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12dpo , af due in 2 days , wheres everyone at ?

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Foreverhopeful23 · 30/07/2023 10:41

12DPO , AF due in 2 days . Wheres everyone at ? Need the distraction to avoid the urge to POAS again ( already had multiple BFNs )

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Rosieposie0301 · 11/08/2023 14:56

@Belles28 no way I didn’t know they did that. In Northern Ireland we just fill in a self referral form at 8 weeks saying where we want the antenatal appointments and to give birth! We don’t see anyone to the 12w scan. We don’t even tell our GP anymore haha. Shocking

I had zero symptoms with my daughter, and such a tiny bump. I got the best pregnancy, labour, birth and baby and I need to keep everything crossed this one goes the EXACT same hahah I surely can’t get that lucky again can I?!!

Belles28 · 11/08/2023 14:54

@Rosieposie0301 me & OH were discussing an early scan last night, we had one the first time round & it was just so reassuring... the first trimester feels so long otherwise!

Belles28 · 11/08/2023 14:53

@Rosieposie0301 it's the worst right?! No nausea yet & that had crept in by now with DD 🫣 I've got all of my organs crossed that I don't suffer as much as last time!

It's not the dating scan it's the first sort of midwife appt where they run through your medical history & you decide which hosp you want to give birth at etc... I'm about 5+2 going off my ovulation date, but from my last period I'd be about 4+5. Can't wait for the dating scan to just have one date to work with. I ovulate around day 10 of my cycle rather than 14, but those 4 days feel like a massive difference don't they 🤣 x

Rosieposie0301 · 11/08/2023 14:47

@Belles28 ahh no way. That seems really early, how many weeks will you be?? Mine won’t be to end sept or early October. I’m booking in for an early 7w one 24 august tho. How funny we have the sensitive nips!! Hahah x

Butterflysunshine01 · 11/08/2023 12:49

Hey ladies, @Plumchumm sending you love and hugs I was so sorry to see your post 💛
I hope everyone is getting on okay. I have no symptoms now apart from super sore boobs! But test strips getting darker. Have calculated I'm 5 weeks 3 days. Got first appt 7th sept, seems so far away! Going on holiday tomorrow and slightly worried about the plane ride, and the heat, but going to try and relax and just enjoy it! @RCARB definitely don't count yourself out until AF arrives, my tests all were negative until after AF was due.

Belles28 · 11/08/2023 11:41

RCARB · 11/08/2023 11:36

Hi everyone!! Jumping in here...
I'm 12 DPO this morning, no signs of AF who is due to arrive in 4 days. BBT and cervix are where they should be and had a few symptoms that I'm pregnant (cramps, headache, heightened sense of smell, ridiculously gassy - sorry tmi🤣) although have been doing my best not to spot and dwell on them.
Tested this morning with Easy and Home and FRER and BFN. Stark white on both. Not even a snif!! I was absolutely devastated this am, but after some chats on another thread from some lovely ladies and giving myself a good talking to (plus a massive cry and cuddle with my dog), Ive decided that Its not over until the crimson witch arrives and I choose to stay hopeful until then. 💜

Huge Congratulations and lots of luck to all those who have their BFP . Its so nice to see the success stories!!

Sending Love and Baby dust to all still waiting like me!

Will see what the next 4 days brings for me🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Hey! With DD I had brilliant white BFNs less than 4 days before AF was due & didn't get the FAINTEST positive til the actual first day of the missed period! So as you say - it ain't over yet! Fingers crossed for you xxx

RCARB · 11/08/2023 11:36

Hi everyone!! Jumping in here...
I'm 12 DPO this morning, no signs of AF who is due to arrive in 4 days. BBT and cervix are where they should be and had a few symptoms that I'm pregnant (cramps, headache, heightened sense of smell, ridiculously gassy - sorry tmi🤣) although have been doing my best not to spot and dwell on them.
Tested this morning with Easy and Home and FRER and BFN. Stark white on both. Not even a snif!! I was absolutely devastated this am, but after some chats on another thread from some lovely ladies and giving myself a good talking to (plus a massive cry and cuddle with my dog), Ive decided that Its not over until the crimson witch arrives and I choose to stay hopeful until then. 💜

Huge Congratulations and lots of luck to all those who have their BFP . Its so nice to see the success stories!!

