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6dpo carry on thread number 3

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PADonk · 09/10/2023 08:19

Starting a new chat as we filled up the last one. New members always welcome 🤗

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Catson · 19/10/2023 23:27

@hrhxo I only think I ovulated when I did going by cm. I don't track any other way, so it could be a max of 3 days out, but unlikely

PADonk · 19/10/2023 18:20

@Catson everytime I’ve got pregnant I’ve been absolutely convinced AF was imminent… can you get hold of an early detection?

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HRHXO · 19/10/2023 16:52

@Catson strange! Are you sure of your ovulation date? Hope this could be the start of something for you!

Catson · 19/10/2023 15:37

@JulyT my usual pre AF cramps and just that feeling. Not very scientific I know

JulyT · 19/10/2023 15:06

@Catson what makes you think AF is coming? What symptoms do you have?

Catson · 19/10/2023 15:03

So I thought I was getting my period. It still hasn't arrived and I did a test this morning (cheap 25hcg supermarket cheapy) and got a very faint line outside the time frame. I also have what looks like watery ewcm but feels like AF. Do I ignore it all? Approx 14dpo. Was expecting AF anytime from Tuesday until today. No sign so far, unless the watery ewcm is a precursor

JulyT · 18/10/2023 21:55

@HRHXO love this 🥰 You don’t sound like you’ve lost the plot…just dedicated to the cause 😂😉👌🏼

HRHXO · 18/10/2023 21:37

@Catson hahah I used to pile a load of stuff like bodywash and pads but now I just roll straight up to the counter with them in hand 😆
Oh and @JulyT I've heard small amounts of cough syrup with guaifenesin can loosen cervical mucus ie make it more like ewcm which is good for sperm to move through towards the egg lol. I've also heard grapefruit juice can increase ewcm. Brazil nuts and almonds are supposed to be naturally high in selenium which is good for implantation and finally according to Chinese medicine/myth, warm feet equals a warm womb which is also good for implantation!

It's probably all nonsense but hey ho makes me feel like I'm being proactive (on top of OPKs and pre conception supplements of course lol). Maybe I've officially lost the plot!

JulyT · 18/10/2023 20:57

@HRHXO

”cough syrup with guaifenesin, brazil nuts and almonds, grapefruit juice and the hot water bottle out ready (for my feet).“

do tell?!?! Lol

Catson · 18/10/2023 19:41

Thank you @hrhxo I've just looked and they're £6 for one or £9 for two, so I'll go to boots tomorrow. Do you feel conscious going in and just buying tests or is it just me that ends up filling my basket with a load of things I don't need too 🙈

Ooh what do all those things do? I'll need to get on board too!

HRHXO · 18/10/2023 19:30

@Catson the boots early ones are good and they're like £3.99 or £4.9[ I think. I've got some frer from amazon they're still my faves and I've never had an issue but we will see!!

I've clearly lost my mind because I've got cough syrup with guaifenesin, brazil nuts and almonds, grapefruit juice and the hot water bottle out ready (for my feet). Throwing everything at this next cycle 🤣

Catson · 18/10/2023 19:25

In preparation for next month. Does anyone know where I can buy reliable early detection tests?

Amazon has one step, easy@home and some frer but I'm sure I heard the frer fom Amazon aren't as reliable? I use one step at the moment, but I haven't heard great things about the amount of false positives they give, although with my stark white tests I find it hard to believe 😅😂

So does anyone know what to use and where from? I am a poas addict after about 10dpo, so something cheap too 🤪 Do local chemists stock frer does anyone know? I'm in NE England if that narrows down anywhere? Thank you

PowerVandhana1986 · 18/10/2023 18:56

Good on you.

