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4 days late, negative result. Going mad!

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BePositive1982 · 17/07/2023 11:38

Hi all. First time poster so please excuse any mistakes!

I’ve been trying for a baby for 6 years. Unexplained infertility apparently!!

this month I’m 4 days late and had 2 negative tests 😞

I’ve had discharge, mild cramping and mild back ache, like my period is coming but not as intense as usually.

my cycle is never longer than 27 days. I definitely ovulated and had sex at the right time - and more 🤩

im now concerned….could this be the start of menapause? I’m 41. I really hope not but I don’t understand the lateness and negative test.

im making a DR appointment - not sure what they will do but in the mean time has anyone got any experiences or insight they could share?

thank you in advance. X

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BePositive1982 · 25/07/2023 14:31

FoodFann · 25/07/2023 14:26

@BePositive1982 sorry for your frustrating month. The same thing happened to me, I have had 27 day cycles like clockwork since I was 12! Then suddenly, AF on day 36. I was tracking ovulation and had ovulated v late so it was expected. That happened three times now.

You can get pregnancy blood tests very cheap online with instant results - pin prick tests, with delivery tomorrow. I’ve got one in the drawer but AF came before I had the chance to use it.

Good luck 🤞🏻

https://shop.pharmacy2u.co.uk/selfcheck-pregnancy-test/prd-0149740?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI9NiH0PqpgAMVk-vtCh1JlwuSEAQYAiABEgInwvD_BwE

I didn’t know you could get those! Thanks so much x

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FoodFann · 25/07/2023 14:26

@BePositive1982 sorry for your frustrating month. The same thing happened to me, I have had 27 day cycles like clockwork since I was 12! Then suddenly, AF on day 36. I was tracking ovulation and had ovulated v late so it was expected. That happened three times now.

You can get pregnancy blood tests very cheap online with instant results - pin prick tests, with delivery tomorrow. I’ve got one in the drawer but AF came before I had the chance to use it.

Good luck 🤞🏻

https://shop.pharmacy2u.co.uk/selfcheck-pregnancy-test/prd-0149740?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI9NiH0PqpgAMVk-vtCh1JlwuSEAQYAiABEgInwvD_BwE

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BePositive1982 · 25/07/2023 12:41

CurlyWurly1991 · 25/07/2023 12:19

I wonder if you are actually ovulating now and only had a LH surge previously but ovulation didn’t occur.

Thats a good point. I'm out of LH tests but will try and get some today.

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CurlyWurly1991 · 25/07/2023 12:19

I wonder if you are actually ovulating now and only had a LH surge previously but ovulation didn’t occur.

TolkiensFallow · 25/07/2023 11:37

thats terrible, you absolutely need a blood test. I’m glad you’re pushing for it

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BePositive1982 · 25/07/2023 11:33

TolkiensFallow · 25/07/2023 11:29

Can’t your gp offer a blood test?

Is your pregnancy test definitely negative? I only ask as mine are always VERY faint when positive…

Yes, definitely negative. I've tried cheap ones and digital ones. I've submitted a request online today for a blood test (can't get through on the phone). I have to say (and I wouldn't say I was usually a sufferer), the impact on my mental health makes the situation almost cruel!

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TolkiensFallow · 25/07/2023 11:29

Can’t your gp offer a blood test?

Is your pregnancy test definitely negative? I only ask as mine are always VERY faint when positive…

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BePositive1982 · 25/07/2023 11:26

So here we are, day 13 with no AF! Still negative! Occasionally nausea (probably I'm my head though). Today I'm experiencing ovulation like symptoms. Clear pain to the left and a lot of discharge. GP not much help! Any advice or anyone experienced similar?

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BePositive1982 · 23/07/2023 08:47

@Wildfloral still no AF, no symptoms of anything! So frustrating! Having never missed a period in 40 years this is very unusual. Thanks for asking

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Wildfloral · 23/07/2023 04:11

@BePositive1982 how are you going today?

CurlyWurly1991 · 22/07/2023 18:54

@Itsasomething congratulations !!! Best of luck with the next 9 months x

Itsasomething · 22/07/2023 17:26

Splashed out on some clearblues, it's a clear bfp. I need to rely less on cheapies!

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BePositive1982 · 22/07/2023 08:58

Fingers crossed!

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Itsasomething · 22/07/2023 07:38

So...woke up feeling nauseous and think I've got line eyes cause I think there's something there

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BePositive1982 · 22/07/2023 05:47

Isn’t it! Just fingers crossed for you x

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BePositive1982 · 22/07/2023 05:47

Thank you that gives me some hope. BFN for me again this morning x

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BePositive1982 · 22/07/2023 05:46

I’m sorry! Thank you x

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Blueuggboots · 22/07/2023 03:14

I didn't get a positive test until I was 11 days late for my period. He's now 12.

CaffeineAndCrochet · 22/07/2023 00:56

AF finally showed for me, a week late.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you @BePositive1982

Itsasomething · 21/07/2023 22:10

Oh! Just joining in as I'm in the same boat! 4-7 days late with same symptoms and BFN. It's so frustrating!

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BePositive1982 · 21/07/2023 20:50

How did you get on?

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BePositive1982 · 21/07/2023 20:49

Just thought I’d update to say I’m now 10 days overdue. Last test I took was 4 days ago and it was still negative. I can’t bare to take another but still no AF.

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BePositive1982 · 17/07/2023 16:24

Thank you! No I don’t track BBT.

keeping everything crossed for either a positive test or AF at the moment

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CurlyWurly1991 · 17/07/2023 16:01

Would perimenopause cause a longer luteal phase? I thought it was more likely to have irregular or absent ovulation. Do you track your BBT? That could be a good indicator. They say that 18 days of high temps and no AF is usually pregnancy. Personally I tested negative until 18dpo with my first and could be certain of the ovulation date due to BBT and only dtd a couple of times. Fingers crossed for you.

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BePositive1982 · 17/07/2023 15:46

Yes I do track very carefully 🤣 just feeling very frustrated and a little worried that my time maybe up and the menapause will have to be considered.

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