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Conception

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Anyone TTC from Jan 2024?

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skyerojo · 29/09/2023 17:50

Any other lurkers out there patiently (or impatiently!) waiting to TTC in the new year?

Anything in particular you're doing to prepare?

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CosmoMango · 07/10/2024 09:38

Thank you @StampOnTheGround
I am finding it very difficult getting through the first few weeks. I am worrying about miscarriage risk and my first scan. I found out 11 days ago now and still have almost 2 weeks to wait where I'll be almost 7 weeks. It's so difficult

StampOnTheGround · 06/10/2024 21:12

Ahhh that's amazing @CosmoMango - replied at the same time as you! Congratulations to you too!!!

Thanks @Timeforacutie all going well so far 🤞🏻 15 weeks tomorrow and will go for a private sex scan in the next week or two I think!

StampOnTheGround · 06/10/2024 21:10

Ahhh Congratulations @Timeforacutie - so pleased for you, it's crazy how life works isn't it and it hammers home it really just needs one time - you just happened to do the perfect time!! Fingers crossed for a smooth 9 months for you.

Keeping everything crossed for you @skyerojo @CosmoMango your times will come soon, sending positivity your way! Hope you're both doing well x

CosmoMango · 06/10/2024 21:09

@Timeforacutie Congrats! I got my positive 10 days ago and I'm almost 5 weeks :) praying a baby sticks

Timeforacutie · 06/10/2024 21:07

And @StampOnTheGround hope your scans are going well! How exciting !

Timeforacutie · 06/10/2024 21:06

Hi @skyerojo @StampOnTheGround @CosmoMango

Cosmo Mango - I take pregnacare preconception vitamins and they did make my cycle change.

After feeling very sad in August, and basically giving up and not trying much in September - we had sex once in the fertile window only and only because we felt like it , and

I got a positive pregnancy test on Monday !! I’m 5 weeks and 2 days !!

Im so over the moon 🥹

I was so anxious and scared to test after so many months of trying and giving it my all so I waited until my period was 4 days late 17 DPO before testing and wallah - I even got my husband to check because I preferred him to find out and tell me it was negative than me to see the negative test.

but here we are :)

in the meantime I’m still getting my thyroid investigated and they may put me on medication, we will see.

trying to keep on this journey of being chill 😎

thinking of both of you TTC and sending best wishes your way :)

CosmoMango · 23/09/2024 20:38

I agree @skyerojo if I just knew it would happen I’d feel better. It was rough having a birthday yesterday I felt quite sad and the holiday requests for Christmas will come out soon. I’ll get the worst days as I don’t have kids. I really hoped we’d be able to tell family this Christmas but looking very unlikely we will even be pregnant by Christmas now. Even then it will be Easter before we can see them again. Really praying I either did ovulate or i am going to. We’ve agreed to DTD every day until AF comes just so we don’t miss the vital time. Currently DTD 10 days in a row.

Feeling very down about it all. How are you feeling today?

skyerojo · 23/09/2024 20:24

@CosmoMango ohhh nooo yes that does sound like quite a common problem on here. And yeh I just take the standard folic acid and vit d too. Just wish someone could tell me it will happen just in its own time so I could relax and enjoy the process a bit more!

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CosmoMango · 22/09/2024 17:11

My cycles were regular and then I started pregnacare and it seems to have messed them up! Usually 31 days and ovulation CD 17-19 but no signs this month. Seems like it’s a common issue. Going to ditch them and just take folic acid and vit D

Yes it does seem to be easily for a lot of people. My sister got pregnant first try at 32 and here I am turning 26 and it feels like just a struggle.

skyerojo · 22/09/2024 14:54

Hey @CosmoMango of course, welcome. Sounds like you're giving it a great shot. We did that last month too and, while not successful, did find that ditching the OPKs was a good thing for us. Think we'll carry on this approach for a while longer.

And tell me about it, everyone seems to be pregnant at the moment and easily too. Hoping the luck spreads! 🍀

How are your cycles? Regular and everything seeming ok?