PADonk · 18/10/2023 18:50

Thanks @everyone, I really appreciate all your lovely thoughts and messages. It is a shitty time but I’m feeling more zen than I have for a while knowing there’s literally nothing I can do now but wait until Friday - what will be will be and all that. Best of luck to everyone still in it this month (@BB78910 does that include you or has AF shown her trampy face?!) and commiserations to those who are out - definitely agree that October can feck right off xxxx

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Bl1991 · 18/10/2023 18:40

Oh @PADonk I had somehow missed some of the updates there, I’m so sorry it’s been such a turbulent time, that’s not nice at all to have to go through :( it’s such a stressful time anyway but then to have to go through that - sending lots of love and positive vibes your way x

Roses12345 · 18/10/2023 18:08

@PADonk aww I really feel shit for you with what you're going through😔 keep me updated please, @everyone Good luck next cycles this shit hard work x

Bl1991 · 18/10/2023 18:00

@PADonk oh no, sorry to hear this! Will keep everything crossed for the next cycle for you!

I tested again this morning and afternoon but BFN I think - I did however have the ‘knitting needle’ stabbing right of my belly button last night that some people talk about it and my boobs are feeling very different to PMS soreness today (like they hurt behind the nipple?)

I have also noticed the last few days I’ve been able to get some colostrum out of one nipple (not breast fed for 2.5 years, not sure if this is normal? Have read people can have this before bfps but can also indicate prolactin being too high).

I do definitely feel different today so hoping that last night was implantation at 10dpo and it’s just too soon to show on tests yet!

gl all! X

HRHXO · 18/10/2023 16:18

@PADonk so sorry you didn't get any real answers today, fingers crossed all turns out fine 💐

@BB78910 I'm not normally this superstitious but October has had a lot going on astrologically speaking and a Friday 13th and it's almost eclipse season so if I really have to blame something other than chance/luck I'm blaming the stars lol.

Here's hoping November is luckier!

Doveylc · 18/10/2023 15:55

Sorry to read about everyone. It sucks.

No sign of period yet but negative test. Clinging on to some hope but I know that is stupid!

BB78910 · 18/10/2023 13:56

@PADonk ahh I’m sorry - I can imagine what torture you’re going through. I had so much back and forth with EPAU as well. At least they’re doing your bloods instead of telling you to wait.

@Catson @HRHXO sorry you’re out. This cycle feels like it’s been unlucky for all of us

PADonk · 18/10/2023 13:19

@Catson @HRHXO thanks girls - just got out but not much more in terms of certainty. My cervix is still closed but there’s quite a lot of blood so they say inconclusive. They took my bloods and have booked me back in for Friday to see if my hcg goes up or down, so at least we’ll hopefully know by then at the latest. Hope you’re both treating yourself xx

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HRHXO · 18/10/2023 10:51

@Catson period day 2 and there's no denying it now. Getting everything prepared for the next cycle now...

@PADonk hope you're okay!

Catson · 18/10/2023 10:24

@HRHXO @Doveylc I'm the same as you, I just know that AF is on the way. Didn't bother wasting a test this morning either.
@PADonk I hope everything goes ok with you

PADonk · 18/10/2023 09:24

@BB78910 how many dpo are you now? After reading everything there is to know on brown spotting it often is a good sign!

I rang EPU and they just said the same - keep an eye and call if it gets heavier. Woke up this morning and it was like my period had arrived, with proper blood, so rang them again and they’ve agreed to see me later this morning and take bloods. There’s not been any since (over 2 hours) and I don’t have cramp so still trying to cling on to some hope but tbh I’d rather just know now if it is bad news, the uncertainty and anxiety is driving me mad. Keep fingers crossed for me please 🙏🏼

@Catson @Doveylc @HRHXO sorry to hear that and best of luck for next cycle 🤞🏼

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BB78910 · 18/10/2023 09:15

Hey everyone! Sorry I’ve been preoccupied with family etc.
@PADonk could you not call the EPAU or go via A&E to get referred there? Red would definitely make them give you a referral so you don’t have to wait for the scan.
ive just been brown spotting, day 5 now and no sign of AF but last night I had the worst cramps, back and front and radiating down my legs - it woke me up at 4am. Fully expected AF to come in full swing this morning but nothings changed. I also rarely cramp when I’m on as well so it was well out of character