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TTC baby #2 - Two week wait

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katie416 · 10/07/2023 16:45

Hi everyone ☺️ We’re trying to conceive baby number two and I’m currently in the two week wait. This is only my first cycle of trying but my little girl was a complete surprise so I’m feeling quite anxious about the whole thing, the whole waiting to test is killing me 🙈 Just wondered if anyone else is in the same boat? I’m about 4dpo according to my app, I haven’t tested for ovulation so not 100% sure but I’m usually pretty regular, due on my period 20th July. Xx

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katie416 · 15/07/2023 18:53

@Moominmamma321 I’ll be honest I’m in a rut now I should not have tested this early because I’ve made myself upset that it was negative 😩 like you when I tested with my daughter it was test line before control line but obviously it would be as I was over a week late on my period! I need to get a grip 🤣
We’re still in until af shows up!! Fingers crossed for us all 🤞🏼x

@Blisax So sorry to hear about your miscarriage, sending you all the love 💕 but I’m glad you feel in a space where you can start trying again without putting too much pressure on yourself xxx

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Blisax · 15/07/2023 17:51

Also just to add.. This is for baby #2.. I have a DD just turned 6 😊

Blisax · 15/07/2023 17:45

Hey.. I wondered if I could dip a toe in the TTC/TWW world.. Just a bit of background, I had an anembryonic pregnancy which I miscarried naturally 2 weeks ago.. So naturally reading up on things I've realised there's a chance I could get pregnant during that time, so we started DTD a week ago, I was also told by the EPU that I could start trying whenever I felt able to again.. So currently not putting too much pressure on myself, as I haven't had a period yet & I would feel fine about not falling straight away & having a period as then I'd be able to track on dates etc! But hey ho! No harm in trying 🙈
If anyone's had any experience & has advice for me I'd appreciate it. Or even just Kind words, or a kick up the butt that would also be fine 🤣
Good luck to you all who are waiting for that test day, god its hard work to be patient! 🤞🫶 x

Moominmamma321 · 15/07/2023 17:15

@katie416 haha glad I'm not the only one. I was same with DD, line came up before control line, so it's weird getting negatives but still possibly being pregnant... I think I may just be going mad. Tried telling myself I'm not on repeat today to see if the symptoms disappear 🙈😂 I'm currently bloated, nauseous in waves, incredibly tired and achey breasts- the latter 2 I usually get now but I've had them for well over a week... I mean we'll be pretty frickin lucky to get preggo before we've actually started trying properly!

In fairness a lot of people say they had no symptoms before bfp so could go either way for all of us at this point. Good luck to all x

Boymama22 · 15/07/2023 10:24

Hey, hope I can hop on with you lovely ladies! We're on cycle 2 ttc baby number 2! First cycle ended in a chemical. I have 1 DS already who is 18 months and I'm a SAHM! I'm currently I'm guessing 5DPO! Going to try and hold out till I miss my period to test but I doubt that's going to be possible 🤦🏼‍♀️ @katie416 my first symptom with my son was sore boobs so fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻

katie416 · 15/07/2023 10:20

@Moominmamma321 Haha that well done is definitely not for me as I’ve also tested twice with strips and it’s been a big fat not pregnant both times! 🤣 obviously not reliable but I deffo don’t feel pregnant. My boobs are killing but they always do before my period so nothing out of the ordinary! With my first I tested about a week after I was due on and got the darkest line ever but no wonder! It was on an early response as well which I clearly didn’t need 🙈
I haven’t tested for a few days now I’m debating getting an early response today but idk. I feel so anxious about it all 😂
FRER = first response early result, it’s a brand of tests! Xx

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Moominmamma321 · 14/07/2023 22:05

Hey, hope you don't mind me jumping on here? I'm in the same boat as you guys etc. Number 2, not sure how many DPO exactly as we'd only started to discuss trying. I only realised we DtD over rough ovulation window after looking at calendar and backtracking my cycles 🙈 due AF on 18/19th I think...

