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1DPO... Any tww buddies?

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Kellyaust · 15/07/2023 07:45

Officially back to 1dpo...2nd cycle after MMC. Anyone else??

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thejollytrolleydolly · 19/07/2023 07:47

@Hopefulfirstround I'm only 8dpo but this is what I was hoping too. I've had one AF since my MMC and I've been told you're super fertile after! I know when I ovulated last month and my partner was ill for those exact 4 days so I didn't get to DTD at all. This month I ovulated on the morning of the 11th. I'll post the pics of when we dtd on the days we did we did more than once... I don't know if that helped 😂

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Hopefulfirstround · 19/07/2023 07:39

6dpo :)

Twocatstwodogs · 19/07/2023 07:25

I'm 2dpo today! Where are others at again, can't keep up @Kellyaust and everyone

LittleMiss2023 · 19/07/2023 07:25

Only 2PO so highly unlikely it’s related but I’m noticing it!

Twocatstwodogs · 19/07/2023 07:24

@thejollytrolleydolly me too, invested!! Sounding good, really hoping for you.

@Kellyaust how are you doing?

I read a post on premom the app I use to track this morning which kind of stung, it was basically someone who's been trying for a long time saying to everyone to not test, don't symptom spotting and only wait for period as the sign because it's so stressful. I can understand this view totally, but also doesn't everyone have their own way of coping? I know for me, I have to do everything I can before I can move on with things, it's my way of coping so if that's testing then I do it so I can get on with the rest of the day as I'd be obsessing all day otherwise and working myself up to convince myself either way. Not sure if that makes sense but it got to me a bit, kind of made me feel silly for symptom spotting and testing early but I shouldn't, it's my way of having a coping strategy.

Anyway, I'll wait until I'm 6 or 7dpo and test from then because that works for me and so I can function in the day

Hopefulfirstround · 19/07/2023 07:20

@thejollytrolleydolly i see that line !!!! How many dpo are you ? I’m 6dpo this morning , I’m working for the day though and on call this weekend so going to try and make it until Friday to pull out the FRER . This is our second last cycle to TTC before going back to our IVF clinic so I’m not sure I feel hopeful. Our OBGYN said to try for 3 months post miscarriage , that we would be more fertile but I’m so sceptical

thejollytrolleydolly · 19/07/2023 07:13

@Kellyaust haha you and me both! Xx

Kellyaust · 19/07/2023 07:09

@thejollytrolleydolly all sound like good signs I'm going to be waiting eagerly for your tests every day now 😂🤞🌈

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thejollytrolleydolly · 19/07/2023 07:07

@Kellyaust last night I got a bit nauseous when I was cooking dinner, more creamy cm than usual, keep having a tangy taste in my mouth like I've licked a battery and twitchy type pains down the right side of my uterus. I get the odd dizzy spell too. I woke up a bit nauseous today with lower back pain but that's it for symptoms today xx

Kellyaust · 19/07/2023 07:03

@thejollytrolleydolly any symptoms at all? 💖

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Kellyaust · 19/07/2023 07:00

I see it let's hope that's the start of your bfp @thejollytrolleydolly 🤞🌈

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Kellyaust · 19/07/2023 06:59

LittleMiss2023 · 19/07/2023 06:45

I’m noticing slight cramping and quite a warm face? Which is unusual! Hate this symptom spotting 😂

What dpo are you again? X

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thejollytrolleydolly · 19/07/2023 06:53

This is my frer this morning... it's a squinter so I'm hoping this is an early BFP! I'm dubious after my false positive last month but this one is lighter than that so fingers crossed!! 8dpo today xx

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LittleMiss2023 · 19/07/2023 06:45

I’m noticing slight cramping and quite a warm face? Which is unusual! Hate this symptom spotting 😂

Kellyaust · 19/07/2023 06:24

@thejollytrolleydolly yes.... Music speaks to me so loud! Ever since I was young. So I agree there!

Any news this morning girls???

