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Too scared to get excited

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Waitwaitwait22 · 17/08/2023 18:23

Got a early positive 5dt and I cant seem to let myself get excited as previous ones ended in miscarriage or didn’t work . I feel numb about it and I just can’t feel positive about cause I’m just thinking what if .. I really wanna be positive and happy but I’m just so scared it’s gonna happen again. I probably shouldn’t of tested so early but I feel like if I watch the lines it might help as no symptoms. Sorry for the rant

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LBFseBrom · 27/08/2023 12:34

Waitwaitwait22 · 26/08/2023 16:19

We’ll there’s today a big drop in line another miscarriage in the works

I am so, so sorry, Waitwait. That must be terribly disappointing for you.

No advice from me, I am not qualified to give, however I think if I was in your shoes I'd give up testing altogether and just wait to see what happens if anything, in the meantime throwing myself into other things that are interesting and fulfilling. I have known others who have done just that and had really good lives.

I realise it isn't easy, though, easy enough for me to say but the reality for someone else is different.

Do take care of yourself.

Happyface82 · 27/08/2023 10:37

Oh no! Are you taking anything? What did the clinic say?

Sending big hugs 🤗

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Waitwaitwait22 · 26/08/2023 16:19

We’ll there’s today a big drop in line another miscarriage in the works

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Waitwaitwait22 · 24/08/2023 21:38

Thank you @russiandwarf @Happyface82 . I will probably ring epu and get an early scan if all goes well x

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Happyface82 · 24/08/2023 21:18

Such a lovely line!! When will you be having a scan?

russiandwarf · 24/08/2023 20:54

Ahhh! Been thinking about you @Waitwaitwait22 ! So happy to see all progressing nicely ❤️

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Waitwaitwait22 · 24/08/2023 20:01

@Internette i don’t think it will feel real until I see a scan with previous early miscarriage it’s hard to get excited

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Internette · 24/08/2023 19:52

The next morning you REALISE I suppose :)

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Waitwaitwait22 · 24/08/2023 19:51

@Internette thank you still doesn’t feel real 🥹

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Internette · 24/08/2023 19:45

Congratulations !!!!!!

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Waitwaitwait22 · 24/08/2023 19:39

It’s official test day 🤞🤞🌈 12dp5dt the tww is finally up time to see how this plays out 🤞🤞❤️

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Happyface82 · 22/08/2023 22:23

Aaaah look at those lines. Looking good!! Frustrating about the dates though!!

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Waitwaitwait22 · 22/08/2023 21:10

thank you @Happyface82 i just got an email from my clinic today and I have to wait for Thursday now as they put the wrong date down 😩. So 2 more days now . But I have took another test today so I’m hoping everything will be okay . I’m 10dp5dt today

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Happyface82 · 22/08/2023 20:51

Fingers crossed tomorrow!! How are you feeling?

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Waitwaitwait22 · 20/08/2023 19:55

Thank you @Happyface82 i still have til Wednesday for otd so we’ll see how the next few days go x

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Happyface82 · 20/08/2023 19:42

This looks great!! Honestly!!

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Waitwaitwait22 · 20/08/2023 18:56

@russiandwarf thank you I think I’m gonna keep my heart close to my chest for a little longer just incase. And will ring my gp in morning to see if can get in for blood test on Tuesday

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russiandwarf · 20/08/2023 18:53

Looks like good progress to me!

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Waitwaitwait22 · 20/08/2023 18:53

@Infertilitylife do u think? I can’t help but think it should be darker no? I think I’m probably very nervous to let myself get excited so I’m being negative to save heartache again .

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Infertilitylife · 20/08/2023 18:48

I think that’s amazing progression!! 🥰

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Waitwaitwait22 · 20/08/2023 18:44

The comparison of them . I’m still a little hesitant 😕

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Waitwaitwait22 · 20/08/2023 18:40

Sorry forgot to add

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Waitwaitwait22 · 20/08/2023 18:39

Just took a frer

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Happyface82 · 20/08/2023 18:06

Those tests are looking good. Will be interesting to see what the frer looks like!

russiandwarf · 20/08/2023 17:23

Not sure how helpful it is but I’ll try and attach my day 5, 6 and 7 tests. I also found that my morning tests are not as dark as afternoon!
keeping everything crossed for you 🤞

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