I keep telling myself off for symptom spotting but I'm really feeling like I did with my DD, though I just thought I was ill/run down back then, as she was a surprise! Or it could be psychosomatic, who knows! Didn't test then until missed period, but I've already tested this time because I have no will power 😂 blatently too early anyway and not even with an early response, going to wait a few more days... well done to all of you for managing to wait!!!

also... excuse my not knowing, but what does FRER stand for?

naggy095 · 13/07/2023 16:56

@katie416 I'm actually feeling ok thank you! My partner has it worse than me he's the one who rang the GP for the antibiotics, so he got me some too but didn't mention us TTC. My very little research online suggests I should be ok 😅 however, and I'm actually not a superstitious person at all really, I just had a single magpie land in front of my window I was standing at so now I'm like ok I'm definitely out this month already 😂

katie416 · 13/07/2023 16:18

@Pandabumbles Welcome!! 🫶🏼 deffo take some tests on holiday I wouldn’t be able to wait 😂

@FoodFann I was super lucky and we didn’t actually try for her she was a surprise that wasn’t really a surprise 🙈 without being too tmi it was one time when we were too into it and I checked my phone after and realised I was ovulating 🤣 So I knew there was every chance we could have conceived but thought it was slim! Was still shocked when I decided to test a week late on my period and it said ‘pregnant 3+’ god knows why 🤦🏻‍♀️😂 so the tww is seeming extra hard as I didn’t have it with my first.

@naggy095 oh no hope you’re not feeling too bad? Did you tell them you were trying to conceive? I’m sure it will be fine but I understand the worry. Sending big hugs hope you feel better soon 💕
tbh I’ve been a wreck today I don’t know what’s wrong with me I’m so emotional and crying all day!! Suppose it could be hormones whether that’s pregnancy ones or PMS 😅

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naggy095 · 13/07/2023 16:08

@Lollipop96 haha I'm the exact same when I get negatives I don't believe it until AF arrives because I think I'm one of the ones that'll get a late BFP 😂 I hope that I can wait more than a couple days between testing if I get a BFN at 9dpo

Lollipop96 · 13/07/2023 14:50

@naggy095 Hello! I do have a digital early test which I could take next Wednesday but I think if it comes back negative I wouldn't believe it (I never do) and I will just stress myself out until the day of my period.

Its a loosing battle for me 😂What about you?

naggy095 · 13/07/2023 11:17

4dpo today and I have tonsillitis so having to take antibiotics now 🥲 hope it doesn't affect anything.
How's everyone feeling and when do you all intend to test? I'll probably test on 9dpo as I have no patience

Lollipop96 · 13/07/2023 10:15

I’m currently using my Fitbit app which I think has been quite good! You’re able to monitor your ovulation, period and cycles, you can also put in symptoms! So much easier than jotting it down on a piece of paper!
the more the days tick by the harder it is for me to try and not symptom spot.

fingers crossed for us all!

FoodFann · 12/07/2023 22:07

@katie416 we conceived her on cycle 4. How about your first? It’s been a bit of a surprise that it’s taken this long, but I’ve just started to kick it up a notch with supplements and OPKs 🤞🏻😅

FirstTim3Mummy · 12/07/2023 21:48

Oh yes @katie416 that's the same app, I must have renamed it lol !

@Pandabumbles same as me, 36 when I had my son,now 39. He's almost 3.5 years old
💕

TTC baby #2 - Two week wait
Pandabumbles · 12/07/2023 21:44

Can I jump on too? I'm on 2nd cycle of TTC #2. My two previous pregnancies (1st MMC, 2nd DS) i conceived on 2nd cycle so I think I'm hoping same happens again! It might not be quite so quick this time, I was 36 then and I'm 39 now...eek!

I've been tracking for a few months using the Clue app and OPKs just to figure out my cycles but actually had this month off from tracking and it was quite nice! My EWCM is pretty clear sign off O approach for me anyway, so I think I'm about 7dpo today. AF due middle of next week when we're on holiday... don't know whether to sneak a couple of tests in my suitcase or just wait it out! It'll blates be option 1! 😂

Baby dust to you all!

katie416 · 12/07/2023 21:39

I’m also due on the 20th (next Thursday) and according to my app 6dpo today! So guess we’ll all be finding out together 🙈
I’m manifesting it for us all 🤞🏼 and we can continue this chat as a due in March 2024 🥰

