To bake or not to bake, that is the question...

Just breathe BB. You cant now, you know that, you're on probation. End of March is only 6 weeks away, thats nothing, you can do it. Only 1 more full cycle, if it sounds closer like that. Could be worse, you could have to be waiting to Sept like me! Only way I'd be able to bring dates any closer is if me or DH get a big fat pay rise next month. DH, not that likely, his probabtion will be over though, so there is a chance I spose and I should get a pay rise but I doubt it will be big. Still, I will keep hold of the small bit of hope

Oh no BB, confusing you with GG's implant . Don't get anything out in the interview!!!

BB, lol at your 'going for a look'..bet cha it's coming out
Re: just going for it, don't tempt me! I do go from wanting to start NOW to getting anxious about even ttc. Hoping it's just cold feet as April gets closer!

i think im gonna go just for a look so to speak, no harm in it is there? oh i wish i cld ttc now NJ i REALLY do!

You all feel free to go ahead though

OO BB. Go for the interview!! Then make a decision. No point worrying about that yet. If you dont go you'll be wondering "what if" and if something nasty does happen regarding your probation you'll kick yourself for not going. If you go, you may not like the company/job or decided its not want you want, but if you don't go, you wouldn't have the choice. Its always nice to feel like you have a choice and are in control.

Nooooooo I want at least a chance of being out of here before the next one is born! I was thinking a couple of days ago that if we had even the slightest of chances of selling up before November, this month wouldn't be too bad to start trying, but with out a solid offer on the table, we just can't risk it.

yeah every one just go for it now.... c'mon kay's gone first...lets follow...

Sorry GJ, I know you've said before why you are waiting, but you don't sound like you want to wait any longer to me....!

GJ, why are you waiting to get it taken out?

Good plan BB

GJ i know how you feel

see that is the dilemma...i dont want to go back to a career after kids... just a job...but if i tried this and liked it it'd be nice to have an enjoyable job to come back to... dont know alot about the company but just gonna have a look on t'internet, and yeah youre right may aswell go see what they're offering

Why not go for the interview, see what is involved and take it from there?

But you wouldn't have to give up ttc as long as you don't get pregnany before you start? (unless you want to get your feet under the table etc??).

Do you know the employers BB? DH has been in similar position, where he is now his MD is a jackarse, but where he got headhunted to, the MD is just a cunt (DH's words!)

Is it worth giving up hope of TTC'ing soon-ish?

BB, nice dilemma to have! I'd say go for it, at least suss them out during the interview? Sounds hopeful though, and better hours can only be a GOOD THING

Madness, in here? You must be getting mixed up....!

Where we used to live, in Bedford, there is an amazing indoor water park type thing, haven't been for years but used to have good fun there with the wave machine and the indoor/outdoor whirl pool Was so damn hot in there though, it was like a tropical rainforest, really damp and sweaty

well ladies anew dilemma been invited on interview! position still in current area but better hours might like it better.... what should i do??

It was great exercise. They had a wave pool and just trying to stay upright was enough exercise.

I'm blooming freezing, I need to get a duvet for downstairs.

OO I see it didn't take long to desend into maddness! Kay was on twice earlier, did notice it but thought I would keep it too myself! Swimming sounds great Kay, brilliant exercise too.

I was on twice on the one a couple of pages ago

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No you're not, what you on about woman?

Hello all, Welcome Star.
NJ I'm on the list twice now!

Been swimming with ds he loved it and I'm exhausted, could really do with a sleep now.