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TTC after recurrent loss

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bringmearainbow · 05/06/2023 15:36

Would anyone like to join me? I have had 3 losses in the past year last one being 3 weeks ago. I saw a private doctor last week so waiting for results of blood tests and in the meantime she told me to keep trying so that's what we're doing! I'm hoping I might ovulate soon 🤞🏼

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Firsttimemumtobee · 15/08/2023 22:24

How's everyone doing? I'm due AF again now, day 27 of my cycle and usually come on on day 27, but no sign. Tested bfn this morning though so will just be later than usual!

MummaDaisy · 07/07/2023 13:37

@bringmearainbow yeah definitely, I’m still
holding onto hope as my symptoms are getting stronger and no bleeding which is the furthest I’ve made it in a pregnancy without bleeding🤞🏽I’m holding onto my original dates as last time I caught up so I’m also nearly 7 weeks so it is going by fast. My next scan is in 12 days so hopefully everything goes well then ❤️

bringmearainbow · 07/07/2023 11:33

@MummaDaisy when they are so small it can be so easy for the days to be out and like you say you don't know when you ovulated. I've got everything crossed for you 🤞🏼 when are you having another scan?

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MummaDaisy · 04/07/2023 13:43

@bringmearainbow sorry to hear your poorly :( hope you feel better soon x

i actually had a scan this morning thinking I was 6+2, but they said I’m measuring 5+3 and there is no heartbeat. Of course I’m slightly worried now and just don’t know what to think, but this happened last time when I was supposed to be 6+4 but measured 5+5 and she made it to 14 weeks and caught up with what I thought. Also my cycles aren’t 28 days so they’re saying it’s likely I’m a few days behind what I thought anyway and I don’t know when I ovulated. so I am trying to be calm but I’m just so worried.

feels like this pregnancy has been very eventful already and I hope this isn’t the end :(

bringmearainbow · 04/07/2023 12:34

So sorry for radio silence ladies I've been feeling poorly and just zero energy to look at my phone 🙄 @J2023xx that's fantastic huge congrats lovely 🥳

@MummaDaisy how you feeling? Did you manage to have any luck at the EPU with a scan?

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MummaDaisy · 02/07/2023 19:59

@J2023xx thats great news🎉🎉keep us updated, I hope all goes well for you ❤️🎉

J2023xx · 02/07/2023 18:58

@MummaDaisy thank you 😘 I tested today as I had some friends over and if it was negative then I planned to have a drink. I really hope the line progresses throughout this week 😊

MummaDaisy · 02/07/2023 18:24

@J2023xx wow that definitely looks positive to me👍🏼Congratulations 🎉🎉
I know it’s early but it all depends when you implanted and everyone hcg isn’t the same so its definitely likely to be a positive!!

J2023xx · 02/07/2023 12:15

I tested and am quite shocked to be honest! Very tentative as it’s so early though (9 DPO) xx

TTC after recurrent loss
J2023xx · 01/07/2023 10:13

Morning everyone!

@bringmearainbow sorry I had missed your message above, glad to hear the tissue is gone. I hope you have a fab holiday!

@MummaDaisy ah congratulations lovely, that’s great news - sending all the best wishes to you 🥰🥰

I’m 8 DPO today - resisted testing this morning as had to be up early for acupuncture but I might test tomorrow 🙊

MummaDaisy · 30/06/2023 23:03

Hey everyone sorry it’s been a while😅

@MrsC2018 sorry to hear of your losses, I completely understand the poas, it’s an obsession of mine. I’m sending you baby dust🤞🏽

@bringmearainbow im so happy that your scan came back all clear. Hopefully the blood results will be fine and hopefully ovulation comes round quickly and fingers crossed that this is your cycle 🤞🏽❤️

@J2023xx im hoping this is the cycle for you🤞🏽

after all the panic myself with the tests not progressing, I never got my period and am currently closing in on 6 weeks which is amazing. It is officially my 2nd most successful pregnancy so I am trying to remain hopefully everything will be ok🤞🏽❤️Looking forward to you ladies joining me 🎉🎉

sending lots of love and sticky baby dust to you all❤️Keep us updated

J2023xx · 30/06/2023 16:43

@bringmearainbow hiya I’m going to test tomorrow I think, as that will be 8 DPO. But I’m not convinced it’ll be our month, just have that feeling you know!

