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1DPO... Any tww buddies?

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Kellyaust · 15/07/2023 07:45

Officially back to 1dpo...2nd cycle after MMC. Anyone else??

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Jadeypie · 21/07/2023 10:36

I'm over my wobble yesterday 🤣 I done a test this morning obviously bfn but it's calmed the obsessing for now! I've wope up with a cold and a terrible cough 🙄
@thejollytrolleydolly how cute that your daughter said that! Hopfully it's a sign 🤞🏻 my son decided to draw on the wall with red lippy this morning I said what's that his reply was a picture of mummy and I swear it looks like a pregnant woman 🤣🤣 that could just be wishful thinking on my part it did make me laugh inside but I had to keep the straight face hahaha x

Jadeypie · 21/07/2023 10:33

@Kellyaust your feelings are very valid here!! We understand and you can vent all you want never feel like your bringing a downer because you certainly aren't! We will be here for the support alot of people don't understand unless they are in the same boat! Your on safe hands with us 🥰

thejollytrolleydolly · 21/07/2023 10:19

@Twocatstwodogs yes I did like an idiot I took my ultra early digital so I got a very stark "not pregnant" which put me on a downer but what my daughter said cheered me up a little. I just feel like I have so much on my mind right now I can't stop thinking about the result of my interview and if I'm pregnant. It's taking over my life! Usually I would have some wine to quieten my thoughts but I can't even do that 🥲 x

Kellyaust · 21/07/2023 10:19

thejollytrolleydolly · 21/07/2023 10:18

@Kellyaust don't be silly! This is what these threads are here for, support! You're not bringing the thread down at all. You're allowed to feel how you are feeling and you're in the best company to vent! There are just some things that women just get and men struggle with so it's good to have other women who are in roughly the same boat as you to talk to ❤️ if you feel upset and you want to vent... you vent! Xxx

Thank you that means a lot to me, my dh is great but he just says the usual try not to stress it'll be ok. I feel full of chesty cold and dizzy today still cramping, only time will tell I guess xxx

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thejollytrolleydolly · 21/07/2023 10:18

@Kellyaust don't be silly! This is what these threads are here for, support! You're not bringing the thread down at all. You're allowed to feel how you are feeling and you're in the best company to vent! There are just some things that women just get and men struggle with so it's good to have other women who are in roughly the same boat as you to talk to ❤️ if you feel upset and you want to vent... you vent! Xxx

Kellyaust · 21/07/2023 09:36

Twocatstwodogs · 21/07/2023 09:28

So tough, totally try to distract yourself if you possibly can. 8dpo is still early and could be implanting, you never know.

I'm in ignoring mode as much as I can atm, ignore symptoms if I can and try to forget as I looked back on my premom history and I have lots of tracked cycles and with my last successful pregnancy I had exactly your symptoms around 7dpo, tested neg completely from 7, 8, 9 and 10dpo and only turned super faint pos on 11dpo. Hang in there xx

Thank you, I'm 7dpo today but last month I spotted at 8dpo too and I wasn't pregnant obviously so I'm 1000% thinking something is wrong with me. But thank you for looking and thank you all for the support I'm sorry if I'm bringing a downer into the thread I hope you all stay positive in your own tww journeys xxx

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Twocatstwodogs · 21/07/2023 09:28

Kellyaust · 21/07/2023 09:21

I haven't had any more blood yet but still cramping, I spotted last month at 8dpo too so something has to be wrong surely. I won't even get a progesterone check til August now I've missed the day 21. I'm going to try do things but I know what I'm like 🤦‍♀️ thank you much needed xxxxx

So tough, totally try to distract yourself if you possibly can. 8dpo is still early and could be implanting, you never know.

