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Amy95 · 22/05/2023 08:23

Hello ladies I'm officially on my two week wait 🙌 it's my first time tracking this month so I'm all new to this ..... Me and my partner have been trying now for about 2 years on and off , but this month we've decided to track and jist go for it ... I'm more positive this time around so if you would like to keep me company your welcome x

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A95x · 06/06/2023 08:51

dabs9 · 06/06/2023 08:44

@A95x glad you're feeling better! 💕

I'm still spotting with sore boobs and clueless really 🤷‍♀️ x

Oh really 😔 have you had proper flow yet or just spotting ?xx

dabs9 · 06/06/2023 08:44

@A95x glad you're feeling better! 💕

I'm still spotting with sore boobs and clueless really 🤷‍♀️ x

A95x · 06/06/2023 08:29

Morning everyone, I'm currently feeling more like my happy self now 🙌
So where is everyone in there cycles 🤞
Also I'm not going be tracking this month because I want a month off but I'm going be here for the ride with all of you🥰 let's hope June's the one xx

LeopardLover · 05/06/2023 21:54

GCS34 · 05/06/2023 21:49

I haven't heard of this until @LeopardLover said it earlier! I defo say it counts even when they're born 😏😎 does it count if you ARE a girl? Cuz I might need that excuse in Monday morning calls.

Hahahaha you two @Bubblesandtroubles @GCS34 🤣

Amy95 · 05/06/2023 21:52

GCS34 · 05/06/2023 21:43

Glad you're feeling a bit better. I'm so sorry you got fobbed off before. And absolutely show them the pics. Their has to be a reason. Are you on your period now then or not? Do you have any cramping or anything? Wonder what it is it's so strange. Worth asking about endo tho. Hopefully not but defo worth not ruling out.
Are you off work for a few days? And do you have an appointment yet? Was your gp helpful or not? Xx

Yeah I will be showing them , exactly it's not normal to have clots like I've been having , had some cramps but not extreme and bleeding has stopped so I think that's the tablets, yes I'm going be off now for a few days until I'm better , gp was useless just hope I'm not waiting long for a appointment xx

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GCS34 · 05/06/2023 21:49

Bubblesandtroubles · 05/06/2023 21:36

@Amy95 pleased you're feeling a little better. Sleeping it off definitely the best thing. Hope the Gyne is more useful than the GP! I wish they'd just admit they don't know things some times rather than just be dismissive.

I have a girl. I did not know I could use her as an excuse for looking rough though!! 🤣 (Does that excuse expire when they're born or can I still blame that now?) Xx

I haven't heard of this until @LeopardLover said it earlier! I defo say it counts even when they're born 😏😎 does it count if you ARE a girl? Cuz I might need that excuse in Monday morning calls.

GCS34 · 05/06/2023 21:43

Amy95 · 05/06/2023 20:55

Hi ladies I've been in and out of sleep most of the day it's really wiped me , when I speak to the gynecologist I'll ask about endo , the blood test came back negative , I've taken photos of all the clots so I have that to show them I got fobbed off when this happened before , so definitely going try to get some answers , I've not passed any more so I'm glad about that 🤞 so hopefully I don't have any more now and the bleeding has stopped thankyou for all your kind messages 🥰 means alot , you all feel like my friends and I've never met any of you 😂 xx

Glad you're feeling a bit better. I'm so sorry you got fobbed off before. And absolutely show them the pics. Their has to be a reason. Are you on your period now then or not? Do you have any cramping or anything? Wonder what it is it's so strange. Worth asking about endo tho. Hopefully not but defo worth not ruling out.
Are you off work for a few days? And do you have an appointment yet? Was your gp helpful or not? Xx

Bubblesandtroubles · 05/06/2023 21:36

@Amy95 pleased you're feeling a little better. Sleeping it off definitely the best thing. Hope the Gyne is more useful than the GP! I wish they'd just admit they don't know things some times rather than just be dismissive.

