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1DPO... Any tww buddies?

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Kellyaust · 15/07/2023 07:45

Officially back to 1dpo...2nd cycle after MMC. Anyone else??

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Twocatstwodogs · 31/07/2023 15:15

Kellyaust · 31/07/2023 15:07

@Twocatstwodogs definitly contact them yes how long ago was your MC?

@Kellyaust yeah I called them and they were lovely, they booked me in then and then for 2 weeks time for a scan. I have formation/collection of fluid close to my c section scar and if it is happening then they would need to check where it's implanted in case it's in the wrong place.

Twocatstwodogs · 31/07/2023 15:11

Alwaystired2023 · 31/07/2023 14:39

Still no AF but still BPN here :/

@Alwaystired2023 When are you due AF?

Kellyaust · 31/07/2023 15:07

@Twocatstwodogs definitly contact them yes how long ago was your MC?

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Alwaystired2023 · 31/07/2023 14:39

Still no AF but still BPN here :/

Twocatstwodogs · 31/07/2023 14:24

OMG really guys? @Jadeypie @Kellyaust I don't think I can process it fully but I definitely think I'll retest in 48 hours and see what it shows. Can't believe it.
I guess I could have also ovulated a little later and then implanted a little later too, so strange. I don't think I can cope if this turns out to be a chemical or I have another mc.
After my mc the EPU said to contact them if I got pregnant again so I think I should anyway maybe and then at least I'm under them maybe?

Kellyaust · 31/07/2023 14:01

@Twocatstwodogs wow I'd say they're positive you've actually got your bfp after thinking you were out all cycle 🎉🎉🎉 you could've implanted later so I'd just test in 2 days I would imagine they'd be darker then!

@Jadeypie good idea, I think I'm gonna do similar I'll maybe try and hit OV day but that's it then just as and when we want coz it's really really took it out of me hopefully we will get ours... Seems to be a lucky thread anyway 🤞

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Danielle9891 · 31/07/2023 13:27

My cycles have always been exactly 28 days but the last 4 months it's been between 33-35. Not sure why as I don't feel stressed or that. I'm also ovulating at day 17/18 instead of 14.

Jadeypie · 31/07/2023 12:36

@Danielle9891 what's confusing you? Mine feel Abit up the wall but think I've been tracking mine wrong! X

Danielle9891 · 31/07/2023 11:43

AF just showed up for me too. I'm so confused with my periods lately.

Jadeypie · 31/07/2023 11:31

Update for me...

AF has finally shown today still very light but it's here so I'm classing day 1. Looking on my AP I did miss ovulation by a couple of days 🙄 I've decided I'm just going to just have sex each week whenever we fancy and let nature take its course no more testing till a missed period either I've been a poas addict last cycle 🤣

Jadeypie · 31/07/2023 10:51

@Twocatstwodogs you have a line on all of them I would say it's got to be a BFP. I've heard them cheapies can take forever to get darker or they don't. I would wait two days in-between testing that's when u should notice colour change I don't think u would get much difference each day because how early it is xx

Twocatstwodogs · 31/07/2023 09:58

Kellyaust · 31/07/2023 07:47

@Twocatstwodogs any news this morning 🤞

@Kellyaust first pic are the tests (yes I did loads) this morning, second is CB from yesterday morning above with the two from this morning below, third is the premom from yesterday morning and again from this morning.
I haven't had more bleeding yet, so not sure what is going on. I think there is hcg in my system but the lines are not very dark for 14 dpo I think? Any thoughts?

1DPO... Any tww buddies?
1DPO... Any tww buddies?
1DPO... Any tww buddies?
Twocatstwodogs · 31/07/2023 09:53

Horriblewoman · 31/07/2023 08:22

I’m in a weird limbo where according to my Apple health tracker my period was due to start yesterday. However I ovulated late (only 11 days ago) so in theory it could be a couple more days until my period as my cycles have been slightly less predictable after two miscarriages.

