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1dpo, if anyone wants some company for the tww🙂

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Ladyinpink1 · 14/06/2023 18:48

Hello 🙋🏽‍♀️I was looking for any recent 1dpo threads and couldn't find any so here we are 😊.

I am 1dpo today and although i'm planning on "trying" to stay relaxed, I usually end up obsessing close to test date so any fellow obsessives are welcome to join

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Ladyinpink1 · 21/06/2023 22:30

Thank you again @Naomi2023 for using your time to do that. I will test again in morning when I will be 9dpo and either be very embarrassed and feel the need to change my username or i'll be very happy. 😆 goodnight x

sorry for clogging up the thread with my evap dramas everyone else. Goodnight x

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Naomi2023 · 21/06/2023 22:24

Oh bless you, this is definitely something I'd be doing 🤣 I've inverted that one but I'm not to sure now. Maybe test with fmu tomorrow xx

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Ladyinpink1 · 21/06/2023 22:19

You are so kind @Naomi2023 thank you, my camera isn't very good quality either. Currently on the floor beside our bed while dh dozes off taking pictures 🤣 xo

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Naomi2023 · 21/06/2023 22:11

That photo has uploaded abit blurry though xx

Naomi2023 · 21/06/2023 22:10

@Ladyinpink1 don't feel silly at all either, im sure we've all had line eyes 😅

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Naomi2023 · 21/06/2023 22:09

@Ladyinpink1 thankyou so much, you are definitely right and I think you may have a bfp on the way! I hope you don't mind but I've inverted it and I'm sure I can see something. Can you get a closer pic? Xx

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Ladyinpink1 · 21/06/2023 22:04

@Naomi2023 i'm sorry you are feeling down about ttc, sending you a hug 💜

I have felt the same lately because of waiting for so long. But it will happen, for all of us eventually and we will look back at this time with newborns in our arms and think how nice it was to have time to go and scroll on mumsnet and get a full nights sleep 🤣

Ok, i will check it out now for indents. I took a picture in torchlight there but you still can't see it... I'm really not certain at all, i'm prob going to realise it was an evap and feel so silly in the morning. Heres the one i just took...

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Naomi2023 · 21/06/2023 21:39

@Ladyinpink1 not to bad, had abit of a down day today for some reason thinking to myself this is not the month. Have no reason for it 😕 trying to stay as positive as I can. I'm 7dpo today and fighting with myself to jot test tomorrow as I don't want the disappointment but its so difficult isn't it. I hope your doing good and hopefully have some exciting news fornus all soon 🥰 For the inverting I just downloaded an inverter app and you just upload your photo on it and it will Invert it for you xx

Hotmalibu94 · 21/06/2023 21:35

@Ladyinpink1 yeah, like since I came off the pill I've noticed I don't have much cm at all! This is the most I've had I think since I came off!
Ahhh that'll be lovely!

DH is trying to tell me if I'm pregnant I wouldn't have symptoms yet. He's such a spoil sport 😂

Naomi2023 · 21/06/2023 21:34

@elle18310 oh bless you, I'm 7dpo today and I get really disappointed when testing early so was trying to hold out but not sure if I will be able to tomorrow. I know how it will make me feel seeing a bfn. I never tested early with my children but last bfp I got was at 10dpo so in my head I'm telling myself I won't see anything before then but who knows. Its just so difficult waiting xx

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Ladyinpink1 · 21/06/2023 21:28

Hi @Naomi2023 how are you getting on? How do you indent? Oh how much longer do you have to wait?

@elle18310 Honestly the photo looks completely blank the line is so so light it's nearly not there, that's why i'm not letting myself feel anything about it tonight.

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Ladyinpink1 · 21/06/2023 21:22

Hi @HWGina welcome! You dont have too much longer to wait then. Very exciting especially unexpected

@Hotmalibu94 my dh wouldn't get it either.
So the ewcm is new at this time in your cycle? Aw that is so nice, I wish I could knit a blanket, a friend crocheted me one for my dc2 and it was gorgeous, lovely to have something unique. Nice you have time off to spend together. No plans yet, was thinking of taking the dc out for a date on Friday as dh has a work thing might be nice.... not sure how many times I have said nice and lovely 🤣

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elle18310 · 21/06/2023 21:16

@Naomi2023 how many dpo are you? Xx I’ve tested early and now feel really disappointed! Trying so hard to wait! Xx

elle18310 · 21/06/2023 21:01

@Ladyinpink1 do you have a pic?? Sending congratulations! I really hope it’s the start of your bfp xx

