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1DPO... Any tww buddies?

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Kellyaust · 15/07/2023 07:45

Officially back to 1dpo...2nd cycle after MMC. Anyone else??

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LittleMiss2023 · 27/07/2023 00:13

sella84 · 27/07/2023 00:00

I've not for 8 days actually , not 6 , no wonder I'm going crazy not being able to tell him!

You are so strong! My heart was beating for a good hour having to keep it in before telling my DH!!

sella84 · 27/07/2023 00:00

sella84 · 26/07/2023 23:59

I'm almost tripping up so many times girls not telling DH, I can tell him next Wednesday so almost there 🙈😂 I'm so glad my best friend knows as I can atleast tell her my thoughts and things haha! I wish I hadnt tested so bloody early now as I've known for 6 days already!

I've not for 8 days actually , not 6 , no wonder I'm going crazy not being able to tell him!

sella84 · 26/07/2023 23:59

I'm almost tripping up so many times girls not telling DH, I can tell him next Wednesday so almost there 🙈😂 I'm so glad my best friend knows as I can atleast tell her my thoughts and things haha! I wish I hadnt tested so bloody early now as I've known for 6 days already!

sella84 · 26/07/2023 23:57

@LittleMiss2023 oh wow that's amazing, congratulations 🎉 If you use Peanut app I'll see you over in the April 24 group!

mahii95 · 26/07/2023 22:04

@LittleMiss2023 congratulations!! I didn't realise you could get a positive on. Digital that early on! 😳 chuffed for you x

@J0lly I know.. trying to stay calm.. we'll get through it 🫶🏼🤞

LittleMiss2023 · 26/07/2023 21:59

I hope this doesn’t come across as insensitive but I wanted to share my exciting news! 10DPO today!

I will be forever grateful for this thread - you’ve helped me get through the last few weeks!!

Fingers crossed for more BFP’s soon!! 🤞🏼🤞🏼

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J0lly · 26/07/2023 20:52

@mahii95 yay a buddy! Same, definitely going to wait.. 🤞🏼Seems soooo far away right now.

thejollytrolleydolly · 26/07/2023 18:45

@Twocatstwodogs they really hit different don't they 😔 fingers crossed this is the last time 🤞🏽 x

Kellyaust · 26/07/2023 17:57

Absolutely girls @Jadeypie @Twocatstwodogs @thejollytrolleydolly will definitely keep this thread open... Maybe we will all learn to chill a little but more and it'll happen.... That's what I'm hoping and praying for 🤞

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Twocatstwodogs · 26/07/2023 16:36

@Kellyaust @thejollytrolleydolly @Jadeypie totally agree. So much worse having the unsuccessful cycles after mc, I’ve had many unsuccessful cycles before but these are so much worse. I go into my head so much more, start second guessing myself and then start to tell myself I should stick with 2 and 3 is too many and selfish anyway, it sends me in horrible spirals of downward thinking

@Kellyaust deffo please keep this going, I’m thinking, statistically eventually we’re likely to all get sticky ones……hopefully

thejollytrolleydolly · 26/07/2023 16:03

@Jadeypie you're absolutely right! Before my last pregnancy I was so chilled just taking each month as it comes and I was pregnant after 2/3 months. But because I then lost the baby the urge to conceive again is so intense! I think stress does play a big part in me not conceiving and I think it's why it took me 3 years with my daughter because I was so focussed and stressed about falling pregnant. I think next month I'm going to have to try and chill out again... easier said than done though xx

Kellyaust · 26/07/2023 16:00

thejollytrolleydolly · 26/07/2023 15:40

@Kellyaust thank you, I thought it would get easier over time after the mc but each month is another month without a baby in my belly and I just feel sad and empty 😔 I'm glad your cycles are looking normal again, mine was 10 days longer than normal last month but I'm back to 25 days this month so that's a good sign. Yeah usually I would spot for a bit then niagra falls but it's so light still! Last af was really light too. Definitely stay in tough on this thread! I feel like you and I really deserve some good news soon. Do you feel like af is coming or are you tempted to test? Xx

I know exactly how you feel, we wanted a son because we have girls and now everyone around me is having boys literally not one girl in sight... I feel so empty too it hurts a lot each month you aren't pregnant. 😢 I'm really praying for you as much as myself I think coz we are so similar in cycles and what happened it's mad. Oh I have tested and all bfns I do feel like she's coming but she's taking her bloody time! Xx

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Jadeypie · 26/07/2023 15:59

@thejollytrolleydolly I think it's worse ttc after a loss something's very different the urge is so much more strong I dunno I can't really explain it!

