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Whose trying to conceive baby no2 this year?

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Mummysparrow · 11/07/2023 20:01

I have a 2 year old and looking to start TTC later year. I made great friends on here last time when trying to conceive in 2020 so thought I would start a thread for anyone who is trying to conceive whilst looking after another child (in my case a toddler ekkk)

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Wyewaving · 15/10/2023 20:30

It’s a minefield!

I use two apps, Flo and Premom.

Premom has me ovulating today, Flo says tomorrow. Based on a static smiley face on my Clearblue digital tonight (though it was negative at 8am) and the Premom tests not having me hit a peak I think Flo is correct.

I’m going to test again at 10pm before bed as I’m convinced I’m going to get my surge overnight.

@Bubblesandtroubles you’re stronger than me if you can wait to test once your period is late! I have no chill and know I’ll test before. With my first I just knew I was pregnant when I tested two days before my period so I think I’ll get to that stage this month and cave 😅

Bubblesandtroubles · 15/10/2023 20:04

I'm another one not great with ovulation tests! I kind of gave up on them this month so my dates are all a bit hazy.
I actually successfully forgot about things for some of this TWW but approaching the end now so my sanity is becoming more questionable! Definitely got sore boobs, v.tired and been emotionally unstable today- hardly determinative either way though...
Depending on which App I look at im expecting AF tomorrow or Wednesday. Going to dig deep and try and wait til Wednesday if no unwanted arrival before then... 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

RedRobyn2021 · 15/10/2023 18:36

@Wyewaving

I find ovulation tests confusing too, I only started about a week ago because I haven't had a period since my chemical in august and I thought it might provide some clarity.

I think I may have ovulated based on the results about 6 days ago. Not sure how long to wait before testing now 🤔

Wyewaving · 15/10/2023 10:17

So sorry @Swirls346. I’d say it must be a positive that it can happen naturally. Hopefully the next cycle is more positive for you.

I’m due to ovulate today or tomorrow but I’ve still not had a peak on OPK so who knows what my body is doing. I’m CD15 today, last month I had my peak on CD14, prior to that it was CD16, then CD15.

I find ovulation testing so confusing as some advice is test with FMU but other places say to only test between 10am and 8pm 🤷🏼‍♀️

JJM13 · 15/10/2023 09:10

I’ve had some symptoms I had with DD and with MMC earlier this year i’m 13dpo and a stark negative so presume AF is on the way i’m gutted I really thought it had happened this month 😢😭

Cressie2 · 14/10/2023 10:11

Sorry to hear that @sunflower1988 Good plan. I’m at a wedding today so going to let my hair down and enjoy all the cocktails before next week! 🍸

@Swirls346 thats really hard. You’re right to be positive though in that you can conceive naturally. I know a few that have had IVF before and then gone on to have a baby naturally. Hopefully next month will be your month.

Swirls346 · 13/10/2023 20:12

Thanks @sunflower1988 , pretty broken because it's our first ever natural conception. First born is ivf. But I suppose it's a good sign it can happen naturally ??

sunflower1988 · 13/10/2023 20:08

@Swirls346 so sorry to hear that,same happened to us in the first month of trying for number 2. Hope you're OK x

@Cressie2 no luck, AF came today. Disappointed,wine,chocolate and strictly tonight might help though! How about you?

Swirls346 · 13/10/2023 17:14

Unfortunately started bleeding this afternoon :(

Cressie2 · 13/10/2023 16:58

@Swirls346 huge congratulations! Wonderful news!

@deliwoman1 I am in exactly the same position as you and have been having double espressos all week of my period 😂 Think I will limit myself to one tea a day next week..

deliwoman1 · 13/10/2023 16:56

Congrats @Swirls346 And good luck!

I’m due to ovulate early next week. Already struggling to be positive.

Just wondering if anyone is giving up caffeine entirely? I did last time, but this time due to work I’ve been having the odd cup in the morning and when my brain won’t switch on. Idk how much of an impact it has on conception…

Bells3032 · 13/10/2023 09:05

Back on the TWW band wagon again! euch i hate this part

Swirls346 · 12/10/2023 20:34

KM8 · 06/10/2023 15:28

Done a test this morning....4 days before my period is due....BFN. Anyone else had a negative and then a positive later?