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CosmoMango · 21/09/2024 18:07

Forgot to add CD19 today

CosmoMango · 21/09/2024 18:06

Hi @skyerojo can I join you?
I’m 26 (tomorrow) and husband is 25. We’ve been trying since May but no success yet. We’ve added in pregnacare and fertility friendly lube this month and I took a break from OPK and just DTD every day/ every other day. Not convinced I’ve ovulated and feeling really down about it all. There are pregnancy announcements left right and centre on my social media

skyerojo · 20/09/2024 21:49

And hope your investigations start to bring you answers @Timeforacutie, and if they do find issues then hopefully all very easily fixed! It will be your time soon 🤞❤️

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skyerojo · 20/09/2024 21:46

@StampOnTheGround thank you for checking in, so glad everything is going well. A spring baby will be so lovely 🥰

Husband and I really felt like this was going to be our month, but period actually arrived today. So honestly, feeling low and trying to ignore the worry x

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Timeforacutie · 19/09/2024 21:35

Hi @StampOnTheGround glad your pregnancy is progressing smoothly, I hope you have an uneventful few months :)

TTC took a big backseat for me this month as I start investigating our “sub fertility”. Pre referral fertility blood tests indicated I might have a thyroid issue so I’m waiting to retest to confirm this, in the mean time we have been referred to the fertility clinic with the NHS. I think once I knew it might be years instead of months before I get pregnant then it kind of changed the game for me - not completely in a bad way.

How are you @skyerojo ?

StampOnTheGround · 19/09/2024 20:37

skyerojo · 19/08/2024 19:14

@StampOnTheGround thank you!! Still hoping this might happen!

Remind me, did you have any symptoms that made you want to test?

How are you getting on now?

Sorry just seen this, I didn't have any symptoms before my positive test and nothing really till 6 weeks I'd say.

All is good with me thank you, I had my 12 week scan yesterday and all is looking good - due date 31st March! 😊

StampOnTheGround · 19/09/2024 20:36

Hi @skyerojo @Timeforacutie - hope you're both okay, how are you getting on?

Timeforacutie · 22/08/2024 18:56

Hi @skyerojo , sorry to hear that.

Think I’m here with you in the same boat. 13DPO and started spotting and my temp is dropping.

This is cycle 8, month 10.

Allowing myself some time to feel sad 🩵

skyerojo · 22/08/2024 16:48

Sadly this cycle hasn't worked out for me either. Wishing others better luck 🍀

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skyerojo · 19/08/2024 19:14

@StampOnTheGround thank you!! Still hoping this might happen!

Remind me, did you have any symptoms that made you want to test?

How are you getting on now?

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StampOnTheGround · 19/08/2024 17:53

@skyerojo @Timeforacutie - sending you both so much luck!!!

I was naughty and tested a little early and it was negative, a few days later (must have been a longer cycle) and I was positive - so fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻

skyerojo · 19/08/2024 16:01

@Timeforacutie good restraint! I don't usually test just wait for AF, but did actually do one last night and was negative. Might try one more in the morning tomorrow when I'm 12dpo otherwise giving up for this cycle.

Pleeeeaase someone send us some luck 😆

I've got some fun plans later this week so at least I'll have a nice distraction. Got anything nice lined up for bank hol?

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Timeforacutie · 18/08/2024 22:01

Hi @skyerojo ! 9DPO, haven’t tested yet, trying not to. My app says to test a week today so it’ll either be AF coming for me or that test, here’s hoping we will both get a chance to test :)

Thinking of you too, what day are you on?

loving this summer ☀️

skyerojo · 18/08/2024 20:48

Have you tested yet @Timeforacutie?!

Yes great that you have a plan either way, sounds all really sensible. And v good sign you already know your partner is all clear.

I'm due AF in next few days and my optimism is dropping...

But fingers still firmly crossed for both of us 🤞

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Timeforacutie · 16/08/2024 16:08

Hi @skyerojo , I’m 7DPO now so starting to get itchy feet and ignoring thoughts about taking tests 😂

If we are unsuccessful this time then I will go ahead with pre-evaluation fertility tests from our GP. My partner’s already done his semen analysis and it came back all clear, I need to wait until day 2-5 of my cycle to do my blood tests. So let’s see . Either way there is a plan :) and it’s out of my control, I’ve done everything I can so can just chill I suppose!

haha im trying to finish my dissertation that’s due on 2nd September, I’m currently 7 and a half thousand words down out of 14k. So lots to keep me busy. How about you?

x