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elle18310 · 28/06/2023 09:02

Morning everyone,

I am in cycle 6 of this weird and wonderful TTC journey.

I'm starting this thread for anyone that needs a safe place to rant, share, ask question or anything else. Hopefully we can support each other.

This is cycle day 3 for me. My AF wasn't actually due until 30th June but decided to show up a whole 6 days early so here we are!

And as hippy as this sounds, I had a reading at the beginning of the year and the lady was adamant July was my month so we'll see I guess! xx

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SnookyPook · 25/07/2023 14:15

@mahii95 your peak fertile days are the 5 days leading up to ovulation and ovulation day. So from what you said you DTD within that window and therefore deffo in with a chance. I think the day before and day before that are better than ovulation day itself. So the day you get your peak and the one before.

mahii95 · 25/07/2023 10:25

Hi all I'm after a bit of advice.. I tested for ovulation yesterday and got a peak on fermometer digital OPK ( ++) . However got a low result on CB digital OPK (circle) so I assumed the CB test isnt sensitive enough..

We had guests round all day and managed to DTD just after midnight last night.

I tested again this morning and got a low result on Femometer now as well.. :-(

Today is showing as ovulation day according to the App and had a BBT dip this morning..

Can somebody advise if I have a chance in TTC this month or have I missed my window.

I've attached some images FYI.

Thank you

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TTCbaby01 · 25/07/2023 08:34

Thank you all!! Still doesn't feel real!!🥹
Hoping you all get your BFPs soon!

SnookyPook · 25/07/2023 08:28

Congratulations @FinallyMrsT and @TTCbaby01 on your BFPs! 😊

FinallyMrsT · 25/07/2023 07:49

Thanks @elle18310 @HappyValleyFan1 congratulations to you too @TTCbaby01

HappyValleyFan1 · 25/07/2023 07:44

Congratulations to you both, that's lovely 🥰

AF also here for me @elle18310 not sure on DPO as not tracking but a 28 day cycle. I weirdly alternate between 28 days then a random 40 day cycle 🤷‍♀️ I know I have low AMH from previous MC investigations so maybe anovulatory cycles. FW will definitely be when we're on holiday and kids will be in closer proximity so will probably OPK this month

elle18310 · 25/07/2023 06:32

Ah congratulations both! Super exciting xx

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TTCbaby01 · 25/07/2023 05:12

@elle18310 sorry to hear that!! Fingers crossed for next month!!

@FinallyMrsT ahhh congratulations!!! 🥹🩷 I also got a BFP which was the last thing in the world I expected to see! I must of done about 6 different tests! Hoping it sticks 🤞🏻🤞🏻

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FinallyMrsT · 25/07/2023 02:04

@elle18310 I held off testing because I was putting off the disappointment of a bfn.. then worried because I'd gone out drinking...well I got my bfp! Very strange because I just wasn't expecting it. I've done a digital & a hospital cheapie since then both are positive too. The cheapie is super strong!

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elle18310 · 24/07/2023 20:25

Evening all! How are you all doing? I am 10dpo today and my period started yesterday 😭 absolutely gutted!
wondering how everyone else is getting on? Xx

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HappyValleyFan1 · 17/07/2023 21:32

@FinallyMrsT well I'm sure it's not an exact science 😂 2.5 years of being super strict with myself then went off the rails for a few weeks 🫣
Ooh not symptom spotting on your behalf but metallic taste is quite common early symptom, had with all my pregnancies

FinallyMrsT · 17/07/2023 20:32

I had a god awful taste in the morning
Can't really describe the taste but It was rank and I've had phantom smells all day.
I think I've lost the plot

FinallyMrsT · 17/07/2023 20:31

@HappyValleyFan1 so whaf your telling me is, if this month isn't my time, next month I just need to get drunk and jump on oh and ta da?!?! 😅

Myna13 · 17/07/2023 19:34

@TTCbaby01 I had that on 5-7dpo. On 8dpo it's a lot less but still there a little when I wipe. I've read it's normal. Don't worry too much.

TTCbaby01 · 17/07/2023 18:36

7dpo and have had period like cramps since yesterday! TMI but today had really watery CM making my underwear feel wet! Has anyone else experienced that?

