any confusion! 😂

Slowcookertea · 22/11/2023 09:24

@Blueberry1990 congratulations! 🥳

Slowcookertea · 22/11/2023 09:23

@Optimistic2021 Ahh I see! I only used the cheap strip ones so I was peeing on them through the day! 😂
I’d say if you’re unsure, be cautious, treat it as positive and it won’t do any harm!

Optimistic2021 · 22/11/2023 09:16

Slowcookertea · 22/11/2023 06:28

I think this could be right! Sometimes my OPKs would be different depending on the time of day as well. Maybe test again this morning to confirm?

The instructions say not to test again after getting a smiley face so maybe I just need to hope for the best and assume it's right 😅

TrishyLou1111 · 22/11/2023 09:00

trebuvie · 22/11/2023 07:24

@TrishyLou1111 are you 100% sure on your ovulation dates? I had something similar, kept testing and got stronger and stronger lines so definitely pregnant, but realised the progression was maybe more consistent with conceiving the second time we dtd that week i.e. 3 days later than I thought (I didn't do opks so was estimating based on period dates)

Well, it was my first month using OPKS and whatnot, so I can't be 100% certain.

AF is due today, and she hasn't arrived yet.

I did a FRER, and that was negative, and i have period cramps, so I think I'm out. I'll never use the CB again! 7 intotal that gave me positives, and they definitely weren't evaps. They came up in the time frame. How are they allowed to sell them!

How are you getting on xx

Blueberry1990 · 22/11/2023 08:54

Just got mt BFP on a clearblue digital at 10dpo 🎉🎉 first full month of trying and using OPKs and I have PCOS with cycles ranging from 30-70 days

trebuvie · 22/11/2023 07:24

@TrishyLou1111 are you 100% sure on your ovulation dates? I had something similar, kept testing and got stronger and stronger lines so definitely pregnant, but realised the progression was maybe more consistent with conceiving the second time we dtd that week i.e. 3 days later than I thought (I didn't do opks so was estimating based on period dates)

Slowcookertea · 22/11/2023 06:28

Optimistic2021 · 21/11/2023 14:43

Hi,

Can anyone help? I'm using the pink clearblue ovulation sticks and normally do it first thing in the morning. Was running around getting DC ready and forgot to check it and when I then looked it had gone off so took the test strip out and a blank circle showed up so assuming it was blank.

Decided to test this afternoon and a smiley face came up so now I'm wondering if I'm about to ovulate or if I'm mucked it up testing twice in one day? The control line on the stick looked quite strong this morning which I thought was weird as flo days ovulation tomorrow and I'm normally a couple of days after that and then the control line this afternoon is strong and looks the same as it normally does when I get my peak.

Is it likely that the test is right and I'm about to ovulate (earlier than normal) or have I mucked it up? 😂

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I think this could be right! Sometimes my OPKs would be different depending on the time of day as well. Maybe test again this morning to confirm?

Slowcookertea · 22/11/2023 05:57

Hello, I wonder if anyone could help!
I posted a while ago when I was CD2 and have since been reading.

I am now CD 25 and 9 DPO.

I tested this morning (after being so sure I could be patient and wait for my missed period!)

Ive never taken a test for as this is cycle 1…but is this two lines…? It’s just a cheap one from Superdrug which says I can test 4 days before my missed period which is today/tomorrow.

I can’t decide if it’s just making it up!

thank you!

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Optimistic2021 · 21/11/2023 14:43

Hi,

Can anyone help? I'm using the pink clearblue ovulation sticks and normally do it first thing in the morning. Was running around getting DC ready and forgot to check it and when I then looked it had gone off so took the test strip out and a blank circle showed up so assuming it was blank.

Decided to test this afternoon and a smiley face came up so now I'm wondering if I'm about to ovulate or if I'm mucked it up testing twice in one day? The control line on the stick looked quite strong this morning which I thought was weird as flo days ovulation tomorrow and I'm normally a couple of days after that and then the control line this afternoon is strong and looks the same as it normally does when I get my peak.

Is it likely that the test is right and I'm about to ovulate (earlier than normal) or have I mucked it up? 😂

Kfish56 · 21/11/2023 14:08

Hello,
can anyone help me. I’m on cycle day 21 today. I had a positive opk on 17th November, really clear ovulation pains and my BBT confirmed I ovulated. My temp has been up for the past 3 days and then this morning it went back down below cover line. I decided to do another opk today as the temp dip seemed unusual for me and I have another positive opk.
does anyone know what might be going on?

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paigeeemicj · 21/11/2023 12:33

Jee95 · 21/11/2023 09:42

Could someone give me some advice or reassurance. I’m currently 6dpo and this is our 10th cycle trying to conceive our first.

We spoke to my GP about 4 months ago who said to wait a year (which would be Jan time).

I currently don’t have any symptoms, besides slight sore boobs which I get anyway before my period. I’m taking folic acid and a few other supplements - the GP said royal jelly is good - but anecdotal.

I really think that I can’t have children. This month has been calm and I’m not fixating as much as I would be. Last month I had lots of pregnancy symptoms that I’d never experienced before and got two faint lines for a pregnancy test - but obviously nothing happened.

If you had faint lines it could be that you had a chemical pregnancy. I'm on my 18th cycle trying to conceive my first now but doctors are being useless to me since I've had two miscarriages and an ectopic. I knew it would take a while for me as I was diagnosed with PCOS and Endometriosis when I was 16

Don't give up hope at all it's not likely at all you're unable to have kids. It'll happen one day :) if nothings happened by January go back to the doctors and they should be able to help with some medication