I'm in ignoring mode as much as I can atm, ignore symptoms if I can and try to forget as I looked back on my premom history and I have lots of tracked cycles and with my last successful pregnancy I had exactly your symptoms around 7dpo, tested neg completely from 7, 8, 9 and 10dpo and only turned super faint pos on 11dpo. Hang in there xx

Twocatstwodogs · 21/07/2023 09:25

thejollytrolleydolly · 21/07/2023 08:12

@Twocatstwodogs morning. 10dpo here and same horrific nightmares last night, must have woken up 20 times which was great getting home from work at 1 and then being woken up by a tantrumming toddler at 7 😂 felt really nauseous this morning and in the car driving home last night. More dizzy spells and lower back ache.

My daughter this morning said to me whilst getting ready for nursery "mummy I will share my toys with Roxy" I said who's Roxy? She said "Roxy! The baby that lives in mummys tummy!"

I hope she's right!

@thejollytrolleydolly Oh wow! So odd, bloody hell you forget how terrifying nightmares are, my 3yr old is having them atm too. Deffo hormone related for me I think, not sure what hormone but something connected. Far too early for anything for me but your symptoms are sounding good!! Have you retested this morning?

Kellyaust · 21/07/2023 09:21

thejollytrolleydolly · 21/07/2023 09:13

@Kellyaust aw hun that's the worst as well the not knowing! Has AF come or is it still spotting? I'm so sorry to hear you're having a tough time. Can you find some things to do to distract you this weekend so you can put this to the back of your mind? I hope you're ok... big hugs xxx

I haven't had any more blood yet but still cramping, I spotted last month at 8dpo too so something has to be wrong surely. I won't even get a progesterone check til August now I've missed the day 21. I'm going to try do things but I know what I'm like 🤦‍♀️ thank you much needed xxxxx

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thejollytrolleydolly · 21/07/2023 09:13

@Kellyaust aw hun that's the worst as well the not knowing! Has AF come or is it still spotting? I'm so sorry to hear you're having a tough time. Can you find some things to do to distract you this weekend so you can put this to the back of your mind? I hope you're ok... big hugs xxx

Kellyaust · 21/07/2023 09:04

Thanks everyone. I slept 1 hour... I'm exhausted full of anxiety and in pain. Can't get to my gp til Monday so nothing I can do except worry. Hope you're all getting on OK x

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thejollytrolleydolly · 21/07/2023 08:12

@Twocatstwodogs morning. 10dpo here and same horrific nightmares last night, must have woken up 20 times which was great getting home from work at 1 and then being woken up by a tantrumming toddler at 7 😂 felt really nauseous this morning and in the car driving home last night. More dizzy spells and lower back ache.

My daughter this morning said to me whilst getting ready for nursery "mummy I will share my toys with Roxy" I said who's Roxy? She said "Roxy! The baby that lives in mummys tummy!"

I hope she's right!

Twocatstwodogs · 21/07/2023 07:06

Kellyaust · 21/07/2023 01:14

@thejollytrolleydolly i just can't see it happening, I've had 4 pregnancies and never ever had implantation symptoms at all. Now I've got cramps like full on period cramps and I just know it's coming but why so early 😩 I'm going to request a progesterone blood test, it makes sense with my mmc, trouble sleeping, hot flashes, I dunno what I'm gonna do if I can't conceive again or keep a pregnancy 😩 definitely won't sleep now

Oh @Kellyaust hope you’re ok. If it helps, I had implantation bleeding (quite a lot) I’d convinced myself it was too much and then has spotting ongoing early pregnancy with only one of my pregnancies, that was completely successful. Also if you’ve been a bit poorly that can affect spotting too, hang in there if you can at all. Worst case scenario and you are peri menopausal you can still get pregnant and it happens but I also think it’s unlikely as your cycles are usually so regular.

Based on my previous mc if I get a line at all, I’ll be asking GP for a beta HCG blood test to check doubling rates, with my MC I did this and it was a bit slow early on. Blood beta hCG is the most reliable level.

@sella84 hang in there too, I’ve had exactly that, positive first urine and then negative in evening. If you drink a good amount in the day then it can make the urine too dilute to pick up enough hCG.
Maybe do another one this morning while dehydrated from the night?