I felt sick when I woke up this morning but I’m also absolutely exhausted and often feel sick when I’m tired!

I know the answer is to test but I sort of don’t want to in case it’s negative! So by not testing I can kid myself!

@Horriblewoman it's so tricky isn't it. My Apple health tracker is a bit off for me too and after the MC I had too. I know how you feel, I actually got my oh to check the lines yesterday rather than me rather than me which was a bit easier I think. Could be worth a try?

Kellyaust · 31/07/2023 08:28

@Horriblewoman I would say test but yeah it's soil destroying seeing those bfn s.... Fingers crossed for you 🤞

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Horriblewoman · 31/07/2023 08:22

I’m in a weird limbo where according to my Apple health tracker my period was due to start yesterday. However I ovulated late (only 11 days ago) so in theory it could be a couple more days until my period as my cycles have been slightly less predictable after two miscarriages.

I felt sick when I woke up this morning but I’m also absolutely exhausted and often feel sick when I’m tired!

I know the answer is to test but I sort of don’t want to in case it’s negative! So by not testing I can kid myself!

Kellyaust · 31/07/2023 07:47

@Twocatstwodogs any news this morning 🤞

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Twocatstwodogs · 30/07/2023 20:20

Update from my end, after the spotting I had this morning, was a bit red/pink nothing else bleeding wise, tiny bit of brown this evening.
I found a FRER and took it a couple of hours ago and there's definitely a line so I think I'm sure there's hcg there but it could well be a chemical or something as it's very very faint still and I would imagine the line should probably be darker by now.
I think I'll retest tomorrow morning and see what that says and I might get proper witch/chemical bleeding turning up overnight I guess. Urghh I think I've decided that I can't do full on trying and need to see if I can not monitor again and see how I feel then. It's so hard after a mc but I don't know if I can get through it again.
@Jadeypie I do the same thing I think with tracking period flow but I also did ovulation testing so I knew when it was. I guess your dates could be out by a few days potentially? Not sure if that's helpful

Kellyaust · 30/07/2023 16:26

@Jadeypie hmm it could, or it could help... Maybe try it for the month n if you don't like how it makes you feel then don't do it again. Sometimes feel it helps me with the obsession of peeing on a stick.... But then sometimes makes me worry coz they're different to hcg tests, opks always have a 2nd line it's just the darkness of it you're watching out for

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Jadeypie · 30/07/2023 15:26

@Kellyaust I was thinking of trying them this month but I feel like that will get me all stressed and obsessed again xx

Kellyaust · 30/07/2023 13:56

@Jadeypie hmmm yeah possibly, you should try opks for a month n see if you can get a definite answer to give you a better idea

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Jadeypie · 30/07/2023 13:50

@Kellyaust yeh it's defo AF but am thinking maybe av been getting my tracking all wrong because if I'm spotting first I usually put 1st day of period when actually it should be when I actually have full flow so my ovulation will be wrong too won't it? I don't use opks x

Kellyaust · 30/07/2023 13:18

@Twocatstwodogs evaps are a nightmare and heartbreaking tbh!!

@Jadeypie thats weird isn't it do you feel like it's AF? Mines in full swing it's worse this month the pain has been horrendous

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Jadeypie · 30/07/2023 12:27

My AF is struggling to get started and it's peeing me off! I defo had some when I wiped and for sure was like yep here she is that was yesterday morning but now it's turned to just creamy cm with bits in so do I class this as spotting in my AP because I've put periods started but there's been no actual blood yet apart from that wipe yesterday like I could get away with not even wearing a towel there's hardly anything on it x

Jadeypie · 30/07/2023 12:19

@Twocatstwodogs oh don't be sorry at all!! Those evaps are terrible mind games! I was the same as you the other day couldn't wait for the tests to arrive held my wee all afternoon! For AF to arrive the next day xx

Twocatstwodogs · 30/07/2023 11:17

Thanks @Kellyaust yes, must be af and maybe a chemical or just wrong. Urghhhhh, not ideal