Sending Love and Baby dust to all still waiting like me!

Will see what the next 4 days brings for me🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Foreverhopeful23 · 11/08/2023 11:24

5 weeks today for me. Feeling OK so far , have my booking appointment with midwife on 29th August x

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Belles28 · 11/08/2023 07:53

@Rosieposie0301 omg woke up this morning with super sensitive nipps, feels like razor blades when anything touches them 😵 & these girls are SWOLLEN 🤣 I've got my booking in appointment 8th Sep xx

Rosieposie0301 · 10/08/2023 21:21

@Belles28 hey! I’m good. 5w tomorrow and basically have had no symptoms until Today my nipples have all of a sudden become SO sensitive lol! How are you??

Belles28 · 10/08/2023 20:29

How's everyone doing? xx

Plumchumm · 08/08/2023 12:49

@ReginaPhalange12 thank you ❤️

ReginaPhalange12 · 08/08/2023 10:42

I'm so sorry @Plumchumm ❤️

Plumchumm · 07/08/2023 22:35

I took soy isoflavones and I think that made me miscarry. I read a lot of posts before of it helping women get their bfp but then having an early loss. I won’t be taking those again. I think it’s just killed my desire to even try at all

Plumchumm · 07/08/2023 21:55

Thanks guys… I’m so upset and confused. I’m now bleeding heavy and all tests are negative, even early ones.. this is first time this ever happened to me

Belles28 · 07/08/2023 21:52

@Plumchumm I'm so so sorry 😞 xxxxx

Foreverhopeful23 · 07/08/2023 21:27

So sorry @Plumchumm xx

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Rosieposie0301 · 07/08/2023 20:19

@Plumchumm I’m so sorry to hear this 💔 do you think it’s a chemical? Im keeping everything crossed you get your bfp next month

Plumchumm · 07/08/2023 17:14

I have cramps and started bleeding bright red blood :(… feels like my period is here. Took a pregnancy test and it came back negative (on 25miu.. which was positive yesterday). My boobs aren’t sore anymore either
Looks like I’m having a loss 😢

Foreverhopeful23 · 07/08/2023 07:28

@Belles28 Yeah I had hyperemesis with my previous 2 so I'm hoping it doesn't appear this time . Yes with you on the hunger !! X

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Belles28 · 07/08/2023 07:06

@Foreverhopeful23 I'm glad it's been okay for you so far! Yeah not too bad just sore boobs, I seem to be getting hungry really fast after eating & like you, very very tired all the time. Nausea hit at week 5 with DD & I'm roughly 4+5 soo we'll see what happens 🫣 xx

Foreverhopeful23 · 07/08/2023 00:07

@Belles28 I'm actually not feeling too bad , little bit nauseous at times but not actually being sick . Very tired though . You ? Xx

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Belles28 · 06/08/2023 23:31

@Foreverhopeful23 how are you feeling lovely? X

Plumchumm · 06/08/2023 12:58

ReginaPhalange12 · 06/08/2023 07:07

AF arrived this morning, I'm feeling pretty disappointed but not surprised & at least I've had 2 days added to my shorter LP so pleased about that. Good luck to everyone testing soon, I hope you all get your BFPs ✨

Really sorry to hear that hun x I hope you get your bfp next month xx

tedmarie · 06/08/2023 12:01

AllieDang · 02/08/2023 06:35

@Butterflysunshine01 congratulations!!!

last night I did the third test from the clear blue that seemed to be giving me invalid readings, it’s dried differently this morning.

would there be a line if I’m not pregnant? Can I trust these? I’m about 8dpo

the last one was last night about 11pm 🤦‍♀️

I might just go to the hospital again for a blood test (I live in Thailand so not bothering the NHS it’s on my health insurance!)

@AllieDang did you get your positive confirmed?