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Scared to test. Help please

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namechange27352 · 04/08/2023 01:43

As the title, been trying for over 10 years had all the tests etc, came back as unexplained fertility. Periods are consistently every 28 days now I've missed one and way over for this months (last was end of May). I'm too scared to test though. I know I have to or get checked out if not, I cant face another negative though. Help please

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namechange27352 · 06/08/2023 07:34

hopefully I can get a few hours sleep to pass some time

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namechange27352 · 06/08/2023 07:33

yeah we will be in, cant go anywhere car isn't working at the moment and the corner shop don't have any in stock

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MissSmiley · 06/08/2023 07:25

I'd be tempted to pop out and get a test this morning, why put yourself through the agony of waiting, assuming someone will be in for the Amazon delivery

Novice32 · 06/08/2023 07:15

Have you got plans today? A distraction would definitely be a good idea

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namechange27352 · 06/08/2023 06:43

thank you. 10pm sorry not am

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autienotnaughti · 06/08/2023 06:42

Hoping it's the news you want

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namechange27352 · 06/08/2023 06:40

by 10am, unable to sleep and a massive headache right now

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MissSmiley · 06/08/2023 06:34

@namechange27352 I'm up, what time do you think your tests will be delivered?

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namechange27352 · 06/08/2023 03:56

Wishing I had got one sooner now really need to know, getting my hopes up as I think I'm seeing signs but I don't know how much is me willing it to happen or not. Anyone around to chat?

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namechange27352 · 05/08/2023 20:43

SnookyPook · 05/08/2023 09:18

@namechange27352 everything crossed for you! I'm 37 too and still hopeful I have a few years left in me. Plenty of women into their 40s still have babies so it's certainly not last chance saloon.

Just also to say that sometimes if you are really quite a few weeks pregnant, the test may look less positive than it does early on (a thing called the hook effect) so if you get a line and think it looks too faint, don't panic. I would suggest if any line at all, ask for bloods with your GP to confirm. If you mention to them/midwives your last menstrual period date too they are likely to have you in for a scan very soon.

Sending so much love and luck your way 💗

Thank you i went for the clear blue digital ones. gl to you too

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SnookyPook · 05/08/2023 09:18

@namechange27352 everything crossed for you! I'm 37 too and still hopeful I have a few years left in me. Plenty of women into their 40s still have babies so it's certainly not last chance saloon.

Just also to say that sometimes if you are really quite a few weeks pregnant, the test may look less positive than it does early on (a thing called the hook effect) so if you get a line and think it looks too faint, don't panic. I would suggest if any line at all, ask for bloods with your GP to confirm. If you mention to them/midwives your last menstrual period date too they are likely to have you in for a scan very soon.

Sending so much love and luck your way 💗

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namechange27352 · 05/08/2023 01:32

I'm 37 so probably last chance too which is why I was worried its either pregnancy or peri

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namechange27352 · 05/08/2023 01:30

Sorry been busy today, I have some tests coming on Sunday so will update everyone then. Thank you all for your kind messages

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violetcuriosity · 04/08/2023 13:46

Ahh good luck 🤞🏻

aprilclimbs · 04/08/2023 13:30

Thinking of you OP. 🤞

Foreverhopeful23 · 04/08/2023 13:11

Have everything crossed for you x

Xcv · 04/08/2023 12:00

I’m invested! Please let us know if you’ve managed to test

fullbloom87 · 04/08/2023 11:59

Please keep up updated OP crossing all my fingers and toes for you x

MissSmiley · 04/08/2023 09:10

I finally conceived naturally after 12 years of unexplained infertility, I did have successful ivf in the meantime but never expected to get pregnant after all those years, it was quite a shock, how old are you? And have you been to get a test yet?

LacedBouquet · 04/08/2023 08:03

Aww bless you, have my fingers and toes crossed for you when you test! Please let us know how you get on 🤞🏻

TossacointoHenryCavill · 04/08/2023 06:07

namechange27352 · 04/08/2023 02:41

My last one was mostly brown just when wiping (sorry tmi)

The period at the end of May was super light?
OP that means you could potentially be as much as 13-14 weeks pregnant, if the light bleeding was just implantation bleeding. Go and get a test first thing this morning. You need to know. Antenatal care is really important. They can pick and prevent a range of issues for the mother and the baby that can be dangerous if left untreated. I know it’s scary but you know that there is a very high chance that you are pregnant and waiting until you start feeling movement or have an undeniable bump is not the best idea healthwise.
If it’s negative then mumsnet will be here for solidarity.

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namechange27352 · 04/08/2023 03:21

Summer2424 · 04/08/2023 03:18

Hi @namechange27352 really hope you get your bfp xx

Hi thank you very much

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Summer2424 · 04/08/2023 03:18

Hi @namechange27352 really hope you get your bfp xx

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namechange27352 · 04/08/2023 02:41

My last one was mostly brown just when wiping (sorry tmi)

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namechange27352 · 04/08/2023 02:36

Yes

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