Kay he can have it! Little bit is good for him
Potty training nightmare, most of mine have just done it when ready. 3 of them were dry day and night within a few weeks. DD was dry quickly through the day but still wearing a pullup at night till she was 5. It made no difefrence lifting her or the others. I may have done it about 11 at night but you are likely to disturb his sleep pattern (and yours!) by lifting through the night. If you know he norally does a big wee early in the morning then lifting him then would be a better idea.
BF i have fed all of mine, the twins were in special care for 3 months and i pumped till they could feed from me. It is incredibly hard work and i have had planty of moments when i wanted to give up. I am so determined though and far too lazy to bottle feed The latest ds and ds#4 fell off al their charts (bloody red book) and i was hounded by HV to give top ups etc.. i just knew they were not going to pile it on even with a bottle. They were both born big and had just been so well fed during pregnancy > that it meant their was no way they were going to follow that percentile line. Sure enough they both levelled off and found their own percentile line.
I think you just have to believe you can do it and persevere, grab all the help you can to and IGNORE all those muppets who say very unhelpful things like "oh you must not be producing enough milk" and other derogatory comments that make you feel crap.
You can as Natalie said BF during preg, i dont resume normal cycles till i have stopped bf but i know that is not the case for any people.
Good lord what a preach moment
I will get in my box now...