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JULY SMEP - Let’s go!

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Blessedmummytobe · 16/06/2023 08:05

Starting this thread after an early loss in May. I’m trying to conceive again asap as I feel ready. Would be lovely to have others join for mutual support x

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xxcxdonxx · 06/08/2023 08:49

Ah brilliant @FoodFann, we are LH peak twins 😂
My two were conceived super quickly and easily too, that’s why I am finding this time
around so frustrating!

FoodFann · 06/08/2023 08:33

@Blessedmummytobe oh bad timing for the bad back!! Fingers crossed you still manage some chandelier swinging! I’m sure the painkillers won’t have affected anything, does it say on the packet?

@xxcxdonxx we haven't managed much either. But, it only takes one little sperm. That is very interesting, it doesn’t seem to line up with clearblue smileys either. Who knows what’s going on. We conceived DD1 with just two BDs, on CD11 and CD13 I think.

Also… Spoke too soon! Check this out! 1.35!! Can’t believe it. Springing into action tonight, a well timed weekend peak.

Hope you’re all having a good weekend. The sun has finally made an appearance here ☀️

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xxcxdonxx · 06/08/2023 08:28

Aw sorry to hear you’ve had a bad back @Blessedmummytobe. It’s so frustrating when live gets in the way of key days!
Hope you are feeling better for tomorrow 🤞🏻

We’ve had a bit of a similar situation this month too, DH has had a bit of a bug so it’s thrown out some smepping days. I did however get my LH peak this morning so hopefully there is still some chance over the next few days.

@FoodFann I wasn’t keen on the rating that the pre mom app gave, i found it to not reflect what I was seeing comparing tests in real life. However, a peak is a peak so good luck!!

Blessedmummytobe · 06/08/2023 07:49

@FoodFann a peak is a peak and that EWCM doesn’t lie! Time for hubby to get into action ha! 🤞🏾

I have not managed much DTD. I have had a bad back, had to dose up on STRONG pain killers just to move! Not sure how or if they might affect ovulation etc. Feeling better now. Had I been testing I assume my peak would be today or yesterday as I’m meant to ovulate tomorrow. I haven’t noticed any EECM either but I Will try and get one round in when I’m back from living my best life tomorrow ha!

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FoodFann · 05/08/2023 21:35

That’s a peak for me 😆 A paltry 0.64 but… MASSES of EWCM! Shocked tbh. Peak on CD14 - how wonderfully traditional of me! Peak was CD22 last month.

Thank you @Blessedmummytobe , I went to the dr, but she fully fobbed me off. Did another at-home test, and again it came back that I am a completely barren old dried-up shrivelled prune. So, we will see. There’s a bit of a peak, and loads of EWCM, so I’m inclined to share your way of thinking.

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FoodFann · 05/08/2023 21:28

Sorry @CatLadyH! better luck next month 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

CatLadyH · 02/08/2023 08:49

Back to square one for me AF came two days early 😢 will definitely try SMEP again this cycle. Send love and good vibes to everyone 💖

Blessedmummytobe · 01/08/2023 23:24

@FoodFann im glad I made you smile…it’s needed at times. I’m sorry to hear of your test results and I hope they are wrong 🤞🏾 even so I really believe and have faith that anything is possible no matter what a medical report says.

@xxcxdonxx that sounds interesting.
let us know how you get on.

@CinderRosie i think you have a good chance. Atleast you did ovulation day x

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CinderRosie · 01/08/2023 22:26

Just checking in again here…. CD 17 and about 3-4 DPO. Didn’t quite manage SMEP to the letter, I got my positive OPK on CD12 but we DTD on CD8, CD10, CD11, CD13, CD14 and CD15. So we missed the positive OPK day and should have gone again on CD16 after the three days in a row but we didn’t. Anyway we will see how this month goes, if not next month we will follow it to the letter even if it means getting takeaway instead of cooking so we can DTD 😂

xxcxdonxx · 01/08/2023 21:35

All fine thanks @Blessedmummytobe in that strange phase of thinking that this could be our month but then not wanting to get too ahead of myself especially when I’ve not seen much movement on my opks as yet. Hopefully in the next few days 🥰

Seed cycling is taking pumpkin and flax seeds days 1-14 and then sesame and sunflower days 15-28. They are meant to promote your oestrogen and progesterone levels at those points in your cycle. After Googling there seems to be some foods that help maintaining progesterone levels which I wondered if has been an issue for me so giving it a go!