@thejollytrolleydolly how are you getting on?

Positive vibes to everyone.

I‘m 4dpo now and not much going on other than weird scary dreams and headache this morning but I do get headaches.

LittleMiss2023 · 21/07/2023 01:23

Kellyaust · 21/07/2023 00:31

Well I'm gutted.... Serious cramps and just started spotting... Spotting happened last month at 8dpo and now this month at 6dpo....along with the mmc I'm leaning towards my progesterone levels being way too low to support a pregnancy... Looks like I'll be back to the GP see if they help me at all 😪

Fingers crossed this is just implantation bleeding!! Try not to count yourself out yet - as you said it is hopefully too early for AF to have shown up!

Kellyaust · 21/07/2023 01:14

@thejollytrolleydolly i just can't see it happening, I've had 4 pregnancies and never ever had implantation symptoms at all. Now I've got cramps like full on period cramps and I just know it's coming but why so early 😩 I'm going to request a progesterone blood test, it makes sense with my mmc, trouble sleeping, hot flashes, I dunno what I'm gonna do if I can't conceive again or keep a pregnancy 😩 definitely won't sleep now

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thejollytrolleydolly · 21/07/2023 00:55

@Kellyaust are you sure it's not implantation? I've never experienced it personally but I know lots of people who have! It would be around the right time for it too xx

thejollytrolleydolly · 21/07/2023 00:54

@sella84 there's definitely a line there! Please update us when you finish work tomorrow! X

Kellyaust · 21/07/2023 00:31

Well I'm gutted.... Serious cramps and just started spotting... Spotting happened last month at 8dpo and now this month at 6dpo....along with the mmc I'm leaning towards my progesterone levels being way too low to support a pregnancy... Looks like I'll be back to the GP see if they help me at all 😪

1DPO... Any tww buddies?
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LittleMiss2023 · 20/07/2023 21:50

sella84 · 20/07/2023 16:47

Took this just now as I always get better results in the afternoon/evening!

This pic is not edited. It's there right? I'm not seeing things?!

Yay congrats!!! 💐💐💐

Kellyaust · 20/07/2023 21:49

@sella84 maybe urine isn't concentrated enough, I've never seen a strip test like that not be a true positive 🤔 fingers crossed for you 🤞

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sella84 · 20/07/2023 21:36

Hopefulfirstround · 20/07/2023 20:16

@sella84 I see it !!!! I tested , obviously at 7dpo and it’s neg … why do we do this 😭I’ll try not to test again until 9dpo … but … probs will anyway 😂

Oh I know were crazy aren't we! 🙈 Got everything crossed for you 🤞🤞

sella84 · 20/07/2023 21:35

Well I took a CB ultra early tonight and couldn't see a bloody thing so now I've got myself all worked up!! Luckily I'm at work tomorrow so I won't test in the morning and won't be able to test until at least 4pm 🤞

thejollytrolleydolly · 20/07/2023 20:50

@Hopefulfirstround haha we're all at it!!

My symptoms are at an all time low today, I feel totally fine apart from intermittent back ache which seems to have not left me since ovulation 🙈 had a couple of sharp twitches down my left side but that's it. Cervix still feels high but only semi soft. I don't know what this means 😂 af due Tuesday. Going to save my good tests until Sunday/Monday I think. I think I remember losing all symptoms just before af last time so hopefully this is a good sign xx

Kellyaust · 20/07/2023 20:34

Hopefulfirstround · 20/07/2023 20:16

@sella84 I see it !!!! I tested , obviously at 7dpo and it’s neg … why do we do this 😭I’ll try not to test again until 9dpo … but … probs will anyway 😂

Snap 🤦‍♀️ and then get amgry at myself 😂

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Hopefulfirstround · 20/07/2023 20:16

@sella84 I see it !!!! I tested , obviously at 7dpo and it’s neg … why do we do this 😭I’ll try not to test again until 9dpo … but … probs will anyway 😂