how are you doing?

and how’s everyone else xx

bringmearainbow · 30/06/2023 15:20

Just had my scan to see if the tissue that was left is gone and it's all clear can't tell you how relieved I am for that! Had repeat bloods for the rheumatoid factor get results on Thursday then we go on holiday and it will be ovulation 🤩 feels like a busy time

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bringmearainbow · 30/06/2023 12:56

@J2023xx did you test today or you waiting for tomorrow?

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bringmearainbow · 28/06/2023 20:46

@MrsC2018 hey lovely so nice to hear from you ❤️ gosh I remember you really have been through it! I'm glad you're almost out the other side. I don't think I could wait either it really sucks when your getting older I def feel the clock slipping away 🙈 don't worry we'll keep you company on the poas madness

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J2023xx · 27/06/2023 11:49

@MrsC2018 so sorry to hear your experiences but thank you for sharing with us ❤️

On a lighter note I 100% get the whole pee on a stick thing 😂

MrsC2018 · 26/06/2023 20:14

Hey @bringmearainbow 👋 I'm so sorry to see that you've had another loss.

I found I was pregnant again in Jan after 2 second trimester losses last year but after a bit of bleeding, found out in Feb that it was a caesarean scar ectopic. Took a month of intense monitoring and treatment and eventually surgery in March for it all to be resolved and I eventually got the all clear in May. Have been advised by the ectopic consultant to leave it 4-6 months to try again. Had the debrief from the 16 week loss and that consultant advised me to wait a year from the surgery.
However, I'm 40 in March so they've both told me I also have to weigh up the ongoing increased risk of miscarriage from my age so it's my decision when to try again, but leave 3 months from the methotrexate as a minimum.

I don't think I can leave the possibility of this third baby behind so plan to try again after this next period which will be 4 months post methotrexate. I can already feel the madness seeping in, I would quite like to pee on a stick for some reason 🤣

bringmearainbow · 26/06/2023 13:51

@Ttcafterlosses glad your results didn't take too long and you have some answers! Sometimes finding out what's wrong is a mission. I'll be on prednisolone, clexane and progesterone next time. Do you have any dc?

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Ttcafterlosses · 26/06/2023 12:09

My last loss was a few months ago but I haven’t managed to fall pregnant again and I am currently in AF week. I have my test results already I have APS and low progesterone

bringmearainbow · 26/06/2023 10:45

Well still no more AF 🙄 and cervix feels closed to me so looks like that's all I'm getting 🤷🏼‍♀️ got a scan booked on Friday so will see what's going on.

@J2023xx champers was very tasty 😂 ooh I have a 11 day lp too. Sounds like a good plan I love it when its a short amount of time to wait too

@Ttcafterlosses hi lovely sorry you're in this club 👋🏼 where are you in your cycle? When do you get results back from your tests?

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Ttcafterlosses · 25/06/2023 21:32

Hi all, sorry we are all part of this club and hopefully we get our rainbow babies soon. I too have had 3 losses and had my appointment at the recurrent miscarriage clinic this week. If I do manage to get pregnant again it’s progesterone aspirin and heparin for me

J2023xx · 25/06/2023 21:26

@bringmearainbow champagne, lovely! Hope you’re enjoying.

I have quite a short luteal phase usually around 11 days, I think I will test next weekend (couple of days before period due) as I’m seeing some friends Sunday and potentially may have a drink if AF is on the way! Just a week of work to get through until we know I guess! X

bringmearainbow · 25/06/2023 19:41

@MrsJGrealish it's def gone to my head slightly it's been a while since I drank 😂 xx

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MrsJGrealish · 25/06/2023 19:35

@bringmearainbow 😂😂 good luck..worked for me once xx

Also champagne..nice!! 😘

bringmearainbow · 25/06/2023 19:33

@MrsJGrealish yes that's a good shout didn't think of that! We're a bottle of champagne down so I don't think he will take much convincing to get sweaty in this heat 😂

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