HappyValleyFan1 · 17/07/2023 13:36

@FinallyMrsT definitely don't feel bad about drinking. I stayed teetotal for 2.5 years whilst TTC previously, of course I fell pregnant the month I decided to squash all the previous rules I set myself. It's so hard not to let it be all consuming but you've got to live too ☺️

Myna13 · 17/07/2023 12:23

@FinallyMrsT a doctor told my cousin that alcohol in large quantities is obvs not great for a pregnancy, but that she could have 1 beer or 1 wine every day and be fine. She didn't have a drink every day ofcourse, but she did have a beer once in a while through her pregnancies. She has 5 healthy, happy children. So you'll be fine. Don't beat yourself up.
My personal advice would be to stay away from smoke or substances, but a few drinks when you're ttc can't hurt too much.

@MLN89 Glad you're being positive. Hoping this is the lucky cycle and you get a BFP this month! Love and baby dust to you

MLN89 · 17/07/2023 12:17

Hi ladies,

I'm back! My BFN at 8DPO never turned positive. I was a tad disappointed but not shocked as we hadn't DTD much in the fertile window and I was only going off flo with no OPKs so didn't expect it to happen.

I'm now full back in the game! Cycles have been bang on 30 days and I'm on CD9 today so going to start opk's tomorrow.

Fingers crossed this is the month for all of us!

FinallyMrsT · 17/07/2023 12:15

@elle18310 @Myna13 I think I just feel guilty because I've tried not to drink since ttc... butvthen lots of people drink and get pg- maybe ill try that next month.

I'm holding out and delaying the disappointment I think
I love going to mediums but I havnt seen one in a while. I think I might make a plan to see one soon.

HappyValleyFan1 · 17/07/2023 12:08

Can I join? 🙋‍♀️ we are possibly moving to TTC next month. We've been NTNP for a few months but finding the not knowing hard after a tough 2.5 conceiving our little boy, that being said I HATE TTC 🙈 I met a fantastic group of ladies through all our struggles last time on MN.

We have DD5 and and DS 14 months, multiple miscarriages in between them, was just about to start IVF so we could karyotype to make sure all ok when we conceived naturally so I'm kinda dreading the process again. I'm definitely in the luteal phase but no idea when I might have ovulated.

Look forward to following all of your stories 😃

Myna13 · 17/07/2023 11:42

@elle18310 no shame in peeing on a stick at 3dpo. I did it too. I'd rather get it out of my system and see a negative, than just let my mind wander 😂 I am very much a part of the early testers gang.
Don't feel guilty about going out out. A lot of people don't even know. You got this!
Hoping for a BFP for you soon 😀

elle18310 · 17/07/2023 11:25

@FinallyMrsT lots of people still go out out and have no idea!! I wouldn’t beat yourself up!
Waiting till Thursday is strong, I’m impressed! I have a horrible feeling I’m not either but I do have a tiny glimmer of hope! I’ve been so good (most of the time!) and my last medium reading (I like these 😂) was in April and she said I absolutely would fall pregnant and the months I needed to be aware of were July this year and march next year. Who knows but it’s nice to have a glimmer of hope! Xx

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FinallyMrsT · 16/07/2023 22:20

@elle18310 no update.
I haven't tested. Af is due Thursday. And last night I went out out... and I would feel super guilty if I was but I also have that gut feeling that I'm not.
I'm holding out until Wednesday, and it shouldn't be to hard. I'm on 12.5 hour shifts both days...but I also have tests at my disposal there 🤣

elle18310 · 16/07/2023 22:14

@FinallyMrsT any update?
3dpo here and trying to keep busy! Of course I’ve POAS already 😂 just embracing my moment of craziness!
hope everyone is doing ok xx

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FinallyMrsT · 14/07/2023 15:07

Hi all. Haven't posted in a few days night shifts make me delerius...I'm 8dpo. In my last pregnancy it took 4/5 days past af due to get a decent positive- even the Dr's weren't sure and brought me back 5 days later to retest. I don't think I could cope with questioning is it evap etc so I'm trying to hold out until af is actually late... we shall see.