Naomi2023 · 21/06/2023 21:01

I'm itching to test now 😆 x

Naomi2023 · 21/06/2023 21:00

Hey @Ladyinpink1 fingers crossed you've got the start of a bfp! Have you tried inverting a picture of the test? It will show if theys a line there with any colour to it then. I did this with my last bfp on a test that had a higher sensitivity and was just about showing a shadow x

Hotmalibu94 · 21/06/2023 20:56

@Ladyinpink1 haha I didn't tell my DH about testing today, I just don't think he would get it at all!
Yeah I feel like normally I get grumpy when AF is due, not a week before so 🤞though I've just looked back at my symptoms from last month and I had sensitive nipples a week before AF then so who knows 🙈 these do feel more sensitive than usual though - I've never noticed them feeling things through my clothes for example 🤣 the EWCM is the main thing thats keeping me hopeful, I can't just symptom spot that - it is definitely happening!
This weekend me and DH are both off Friday and Saturday and then he is working Sunday. I've been knitting a blanket as it'll probably take me the whole pregnancy to make a baby blanket 🤣 and I've got some canvases to try and paint something. How about you?

Totally know what you mean about the scatter brain! I was trying to think of words loads today and couldn't think what word I wanted 🤣

HWGina · 21/06/2023 20:55

Hi! I'm a little late to the party, is it alright if I join the chat? I'm 7dpo on cycle # -1. 😆
I've been wtt, using natural cycles and withdrawing on red days, and we weren't actually planning to start trying until next month. But me and my OH were both a little under the influence and he didn't pull out, I didn't remind him. And it turned out to be the day I ovulated. 🤦🏼‍♀️
I'm trying not to get too excited but I've been waiting for this for so many years! And this 2 week wait is not easy! I haven't really stopped thinking about it at any moment for the last week. And I can't really talk to anyone about it in real life.

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Ladyinpink1 · 21/06/2023 20:43

Oh sorry @Hotmalibu94 just realised you said arriving tomorrow.....scatterbrained... is this a sign?? 🤣🤣

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Ladyinpink1 · 21/06/2023 20:42

@Hotmalibu94 Yes, i'm really not sure though, I keep rechecking it and I still can't tell. I will test again in the morning. Every day until AF arrives I will test actually 🤣 I don't tell dh anything about testing so it's nice to be able to chat on here 🙂

Yes being grumpy is a great sign, i'm with you there. Are sore nipples normal for you at this stage? And your ewcm too... all great signs, so hopeful for us! Do you have anything nice planned for the weekend?

Yes! Your friend is right, the ones that show up early tests I use are just cheap bulk Internet ones, they are just as good if not better than first response (and way cheaper) I only buy 1st response after I get a bfp for a more sturdy test to show dh lol. When will the new tests arrive? x

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Hotmalibu94 · 21/06/2023 20:25

@Ladyinpink1 ahhhh fingers crossed! At this stage it would be super faint, when are you going to test again?
I've been proper grumpy all day, really achy, nipples are a bit sore (a piece of work equipment brushed across one and it felt super sensitive), I feel incredibly tired and I've had more EWCM style cm so I'm keeping my fingers crossed! If it's just PMS I'll be fuming, I can't be doing with being this tired every month 🤣 I've cancelled the FRER and ordered some 10iu ones that my friend used (and had a very faint line on at about 8DPO) so they'll be arriving tomorrow! I think I'm going to test again on Saturday which will be 11DPO so hopefully there will be something.

And everything I'm reading says the CM kicks up after implantation and then the HCG can be picked up after a couple of days so I'm hoping by Saturday it will pick something up 🤞

.... I am far too obsessive for TTC to be a long winded process 🤣

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Ladyinpink1 · 21/06/2023 20:04

I still don't have sore breasts and I have the cramps a little bit more this afternoon, also random but I have a bacon sandwich quite regularly and always love it but I took a bite and couldn't have anymore so anyway because of all of this I felt like I wanted to test again, and there is a very very very faint line on it, it could easily be an evap because I can't see any colour and I have to really stare and slightly tilt it to see it... it probably is an evap but this mornings test didn't have an evap 🤷‍♀️

Yes @Hotmalibu94 so we are sorry, how are you feeling now? Oh no, maybe you can hopefully use those to obsess over your progression line 😁 x

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elarcoiris · 21/06/2023 14:28

@Hopefulhoney6 Ahhh congratulations!! I know it can be to hard to let yourself believe it but keeping fingers very firmly crossed for you. Keep me updated!

Hotmalibu94 · 21/06/2023 14:18

I've just realised my FRERs are coming next Wednesday 🤦‍♀️ might need to try and find some sooner 😂

Hotmalibu94 · 21/06/2023 12:25

@Ladyinpink1 8dpo today, I think we are the same?