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TTC December part 2

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Floralsandsmiles · 03/04/2023 21:34

@Angelselevenx @lottieb92 @Natty83 @AlleycatMarie @bringmearainbow @Mummyme87 @babydustthisyear @seasidegirll @Tryingtoconceivenumber2 @TunnocksTcake @Aussiemum888 @un7breakable @Mushroo @HannahLouD @MilkyAndFluffy @Cheetocat

I hope I have got you all, please add anyone I've missed and I'm sorry if I have! Xxxx

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AlleycatMarie · 05/04/2023 17:00

@TunnocksTCake oh I’m so sorry you’ve had such a crappy month 😞 Being ill is horrible without the stress of work and then thinking it means your body isn’t in the best shape to conceive. Do you have AF symptoms? Still holding some hope for you but if not then I hope af starts soon so you can just get on with next month.
It feels like I was only in the 2ww 5 minutes ago and now here I am again! Feel like I’m wishing my life away by waiting for the day I can first test, the day I think a positive would show, af to start, af to finish, fertile period to start etc. It’s exhausting! Xx

Angelselevenx · 05/04/2023 14:05

@bringmearainbow I think there should be a sac at this stage but I received a not pregnant digital this morning after having a pregnant 1-2 weeks yesterday so at least I was prepared before I went in! Thanks hun appreciate it! I'll be okay just heartbreaking, waiting for the bleeding to stop whenever that may be then I'll be collaring OH again 🥲

bringmearainbow · 05/04/2023 13:40

@Seasidegirll sounds positive sorry they are painful though that bit sucks 🤞🏼

@Natty83 if the negatives were from same batch I'm wondering if it's just a crappy batch of tests because that is so strange 🤷🏼‍♀️

@Angelselevenx I didn't think they could see anything that early it would be like looking for the smallest pinprick 🤔 I hope it isn't ectopic 🤞🏼 it's def a shock and heartbreaking sending love your way ❤️ we're here if you need us

TunnocksTCake · 05/04/2023 13:24

@Angelselevenx So so sorry to hear this, sending you massive hugs! I have been there and it sucks, take care of yourself

@Natty83 ah ive heard wondfos are good, I think if youve had positive digital and wondfo the FRERS are faulty? I agree about the waiting, I Hate it and there is so much in TTC!

@Seasidegirll sounds promising!! FX

@AlleycatMarie Im ok, had a rubbish month with lots of illness which caused issues at work. Looked like I tried to Ovulate twice and caught both but only just managed Peak day and day after and guessing my body wasnt in the best shape anyway so didnt have high hopes but was praying for a miracle after my chemical last month! Now on 14DPO and waiting for af, no preg symptoms and bfns so definitely out. Been the longest month ever, just want to start agan now.

Angelselevenx · 05/04/2023 13:12

@Natty83 @bringmearainbow @Seasidegirll thank you. They scanned me internally, said my lining had thickened so it was preparing itself, but no pregnancy. Had to have blood tests to rule out ectopic. You never think it's going to happen to you so it's heartbreaking. But onto the next cycle we go 💔

@Seasidegirll got my fingers crossed for you!

Natty83 · 05/04/2023 12:56

@bringmearainbow they were a 2-pack so assuming the same but can check when I get home x

Floralsandsmiles · 05/04/2023 12:37

Angelselevenx · 05/04/2023 12:19

@bringmearainbow no pregnancy found so they think it was a chemical 😔 xx

Aww I'm so sorry @Angelselevenx 😞 this is awful! Xxx

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Seasidegirll · 05/04/2023 12:36

@Angelselevenx oh I’m so sorry 🙁 sending you lots of love ❤️ look after yourself xx

I’m 9/10dpo today and I said I’d try my hardest to not symptom spot but I’ve had some almost painful cramping/pulling in my left hip/pubic bone!! Hard to ignore when it’s almost painful 🤔

bringmearainbow · 05/04/2023 12:26

@Floralsandsmiles twinges are a good sign 🤞🏼

@Natty83 oh I feel that pain I'm rubbish at waiting too. Were all your frers from the same batch numbers?