Feeling another month out!

So I got my first positive yesterday I was 2-3 days late. It's not very dark though x

Cressie2 · 12/10/2023 20:32

How’s everyone getting on? Have you tested yet @sunflower1988 Thinking of you all! X

RedRobyn2021 · 09/10/2023 06:02

Had a chemical on the 15th august and still haven't had a period so have finally ordered some ovulation tests, took one last night and it said I was ovulating I think?

So trying again properly now

I read somewhere that even after a CP you go through a postpartum period whilst your body sorts its hormones out, which might explain some of the low moods I had.

Cressie2 · 08/10/2023 21:46

@KM8 @Mummysparrow 😞 so sorry to hear this too and hope you’re both ok. We can do this ladies. Onto the next month we go xxx

KM8 · 08/10/2023 19:49

So my period has just arrived - Onto another month 😔

Mummysparrow · 08/10/2023 13:28

Hope everyone is ok ☺️ period has started so back to irregular cycles 🤦
We still haven't officially started trying but planning on starting in December

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sunflower1988 · 08/10/2023 10:14

@Cressie2 that's a helpful message I need to remember for myself!need to remember to be more in the moment. Fingers crossed for next month!
@KM8 I'm now 6 days before AF and just got a bfn 😔 so tough isn't it why can't we just know! I guess until AF comes there's still hope x

Cressie2 · 07/10/2023 20:16

@hopingfor23 welcome 👋🏻

@KM8 Loads of women get BFPs the day or two before their period so don’t lose hope. I was googling the same over the past few days (to get a glimmer of hope too) but sadly AF arrived tonight. Gutted. I also had a false positive this morning on an easy@home test which made it even more heartbreaking as celebrated!

Onwards and upwards.

I really do think that everything happens for a reason so this month was again, not my month, but I have faith that I will get pregnant one day 🤞🏻and have to enjoy each month as it comes and not obsess about having a baby. A year might pass trying and I would miss it for all the worrying. I’m going to try not to overly worry and just enjoy connecting with DH. Tonight calls for wine though 🍷 ☀️

KM8 · 06/10/2023 15:28

Done a test this morning....4 days before my period is due....BFN. Anyone else had a negative and then a positive later?

Feeling another month out!

sunflower1988 · 06/10/2023 11:31

@Cressie2 @KM8 @Bubblesandtroubles thanks for your nice messages! Always helps yo have others in the same boat (though a boat I wish none of us had to be in!)
6 dpo now and have been trying really hard this month...like twice a day,so much effort! So got my fingers crossed.
Back to the 2ww craziness!
Wishing everyone luck xxx

ReginaPhalange12 · 06/10/2023 00:13

Hi 👋🏼 jumping back on, been trying for 4 months now & on day 2 of the TWW. I went into this so naively as we were so lucky that DC1 was conceived the first month & thought we'd be that lucky again. I think I messed up this month & didn't test ovulation at the right time so only managed to DTD the day before & day of ovulation, I'm trying to remain optimistic though

humanwinginglife · 05/10/2023 17:22

Me 👋

4 months in. Feeling like the months are dragging 😔

Bubblesandtroubles · 04/10/2023 21:30

Hi all,
I think its O day. So one last attempt tonight. Then into the utter insanity that is TWW.
I am a bit confused though as I bought a fertility bracelet. I broke the strap night 2 as I think I put it on too tight and wrestled it off my wrist in the middle of the night 😩. Still using it with some makeshift bands to hold it on but have slept terribly since then so not sure how accurate the results are as I think you're supposed to have a period of 4 hours proper sleep or something and don't think I'm getting that in one go.
Not really sure what I'm looking at graphwise but was expecting to see a dip at time of ovulation and, in fact, there's a dip a few days ago. So might actually be a few days PO. In which case, worrying if we started early enough. Definitely covered it to a degree but will have only just scraped in at the end so panicking a bit now! Xx

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