Oh I know @FoodFann , it’s exhausting! Im always quite glad of the rest after the 3 days in a row 😅

Belle89 · 01/08/2023 18:15

CD27 here awful cramps kicking in now and negative test this morning so certain AF on the way.
Looks like I'll be joining Aug SMEP too
We managed every other day from cd8 and day after positive ov test so didn't strictly stick to it bit didn't realise I'd find it hard work 😆

FoodFann · 01/08/2023 14:45

@Blessedmummytobe you really crack me up! You’ve really put a smile on my face after a very difficult few days! I took a home fertility test last week with very bad results. I’m going to the dr on Friday to find out more. Fingers crossed the home test was wrong.

But, we’re staying optimistic! I’ve been BBT tracking, and seem to have a v different temp every day 🤷🏼‍♀️

No sign of LH yet. I’ve put DH on walnuts as well as all his other supplements. No tank emptying over here, but hopefully we’ll be in the mood come weekend 💃🏻 🕺🏻 🍷

@xxcxdonxx good luck with your smepping! I don’t know if I can face another smep this month after two smeps last month! I might just wait for the start of a LH surge and get started then 😅

@ChildrenOfTheQuorn fingers firmly crossed for you!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Blessedmummytobe · 01/08/2023 07:28

@xxcxdonxx how are you? Yes true…It could still be my month. Planning to absolutely drain OH before I go so there’s lots of his little swimmers waiting for my precious egg. That way it’s only one crucial day I miss. What’s seed cycling?

Does anyone else forget to take their folic acid 😣

@ChildrenOfTheQuorn 🤞🏾 for you x

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ChildrenOfTheQuorn · 01/08/2023 00:09

CD25 so I'm not out yet!

xxcxdonxx · 31/07/2023 10:44

@Blessedmummytobe hello!
I’m on cd10 so back in smep mode also.

You never know, the day you are back might just be the key date for you, fingers crossed!

Im tracking this month and also trying seed cycling but can’t say I am loving it so far, will see how it works out for me.

good luck everyone!

Blessedmummytobe · 31/07/2023 10:16

Hellooooooo everyone?

How are we all getting on? All ready for August SMEP? I am!

CD6 for me. AF has gone 💃🏽I have helped OH empty his tank 🕺🏻 ready for fresh new 🏊🏽‍♀️Though I feel I may already be out this month as I’m away from on keys days. I get back the day Im due ovulate 🤦🏾‍♀️

I am “trying” not to track this month also…unnecessary pressure. I’m gonna stress less, eat good and enjoy myself. I’ll try and keep an eye on CM instead.

Cheers to a BFP August 💗

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FoodFann · 27/07/2023 15:21

@LittleMiss2023 ah that’s so lovely! Have you got any name ideas?

@ttcthoughts sorry 😓 onto aug smep together then! May the odds be in your favour!

ttcthoughts · 27/07/2023 11:27

AF has arrived today so im out again this month :(

LittleMiss2023 · 27/07/2023 11:12

Thank you all! Still doesn’t feel real!

@FoodFann We fell pregnant in March but unfortunately miscarried in May. This is our second cycle post miscarriage. And yep first baby!

FoodFann · 27/07/2023 11:10

@Belle89, @ttcthoughts, @worldwidetravel2017 and @CatLadyH best of luck to you all, you’re all still in with a shot I think 🤞🏻Come on spring babies!! 🌼🐰🐣

I’m CD5, AF still here, and I’ve been BBT and taking all my pills 😇 DH is back on his many morning supplements too

FoodFann · 27/07/2023 11:05

@Blessedmummytobe sorry you’re out this month 😓

@LittleMiss2023 OMG!! Congratulations! 💐🥂 I am so so so pleased to see a BFP on this thread. Eeeek so exciting! How long have you been trying for? Is this your first baby? Sorry if you’ve already said, I can’t keep up 😆

CatLadyH · 27/07/2023 10:58

Congratulations@LittleMiss2023 what brilliant news!

I am 4DPO trying not to overthink too much during TWW. It’s tough 😩

ttcthoughts · 27/07/2023 06:22

@LittleMiss2023 Congratulations :)

Blessedmummytobe · 27/07/2023 05:23

@LittleMiss2023 congratulations. Lovely news x 🌈👶

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worldwidetravel2017 · 26/07/2023 23:42

LittleMiss2023 · 26/07/2023 22:01

Hi all! Wanted to share some news! 10 DPO today! Still very early days and after a mmc it’s hard to get too excited!

Congrats - lovely news