I have a girl. I did not know I could use her as an excuse for looking rough though!! 🤣 (Does that excuse expire when they're born or can I still blame that now?) Xx

Amy95 · 05/06/2023 20:55

Hi ladies I've been in and out of sleep most of the day it's really wiped me , when I speak to the gynecologist I'll ask about endo , the blood test came back negative , I've taken photos of all the clots so I have that to show them I got fobbed off when this happened before , so definitely going try to get some answers , I've not passed any more so I'm glad about that 🤞 so hopefully I don't have any more now and the bleeding has stopped thankyou for all your kind messages 🥰 means alot , you all feel like my friends and I've never met any of you 😂 xx

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LeopardLover · 05/06/2023 19:17

@Amy95 Oh Amy! Clots the size of your hand that you can feel isn't normal! I hope your gynae appointment comes through soon and they test everything. Thank goodness you have that glorious holiday planned! Well deserved xxx

LeopardLover · 05/06/2023 19:14

GeoSmed · 05/06/2023 15:02

@Amy95 Great news you're being referred to the gyne. When is your appointment or don't you know yet? Do you have heavy periods usually? Hopefully the gyne will be able to help you understand what's going on. Don't discount what your mum said though - be kind to yourself and hopefully you'll be back on the wagon soon and strong enough to make lots of holiday babies!

@LeopardLover hhahaha sassssssssssssyyyyy!! But yes, me too haha! My BIL is having a little girl in august, and his partner is so considerate and kind. She said to me the other day that all her and my BIL wish for is for us to be pregnant, and that he was so scared to tell us when they found out. Bless them. THAT, I'm on board with! Watch me be really smug when it's me and all this will go totally out the window! 😂jokeeeee ....👀

Hehehe I'm legit this emoji 💁🏻‍♀️ Awww, she's sounds really wonderful. It's nice she also thought about how the news would impact you guys. Very considerate. Hahha I know, saying that I'll probably end with a girl and look hideous 🤣💜

Sealover123 · 05/06/2023 18:48

OMG @Amy95 I hope you are ok; what an ordeal!! Take care of yourself xxx

Annapolis35 · 05/06/2023 16:51

Sorry @Amy95 just seen you had a blood test and no HCG. I have read before that people who have chemicals have lines that get fainter and then they start bleeding a few days later so that might have happened. But hopefully they’ll find out what’s going on either way. It’s horrible not knowing. Sorry!

Annapolis35 · 05/06/2023 16:44

@dabs9 Oh don’t worry at all! It was absolutely true haha, so don’t think about it at all. Ohhh! Did that go okay? I’ve been surprisingly open with people about what we are going through and it has helped to talk.

@GeoSmed That is a really weirdly loaded way of saying that. I just don’t understand people! Yes my husband is certain my friend said it deliberately knowing what we are going through and that she is a psychopath 😂

@Amy95 Have you taken a pregnancy test? From my experience, it took weeks for HCG to come down after bleeding and a procedure but it may be different if you are early on and everyone is different.

GeoSmed · 05/06/2023 16:26

dabs9 · 05/06/2023 15:50

Wow @GCS34 @Annapolis35 I think I was mega PMSing this morning. Just read my message back and I was an utter bitch!!!!! I do apologise. I didn't mean to slate your friends 😬

I'd just sent a huge message into my family chat telling them our situation (living so far away, these things are always done by text lol) and I was highly emotional, if that's any excuse. X

Oh bless you! Has anyone replied to your message? Hopefully they have and their is some compassion for your situation!
and don't be daft - I wasn't offended by your message. It was totally true, I'm just trying to remain diplomatic and level headed today, rather than going and punching her 😂
@Amy95 I'd ask about endo when you have your appointment, and maybe do a bit of reading and see if it sounds like something you've struggled with xx

dabs9 · 05/06/2023 15:50

Wow @GCS34 @Annapolis35 I think I was mega PMSing this morning. Just read my message back and I was an utter bitch!!!!! I do apologise. I didn't mean to slate your friends 😬