@FirstTim3Mummy I use one that’s called ‘Period tracker period calendar’ the icon looks like one of those secret lockable diaries you used to have when you were about 10 with a flower on the front - oh the nostalgia 🤣 It’s alright it’s pretty basic but usually pretty accurate give or take a day, so sounds similar to your app! I’m kinda winging it at the moment and going off that but if it doesn’t seem to be working I will invest in some ovulation tests and start tracking it properly. X

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FirstTim3Mummy · 12/07/2023 21:21

Snap! TTC #2 and period due on the 20th. My app (My calendar) says I ovulated on the 6th, making today 6 dpo

Two miscarriages last year and possible chemical early this year.

I started progesterone pesseries this morning and have to take 2x a day until 20th and if it's positive to take higher dosages. If it's negative, stop and try again next month.

Wishing everyone good luck 🙏🤞

What period / ovulation apps do others use? Mine is literally called "my calendar" and primarily used for period tracking but also does show fertility window and ovulation day. Not sure how accurate it is though but in terms of period it's usually only a day or two out if not exact each month

Lollipop96 · 12/07/2023 21:11

@katie416 yes baby dust to everyone! I’m trying to be as realistic as I can be but sometimes my mind just takes over me 😂
I’m due on my period next Thursday but because I ovulated two days later than normal it’s now saying on the app I’ll start on the Saturday!

My app tends to be spot on most of the time so we shall see!
Hope everyone’s staying sane ❤️

katie416 · 12/07/2023 18:13

@FoodFann Hi! Welcome! If you don’t mind me asking how long did it take you to conceive your first? I have heard it can take much longer for subsequent babies.

Ah yes sending us alllllll the baby dust 💫 I love the sound of a March baby feel like it’s a good time to be heavily pregnant cos it’ll not be too warm. My first was born in August and it was deffo not the one waddling round in a heatwave 😅 Be even worse now running after a toddler. X

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FoodFann · 12/07/2023 18:02

👋 Hi everyone! We’re on cycle 8 TTC baby2! 1DPO, after ovulating a week late, so feels like an extra looooong wait for me. Have also decided not to have any wine during this TWW 😩

Baby dust to everyone - let’s hope we get a whole big bunch of BFPs! Come on March babies! 😆🤞🏻✨

Think I’ll let myself cave, and will test on 22nd July 😅

katie416 · 12/07/2023 17:41

@Lollipop96 Yes please do!! join us in what feels like the longest wait of our lives. Although it’ll not be as long as pregnancy if our tests are all positive 😂 ooh conception cup? I’ve not heard of those! It’s deffo really hard not to symptom spot, every little ache, pain, change in mood etc. that I feel I’m like really over analysing when I wouldn’t normally give it a 2nd thought. So annoying.
When are you due your period? Here to give you all the support 🫶🏼 x

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Lollipop96 · 12/07/2023 09:04

Hi guys mind if I jump in on this post?

I'm currently in the TWW attempting for our first. Been trying now for around 4/5 months and every time I reach this stage my mind plays so many tricks on me!
I've started changing my diet, too scared to swim in the TWW or do normal things in case I 'change' what could happen! I've even invested in a conception cup!

Currently 5 days since ovulation was positive and now sending myself insane. It's crazy what information is out on the internet, my minds is going to explode. Last month we were really conceived I was pregnant, experiencing new symptoms which I've never had before, even went to the GP and they just said it was down to my menstrual cycle. My body continues to play tricks on me!
I'm trying not to symptom spot this time but it's so hard.

Each month I've used early response tests but when they come back negative I don't believe it until I've actually started my period (which is always on my expected date) so I find it a loosing battle 😂so hoping to wait this time until my period due date.

Any support to get through this TWW would be amazing!

FinallyMrsT · 11/07/2023 21:51

I'm going to try not buy any so I can't be tempted to early/waste my money. I will go get some early next week... but we shall see.

katie416 · 11/07/2023 16:15

@FinallyMrsT Omg I can imagine 🤣 bless you! Oh really I haven’t heard of those but I will possibly go and buy some of them this weekend. I’m so tempted to test immediately which I know is so stupid 🙈 I might get those Boots ones and try them this weekend x

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