I agree keep this thread @Kellyaustgoing it really does help talking to like minded people with experiences that's are the same xx **

mahii95 · 26/07/2023 15:48

J0lly · 26/07/2023 08:23

Back to 1dpo, cycle 2, baby number 2. First cycle doing opk, only dtd on peak day, still getting used to what I should be doing. Let's see what happens. Sending positivity to you all ✨

Me too. I'm 1dpo today too.. going to try to hold off testing till 12/13dpo if I can 😳 can't bring myself to be disappointed

thejollytrolleydolly · 26/07/2023 15:40

@Kellyaust thank you, I thought it would get easier over time after the mc but each month is another month without a baby in my belly and I just feel sad and empty 😔 I'm glad your cycles are looking normal again, mine was 10 days longer than normal last month but I'm back to 25 days this month so that's a good sign. Yeah usually I would spot for a bit then niagra falls but it's so light still! Last af was really light too. Definitely stay in tough on this thread! I feel like you and I really deserve some good news soon. Do you feel like af is coming or are you tempted to test? Xx

Kellyaust · 26/07/2023 13:54

@thejollytrolleydolly awwww you have your cry, I'll soon be joining you, people make it seem so easy to get pregnant again after MC but I really don't believe that anymore, I think it takes a few months at least for us to regulate, makes sense with you saying you're lighter than usual... I'm now 1 day late which doesn't bother me coz I was worried about short cycles so as long as the witch comes in the next 2 days that gives me hope that my body is regulating again. Sending big hugs and luck for next month..... We may aswell stay on this thread to keep in touch 🤞

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thejollytrolleydolly · 26/07/2023 13:37

So I think AF is here. It's very light still which is unlike me but last month it was lighter than normal too. My cervix was so high this morning so I was hopeful but it seems to have dropped down now so I'm giving up on this month. I've had a little (big) cry about it as each AF serves as a monthly reminder that I'm no longer pregnant...

Fingers crossed for next month and pregnancy twinning with my bestie ❤️

Jadeypie · 26/07/2023 13:27

@Hopefulfirstround nope not since the other day which was too early anyway! I've got one test left so I'm saving it till Saturday xx

Kellyaust · 26/07/2023 13:10

@Hopefulfirstround were still not talking, I'm really not feeling speaking to him atm 🙁

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Hopefulfirstround · 26/07/2023 13:08

That’ll you @Kellyaust i hoe things are settling down at home for you

Hopefulfirstround · 26/07/2023 12:31

Thank you @Jadeypie 🫣 need a fresh set of eyes !! Have you tested yet ??? Hopefully the wine won’t be needed but if it is make it a good one x

@LittleMiss2023 theres a line !!! Congrats ❤️

thank yoy @sella84 let’s hope we have 2 sticky ones , I don’t know how you keep it in , I’m always bursting to say something 😂

Kellyaust · 26/07/2023 12:21

@Twocatstwodogs yeah well ive got the typical AF tantrums today... Hate my hair hate my make up hate my clothes 😂😂😂

@Jadeypie ya know what... I don't even drink but I've bought a bottle this month ready.. Its been a tough one 😂😂

@sella84 I don't know how you're holding it in I'd have no chance you have nerves of steel haha

@Hopefulfirstround I wouldn't worry just yet I know it's hard coz I'd be the same but the lines are there 🤞

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sella84 · 26/07/2023 10:00

@Hopefulfirstround I can't tell him yet as he'll blab to his family (which ordinarily I don't mind!) and I don't want anyone knowing before his son's 18th birthday! You guys know, and my best friend 😀

sella84 · 26/07/2023 09:58

@LittleMiss2023 oh yes girl, thats there alright!!

@Twocatstwodogs it is me who's bfp. 15dpo now. I didn't get a positive with the 6 day early until Sunday, so 12dpo (1 day early !) so fingers crossed for you 😀

@Hopefulfirstround those progression lines look good!! When testing so early it's hard so see them, but the more dpo the stronger it gets and the quicker they'll come up, when I POAS the 2nd line now comes up straight away (instead of after a minute or so) and I'm 15dpo today. I'll attach a pic of my progression lines up to 13dpo.

@Kellyaust lots of hugs Hun, I'm keeping everything crossed there is a good reason why AF isn't here yet.

1DPO... Any tww buddies?
Jadeypie · 26/07/2023 09:39

@LittleMiss2023 I do see what you see!! Xxx