@Angelselevenx oh lovely I'm so so sorry. Did they scan you or just do a test?

Natty83 · 05/04/2023 12:21

@Angelselevenx I am so sorry, awful news xxx

Angelselevenx · 05/04/2023 12:19

@bringmearainbow no pregnancy found so they think it was a chemical 😔 xx

Natty83 · 05/04/2023 12:16

@bringmearainbow 15dpo today, had my first squinter at 13dpo so early days. It is a bit strange. I guess I have to wait and see what happens, there's just so much waiting and I'm not very good at it haha.

Floralsandsmiles · 05/04/2023 11:51

I am 5DPO today, trying not to symptom spot... I have quite alot of CM and some poking and pulling in my left ovary. But who knows... xxx

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bringmearainbow · 05/04/2023 11:35

@Mummyme87 ahhh that's perfect time to be away have you gone anywhere nice? mine is going slowly but I have a busy couple of days after today so hopefully before I know it it will be Saturday 🤞🏼 I'm the same with the symptom spotting I have done it in the past and it means nada. I have nothing unusual going on here. Normal creamy CM and boobs started hurting yesterday which is very usual for me all very boring 😆

Mummyme87 · 05/04/2023 11:25

@bringmearainbow all good. Nothing to report, no sore boobs, usual Ewcm discharge around day 4/5. All normal stuff really. I try not to symptom spot as I know it’s all bullshit anyway. We are away this week so fairly occupied and not thinking about it too much. How about you?

bringmearainbow · 05/04/2023 11:16

@Mummyme87 how's your tww going?

bringmearainbow · 05/04/2023 11:10

@Angelselevenx I think the weeks digis need either 25 or 50 🤔 big hugs let us know what they say xxx

Angelselevenx · 05/04/2023 11:07

@bringmearainbow I should have at least 10miu/ml by 15dpo though, it was a squeezed out wee in fairness but you would've thought that would still show as pregnant especially as yesterdays fmu showed 1-2 weeks. Just in the waiting room now so will see what they say for some confirmation xx

Mummyme87 · 05/04/2023 10:57

I’m sorry @Angelselevenx be kind to yourself

5dpo today 👌🏻

bringmearainbow · 05/04/2023 10:45

@Natty83 that is very very confusing because the digital is obv positive and the ic has a lovely line. What dpo are you?

@Angelselevenx aww lovely I'm sorry. The EPU will likely blood test you and then do another in 48 hours to see if hcg is progressing. I will say those weeks digitals need a fair amount of hcg so if you've done another today on a short hold you just might not have built up enough concentration for it to say pregnant. I really hope it sticks for you big hugs xx

AlleycatMarie · 05/04/2023 10:20

@TunnocksTCake thanks!! How are you doing?

@Angelselevenx I am so sorry. I hope the EPU can give you some clarity. Sending hugs.

@Natty83 how confusing!! Definitely step away from the tests if you can!!!

xx

Floralsandsmiles · 05/04/2023 10:15

Angelselevenx · 05/04/2023 09:12

I've just done another digital and it says not pregnant after yesterday showing as pregnant 1-2. Looks like I had a chemical 😢 sending positive vibes to everyone else xx

Aww @Angelselevenx , I'm so very sorry! Xxx

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Natty83 · 05/04/2023 09:29

@TunnocksTCake they are Wondflo. Don't know which ones to trust! Two FRERs this morning both BFN.

Natty83 · 05/04/2023 09:28

@Angelselevenx I'm so sorry. Please let us know what they say at EPU, you never know, there are definitely some faulty tests flying around with all these inconsistencies. Love and hugs xx

Angelselevenx · 05/04/2023 09:12

I've just done another digital and it says not pregnant after yesterday showing as pregnant 1-2. Looks like I had a chemical 😢 sending positive vibes to everyone else xx