I'd just sent a huge message into my family chat telling them our situation (living so far away, these things are always done by text lol) and I was highly emotional, if that's any excuse. X

dabs9 · 05/06/2023 15:48

Amy95 · 05/06/2023 14:22

Hi ladies bit of a update gp referring me to gynecologist 🤞 I've passed another clot took a photo of it this time was going post on here but didn't know the guide lines it's discusting but I don't know what else to do the doctors are useless , my mum seems to believe I was pregnant my blood test shown I wasn't so I really don't know what's going on 🤦🏼‍♀️ she suffered a mc and this is what she was passing so I'm not to sure what's going on xx

I'm so glad you're getting a gynae referral.
To me it sounds like a mc but I've never had one myself. Have looks after lots of people who have though and the big clots are defos an indication. Maybe your hcg had dropped too low to show a pregnancy had been there by the time they did the blood test?
I don't know but I'm glad you're going to hopefully get some answers for this.
Would also want to be tested for endo like @GCS34 said. Xx

Amy95 · 05/06/2023 15:35

GeoSmed · 05/06/2023 15:31

Don't worry about it and it's not TMI - you've had a scary thing, that's totally normal to talk and ask. Have they tested you for endo before did you say? I swear someone said they had, but I can't remember. Hope you're feeling okay and holiday vibes are not long away!! x

No never been tested for that , do people with endo normally get what I've had ?xx

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GeoSmed · 05/06/2023 15:31

Amy95 · 05/06/2023 15:19

They said it can take a while , so I'm expecting to be clueless for a while , yes normally heavy but not clots like I've passed my palms aren't the biggest but I'd say they have been size of my Palm I can feel them when I'm passing them and sort of pushed it out sorry tmi , the holiday is looking even more appealing now 🥰❤️ thankyou for your kind words xx

Don't worry about it and it's not TMI - you've had a scary thing, that's totally normal to talk and ask. Have they tested you for endo before did you say? I swear someone said they had, but I can't remember. Hope you're feeling okay and holiday vibes are not long away!! x

Amy95 · 05/06/2023 15:19

GeoSmed · 05/06/2023 15:02

@Amy95 Great news you're being referred to the gyne. When is your appointment or don't you know yet? Do you have heavy periods usually? Hopefully the gyne will be able to help you understand what's going on. Don't discount what your mum said though - be kind to yourself and hopefully you'll be back on the wagon soon and strong enough to make lots of holiday babies!

@LeopardLover hhahaha sassssssssssssyyyyy!! But yes, me too haha! My BIL is having a little girl in august, and his partner is so considerate and kind. She said to me the other day that all her and my BIL wish for is for us to be pregnant, and that he was so scared to tell us when they found out. Bless them. THAT, I'm on board with! Watch me be really smug when it's me and all this will go totally out the window! 😂jokeeeee ....👀

They said it can take a while , so I'm expecting to be clueless for a while , yes normally heavy but not clots like I've passed my palms aren't the biggest but I'd say they have been size of my Palm I can feel them when I'm passing them and sort of pushed it out sorry tmi , the holiday is looking even more appealing now 🥰❤️ thankyou for your kind words xx

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Laura96 · 05/06/2023 15:17

Hi all!! Some advice please?? First time seeing this on a clear blue ultra early my period is due in 6 days does this look like an evap line or positive???

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GeoSmed · 05/06/2023 15:02

Amy95 · 05/06/2023 14:51

She said some women get them and totally normal I said what till someone is nearly passing out that's classed as normal she said I need to speak to the gynecologists, just still big clots xx

@Amy95 Great news you're being referred to the gyne. When is your appointment or don't you know yet? Do you have heavy periods usually? Hopefully the gyne will be able to help you understand what's going on. Don't discount what your mum said though - be kind to yourself and hopefully you'll be back on the wagon soon and strong enough to make lots of holiday babies!