I've had insomnia, a mad dream I even woke myself up speaking to OH in my sleep 🤔, still sore throat and headache 🤞 5dpo now

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Jadeypie · 18/07/2023 22:38

@thejollytrolleydolly aww I get that mind set that must of been awful to go through I totally agree that our bodies know more than we know! And yes everything does happen for a reason even the painful ones ❤️

@Kellyaust yeh they said the same to me to make sure little bean is where it should be x

thejollytrolleydolly · 18/07/2023 22:36

@Kellyaust I absolutely believe in signs! Personally I relate to songs that get me through hard times or indicate how I should proceed. I know that sounds weird but it really stands out to me! Im a firm believer in asking the universe for what you want too. If you manifest it, it will come (when it's ready) xx

Kellyaust · 18/07/2023 22:33

@Jadeypie yes my epu nurse was amazing and even though I've only had 1 MC she said to ring her straight away if I get another bfp n she will get me in for early scans and progesterone. And yes I'll be doing the same 😂

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thejollytrolleydolly · 18/07/2023 22:33

@Kellyaust @Hopefulfirstround @Jadeypie I absolutely champion taking about mc and baby loss. I felt so alone in mine until I started speaking about it at work and realised so many people had experienced the same!! I personally had bleeding just before 10 weeks and had a scan to tell me that the baby had stopped growing at 5+1/2 weeks. The worst thing for me was knowing that I thought my baby was growing but then finding out I had been carrying around a foetus that had ceased to grow for 5 weeks ☹️ I do believe everything happens for a reason though and like the nurse said maybe there was severe complications with the baby which meant it wouldn't have a good quality of life which is why the body stopped growing it. Our bodies are so clever and they know what's best. It doesn't make it any easier but it makes sense xx

Jadeypie · 18/07/2023 22:28

@Kellyaust am staying positive this time round plus being under the epu gives me reassurance aswell!

Suppose I'll be filling use in on some more symptoms tomorrow hahah x

Kellyaust · 18/07/2023 22:13

@Jadeypie wow that's crazy 😩 you don't realise how many things can go wrong 😔

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Hopefulfirstround · 18/07/2023 22:13

@Kellyaust we had the exact same story , got pregnant , normal 8 week scan and then at 10 weeks had another scan and it had stopped working :( I hope yer doing ok

Jadeypie · 18/07/2023 22:06

@Kellyaust yeh I had a bleed which I thought was a miscarriage but then two weeks later I got positives so I thought bloody hell but I was getting really bad pains in my back and up my backside also brown spotting so they got me in for the scan and the baby wasn't in my womb they couldn't actually locate it for sure but suspected behind my left overy my levels where through the roof aswell so that's why it took so many weeks. It amazes me how strong us women are! Av actually started telling more people about mine because a loss shouldn't be hid!

Kellyaust · 18/07/2023 21:54

@Jadeypie that's amazing that your tube was saved but obviously heartbreaking for you did you have any symptoms of the ectopic? Mine was so drawn out... Found out 5th may after some brown spotting... Lost baby 8th may, had medical management 11th may for a lot of retained tissue, 2 weeks later was still bleeding finally stopped 6th june, then got an infection still had a small amount of retained tissue... Finally period 30th june so all should be gone now. Then 2 bouts of thrush from the antibiotics. Lovely. And yep totally agree, none of my family speak to me about it, which I find awful... They don't know what to say but I'd rather they say something!!! So nice to be on here around the same situations

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Jadeypie · 18/07/2023 21:48

@Kellyaust aww that's so heartbreaking for you I'm sorry you had to go through that! I was 7weeks and nope I had to have medical management which dragged out for four weeks was awful but least my tube was saved I suppose! It really is crazy u realise your not alone in this ttc. This is the first time I have actually got involved with threads obviously I've stalked them for years haha. Friends and family don't really get it or all the stuff we know about conceiving ECT so it's a nice place to come and yes 100% Fingers crossed for us all 🥰