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TTC THREAD 16--THE BEST CHRISTMAS PRESENT EVER!!!

594 replies

kizzy212 · 16/12/2004 15:31

OH MY GOD

CAN YOU BELIEVE IT GIRLS, MONDAY NEGATIVE, TUESDAY NEGATIVE, I HAD GIVEN UP HOPE.

THURDAY 16TH DECEMBER BFP

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jeddah · 17/12/2004 23:27

JB you didn't upset me! honest....just having a bit of a rant and rave... really pissed off with doc ...not you!

Rudy....nice bath, chocolate and gin!

off to bed

NIGHT NIGHT

JB contacted beckif...but she has not replied hope she is ok

jingleballs · 17/12/2004 22:50

(comes in slowly/quiet.....) jeds hon, did u hear from becki at all?

MB.

RudyDudy · 17/12/2004 21:50

(((jedds))) what can I say? that is shit! You shouldn't have to do this but complain like hell as high as you can and let's hope something can get sorted sooner. Hope the bath was relaxing

jingleballs · 17/12/2004 21:22

sorry hon - didn't mean to upset u. (was only joking)

jeddah · 17/12/2004 21:22

Off for a bath and to calm myself down.

sorry girls.......very grumpy!

jeddah · 17/12/2004 21:20

I don't mean to offend anyone on a waiting list for a gynae referral....but I have worked for the NHS for 20 yrs and cared for thousands of patients and I really feel like a deserve a fraction of a thousandth millimeter of payback for this. If I WAS 10 YRS YOUNGER I WOULD NOT EXPECT ANYTHING!

jingleballs · 17/12/2004 21:19

good on u hon, u've been TTC for a yr isn't it?

Hulababy · 17/12/2004 21:16

Good for you jeddah!

jeddah · 17/12/2004 21:15

I HAVE JUST DRAFTED A LETTER TO MY GP IN DISGUST!...TELLING HER THAT i THINK THE SERVICE THAT I RECIEVED FORM HER WAS DISGUSTING....SHE SHOULD HAVE REFERRED ME 6 MONTHS AGO IN VIEW OF MY AGE!!!! AND THE WAITING LIST! I AM SO PISSED OFF!

jingleballs · 17/12/2004 21:14

good good I bet u'll get ur one b4 me - and i've had to wait lol.

jeddah · 17/12/2004 21:13

JB all in hand!

fast...... meet up in the new year...somewhere central? and not expensive! will keep you posted! there is a tread you should look at called:

AREAS FOR MEET UP

jingleballs · 17/12/2004 21:10

my god jeds, 6 months really?? can't u 'pull some strings' and get a cancellation appt as i'm sure theres bound to be a few.

FastAsleepInAManger · 17/12/2004 21:10

Where is this meet thing then?...I seemed to have missed all talk of it with my lazy post skimming ways...

jeddah · 17/12/2004 21:08

Bloody hell!!!!!!
just took me 25 mins to catch up!!!!

  1. Hester! sorry about fikin af!.....I am just so thrilled that you ov and had a 'normal cycle!'.... me and you need to speek! (can't wait for the meet!)
    Life is a strange one! fate is even stranger!....my dear friend this month is not for you.....build your strength and 'inshallah' it will happen!

  2. runtus...roll on af! 'come on you clomid!!!!'

  3. Bonkerz...sounds good new thinking of you.

  4. Kizzy when you sai 're eclap'....did you mean 'pre eclampsia' research shows that just because you suffered with this, the 1st time, does not mean it will happen again!

  5. moschops so happy for you

  6. Rudydudy.....so sorry! you are early though!

  7. JB I telehoned gynae sec today and she said waiting list was 6 fikin months!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I told het that I work for the NHS anf have done for 20yrs and I am 41!!!!!!! She had told me to ring the appointments clerk on Mon morning and have a 'chat' with her!

cd7 green light dead boring!

I am really looking forward to our meet in the new year! I can not wait to meet everyone!!!!!

FastAsleepInAManger · 17/12/2004 20:50

Ooh colin (sorry about calling you that!)..... let me say it again.....oOoooooooOooh Colin!!!!

jingleballs · 17/12/2004 20:47

light spotting, for one day only (hmmmmm)

Hulababy · 17/12/2004 20:47

so sorry about your friend fastasleep.

Colinsawmommykissingsantaclaus · 17/12/2004 20:46

Sorry about your friend, fastasleep

Well, AF consisted of really light spotting and has stopped. This is driving me crazy.

FastAsleepInAManger · 17/12/2004 20:42

I feel a bit weird talking about it here actually, she's a friend I have from the meet-ups section, I hope she doesn't mind me saying anything

FastAsleepInAManger · 17/12/2004 20:26

She was only 9 weeks Jingle...but even just she and I had discussed so many things about school years, clothes, girl/boy, names (never mind what she'd imagined etc with her dh!)... I want to do something really special for her now...and I can't think what to do at all! She's in hospital on Wednesday, she has a little 14 month old, I think she's already got something lined up for him though...

Hester made you laugh? I was serious! I absolutely love being pregnant and since I'm not allowed any more after this next one for at least 10 years - anyone want a womb? It's comfy apparently

Hulababy · 17/12/2004 19:07

Oh hester (((hugs))) so so sorry about AF.

jingleballs · 17/12/2004 19:02

Blocked Tubes

jingleballs · 17/12/2004 19:01

tania, I have something here that will blow ur drs ideas of blocked tubes = STD out of the water hon... it's from our NHS and coves some operations as well, i'm not sure how much u'll be able to have done abroad thou.

{http://www.besttreatments.co.uk/btuk/conditions/12356.html\PID Blocked tubes}

will keep looking for clymida for u thou.

jingleballs · 17/12/2004 18:56

ooh and hester - don't worry about the lenght of ur posts hon, it's not like can make another thread/ will run out of space!

jingleballs · 17/12/2004 18:55

right, then i'm up to speed now, u guys can really talk when u wanna! lol,

Firstly, any word from Jedds today? how she's gettin on with her apt etc..?

cockenzie - It is my first month of using person, I bought it last month, but wanted to do it from day one of my cycle. but it picked up O on the first month which i'm assuming is a good sign.

Rantus - hopfulyy you will be PG hon, but honestly, If u did name DC ozzy (i'd have visions of him lookin/ speaking like ozzy osbourn, so might not be a good idea for him main name!) lol.

FS - don't be so hard on urself hon, u were not to know what would happen to ur friend, how far along was she? just comfort her the best you can and help her thru it. It's just our nature that we should be jelous of friends who get PG first.

Col mum - ((((hugs)))) sorry about AF hon, (at least u can have a drink now thou!)

and finally hester...
What to say hon, My heart really does go out to you, and all the others how have had M/C perhaps it mayy be best to stop TTC for a few months, rather than stop all together? either way thou i'm sure u'll decide whats' best for urself, but as i keep sayin to you, don't be so hard on urself, u'll have ur good and bad days like everyone else, but hon, it will get better. might not be today or tomorrow but eventually things will become bearable (I only say that as I don't think the pain truly goes away) either way hon, don't give up hoping you will one day be a mum, might not be for a few months yet, but there is always hope, and as long as u believe that I think anything is possible (then again thou as i've said b4 that might be my neive outlook on life with regards to some things). take care hon. Keep ur pecker up. and it's ok to have a tear now and again. ((hugs)) sendin u over as must postive thoughts and healing vibes as I can.

ooh and finally do we know if there's any change with bonkerz, i've been thinkin about her as well.