@LeopardLover hhahaha sassssssssssssyyyyy!! But yes, me too haha! My BIL is having a little girl in august, and his partner is so considerate and kind. She said to me the other day that all her and my BIL wish for is for us to be pregnant, and that he was so scared to tell us when they found out. Bless them. THAT, I'm on board with! Watch me be really smug when it's me and all this will go totally out the window! 😂jokeeeee ....👀

GeoSmed · 05/06/2023 14:58

SnookyPook · 05/06/2023 12:58

Thanks for the welcome guys!

@Annapolis35 so sorry for your loss too. Hopefully little 🌈 babies for both of us soon.

Ah! Nice to have another few '85 (and '84 I guess!) Vintage mums around! @LeopardLover @Bubblesandtroubles

@GCS34 it amazed me how thoughtless some people can be 😔 hope you're ok. One of my best friends has literally just had a baby on Saturday, and one of my SiLs is due in July.... Thankfully both understanding but it does hit hard sometimes, especially as I really thought I'd be joining them in October and now I'm not.

@SnookyPook Oh gee I know right? and hey btw! 🤗I'm really so sorry to hear about your loss in April. That's amazing how you're already feeling up to another shot - good on you! ❤I too am part of the 80's 30+YO club, so theirs a few other grandma's here!
Sucks for a babyshower too. Did you tell your close friends / in-laws that you had a MMC? how were they? Glad they are understanding though.

@dabs9 @LeopardLover @Annapolis35 yeah I don't think it's people's fault. I know when it's my turn I'll want to tell the world, but I would like to think I would have more decorum with people who are struggling. I'm quite lucky (lucky? Maybe not lucky) that I have 2 of my best friends who are having to have fertility treatment too, so it's nice that I have some close friends who 'get' it. That massively helps! Don't worry i'm over it 😊I've had to jump a lot of hurdles over the years, and one thing I am is resilient, so I and you girls will hopefully be part of the pregnant party soon! Until then, lets be bitter! 😂xx

Amy95 · 05/06/2023 14:51

LeopardLover · 05/06/2023 14:42

@Bubblesandtroubles @Annapolis35 Thanks both! I'm just keen to get cracking. It's a bit concerning how many days of pain I've had though 🙃 I wouldn't mind if it didn't come with the aches haha.

@SnookyPook Vintage mums, love it haha! 💜

@GCS34 Haha if only! It was due yesterday so I'm not very late, I'm just impatient. 👀 I'll be MIFFED if it doesn't arrive tonight! "I've no doubt you'll have children one day." 🙃 So formal too. Bog off! I hope she has a girl and looks rough hehehehe (no offence to anyone else there, but they do say girls suck the beauty don't they 🤣).

@Amy95 So glad you are being referred! What did the GP say about the clots? Di you normally pass big clots or is this completely out of the ordinary? Also, how are you feeling? Xx

She said some women get them and totally normal I said what till someone is nearly passing out that's classed as normal she said I need to speak to the gynecologists, just still big clots xx

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LeopardLover · 05/06/2023 14:42

@Bubblesandtroubles @Annapolis35 Thanks both! I'm just keen to get cracking. It's a bit concerning how many days of pain I've had though 🙃 I wouldn't mind if it didn't come with the aches haha.

@SnookyPook Vintage mums, love it haha! 💜

@GCS34 Haha if only! It was due yesterday so I'm not very late, I'm just impatient. 👀 I'll be MIFFED if it doesn't arrive tonight! "I've no doubt you'll have children one day." 🙃 So formal too. Bog off! I hope she has a girl and looks rough hehehehe (no offence to anyone else there, but they do say girls suck the beauty don't they 🤣).

@Amy95 So glad you are being referred! What did the GP say about the clots? Di you normally pass big clots or is this completely out of the ordinary? Also, how are you feeling? Xx