1DPO... Any tww buddies?

Hi all I'm after a bit of advice.. I tested for ovulation yesterday and got a peak on fermometer digital OPK ( ++) . However got a low result on CB digital OPK (circle) so I assumed the CB test isnt sensitive enough..

We had guests round all day and managed to DTD just after midnight last night.

I tested again this morning and got a low result on Femometer now as well.. :-(

Today is showing as ovulation day according to the App and had a BBT dip this morning..

Can somebody advise if I have a chance in TTC this month or have I missed my window.

I've attached some images FYI.

Thank you

@Hopefulfirstround awwww don't panic ❤️ this is why I don't test early usually (I'm saying that I've done a fair few already) your lines might not get darker till well after AF is due sometimes it just takes time for hormones to rise also Drs and midwives don't go by line progression either. I totally understand why your in panic mode even after saying all this I would be exactly the same! Sending u hugs xx

@thejollytrolleydolly fungers and toes crossed for you , thank you for the good wishes. @Kellyaust i panicked , we’ve never had a cleaner before 😂 . @Kellyaust i just think we are so much more in tune with what’s going on in our bodies so men just don’t get it

I'm 14dpo the day of my AF being due. Nothing as of yet! I have some mild back pains and some mild cramps but nothing like I normally get. Had some shooting pains behind my left nipple yesterday which I did have with my last pregnancy but I don't know. I don't feel like my period is coming but I also don't feel pregnant so I'm just in limbo rn! I'll wait a few more days and test again. I did an ultra early digital yesterday which came back as not pregnant so I'm not holding my breath! How is everyone else? Xx

Hey @Kellyaust how are you doing? Sorry to hear about your partner, it's not fair of him to attack you over this when you're having a really hard time with it already! I really hope he comes round and you 2 can sort this out ❤️

@Horriblewoman I'm so sorry to hear of your losses that must have been so hard! We're currently trying for our rainbow after a loss too. I really hope you get a sticky one soon ❤️

@Hopefulfirstround keep us updated, I really hope this one sticks for you xxx

I’m 8DPO today and of course I couldn’t help myself and had to test, knowing nothing would be there! But I don’t know if my eyes are playing tricks and there could be the faintest of faint lines! I’ll try hold off for another 48 hours!

I’ve been having cramping the last 3 days and AF isn’t due for another week so I have my fingers crossed for implantation, but also trying not to get too excited to be let down with a BFN!

How are you feeling @Kellyaust? Hope you’re doing ok!!

@Kellyaust ill take a pic when I get home , I actually threw out most of the previous tests Except the last two because we have a woman coming to clean the house for the first time and I didn’t want her to think I was completely crazy 😅I’m 12 dpo

I’m having a little panic attack this morning . I’m not sure my lines are progressing , think this is a chemical pregnancy (what a horrible horrible term) . Trying to stay calm but just such a kick in the stomach . You start planning their whole life . This will be 3 losses since January

@Kellyaust I’ve had two miscarriages and have no living children and it took a year to conceive between the two losses.

I absolutely have been guilty of demanding my husband meets my ovulation needs over the last few months and honestly those few weeks are just awful for our relationship. Really horrible. But when I’ve spoken to him he’s been a lot more affected by the losses than I realised and he’s really worried about it happening again so I think we just need to be kinder to each other.

anyway I’m 5dpo and I’m convinced it will be unsuccessful again. Then we’re both away with work and won’t match up ovulation wise until October which is rubbish.

@Kellyaust I hope your ok ❤️

I agree with @Twocatstwodogs she's right that our OH don't understand really after a loss. Also your cycles could still be trying to get back on track after your mc

I wouldn't give up hope on having another child just yet maybe go on a little break from ttc. Figure out your cycles have a full mot from the Dr and concentrate on YOU 🥰 all this added stress from ttc prob isn't what you need right now. And then maybe you and your partner can sort things out and who nos you might get a little surprise xxx

Oh @Kellyaust your feelings are totally understandable. Did af show up or not yet?

For context I’m not much shy of 40yrs old, and I share lots of those feelings with you, I can only keep doing this for so long until I can’t take it anymore. This is our 6th cycle of trying and the miscarriage was awful and couldn’t help but feel like it was also such a loss of time as well.

I do think the other half’s not physically going through this just don’t and maybe can’t understand what it’s like. It’s the most stressful thing.

I really hope you’re ok. In terms of your cycle it could easily be that you’re still adjusting after the mmc, my cycle was stupidly long after mine and totally different to what was normal for me.

My hormones are all over the shop today, we’re on holiday and it’s crazy hot which doesn’t help but wow I’m short tempered atm, patience is very very thin right now. I normally get super snippy before period which is expected in 4 days so it could easily be af.

Let us know how you’re feeling when you can

@sella84 congratulations! That’s amazing and a great line at 12dpo 😍

@Kellyaust sorry to hear you mental health is struggling but we’re all here for support in every way.. come back to us soon!

@Jadeypie when are you testing? I’m 7dpo so I’m trying to hold out til Friday. Not holding much hope this month as only DTD cd7, 8, 15 and 16

@sella84 yayyy let yourself believe it 🎉 your pregnant wooo I love seeing people get their BFPs xx

Taken just now after only a 1 hour hold. 12dpo, think I'm ready to start letting myself believe it 😊

Haha, 100%! I started testing at 6 or 7 dpo 🙈and got my first v. Faint positive at 8 dpo.

Couldn’t agree more 😂…. I was tempted to test this evening but going to wait until the morning as I don’t believe anything will have changed.

I also have had a loss before so I totally understand your comfort in testing. If mine turns out to be a BFP I will be checking line progression to.

im just really hoping it’s not an indent line. There is definitely colour in it and it’s definitely a line but who knows. Fingers crossed for tomorrow.

@Hopefulfirstround I'm waiting for more tests today to be delivered and I keep saying to myself do not test untill next week! I'm sure I'll be poas before bed just to make sure 🤣🤣 if af shows this week I need to take a different approach in my next cycle x

@sella84 @Loubelleellis , let’s not kid ourselves , we’ve fallen into the crazy test every day 😂😂😂. The first time I miscarried the line progression stopped and got lighter before I had a chance to get into the maternity , so I knew before hand . Now I’m addicted to testing , just feels like a safety blanket