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TTC with suspected PCOS

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NLO94x · 15/03/2023 16:34

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Hey! 💛
I'm in UK and been TTC for over a year, it is hell!!! I've had doctors appointments, scans and blood tests and everything seems to be coming back to PCOS, I have most of the symptoms so it wasn't a surprise! I'm currently on the waiting list for a gynaecologist but have no idea how long I'm going to be waiting, is anyone in a similar position and if so how long did you have to wait? 💛

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MK85 · 18/05/2023 20:21

@YorkshireTeaCup I need to lose another 9 pounds by middle of June for my next fertility appointment 🙃 I might give the 800 diet a try

YorkshireTeaCup · 18/05/2023 20:02

@MK85 good luck for cycle two. Great news that you've ovulated though! The first cycle we did with letrozole for DD1, the dose wasnt quite right and it didnt work so at least you know its working.

@NLO94x fast 800 is a diet by Dr. Michael Mosley. He uses it to treat pre-diabetes but because PCOS can also cause insulin resistance, i was recommended it. Its 800 calories a day for 12 weeks + intermittent fasting (i do 16:8). Then after 12 weeks, you switch onto the 5:2 diet to be more sustainable. I started it 4 weeks ago and I've lost 6kg 💪🏻💪🏻 Hoping for another 6kg before my next appt. There is an online progamme to follow and im finding the recipes really easy to stick to. Its a lot of eggs for lunch though! 😅😋

MK85 · 18/05/2023 18:07

@YorkshireTeaCup were due our second fertility appointment next month.
I'll be 38 this year but we have no prior children. Just completed my first month of clomid and successfully ovulated but didn't get pregnant . On CD2 now . Hoping this cycle goes better

NLO94x · 18/05/2023 16:54

@lottieb92 So typical! I will call them to see if anything has come up :) I had internal scans done at the end of last year so not sure if they will repeat them, I don't mind either way as long as we're getting somewhere!

@YorkshireTeaCup ooh what is the fast 800 diet? I am so bad at dieting!

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lottieb92 · 18/05/2023 13:19

@sl7uk

so the laparoscopy was suggested I guess because they can root around inside and see what’s going on better!
they’ve said they can check/ flush my tubes / Check for endo (as mum has it) see if they need to remove anything.

And I guess they can do ovarian drilling if they needed as well (I hate the term used for that so much!)

I really didn’t want a surgery, but as we have a child together (7.5 years ago!) they have said this is the end of the NHS line for me post the surgery.

I won’t get any meds either due to my cycles and ovulation being regular. So it’s this then onto IVF.

YorkshireTeaCup · 17/05/2023 21:57

Dipping back into this thread! We had our first fertility appointment in April - next one booked for July. We had all our original tests done in 2020 when we had DD1 but this is a new hospital and they want to renew as more than 1yr old. So bloods ordered (although haven't had a period since March so still waiting to do day 2-5 bloods), TV scan done and DH has his semen analysis next week. I might not need to have my tubes checked on account of carrying a pregnancy to term in the past, but they said they will make a decision about that at the next appt. Next appt is July and i'm currently doing the FAST 800 diet to try and get my weight down further as my BMI is currently awful (i basically lost 0kg after having DD).

Plan agreed with the Dr that pending the results of the tests, it will likely be another 3 rounds of letrozole to start with, which i'm happy with. This worked for DD1 and although i'm a couple of years older, hoping we'll have the same success. So DH and i are both focusing on being as healthy as possible in preparation - i'm 37 later this year and so we have agreed we will give it another year and if it doesn't happen, we will be thankful for our DD. But we are not going to go for IVF and OI is as far as we are prepared to go now.

In terms of timelines for anyone interested, i had first GP appt in Nov, referred to our women's clinic for initial scan in Jan, women's clinic referred to me Gynae at end of Jan, letter said it would be a 26week wait but first appt was beginning of April. So not quite as bad as expecting (we are in London).

sl7uk · 17/05/2023 18:58

@lottieb92 thanks for sharing. What type of surgery is your laporoscopy? And what was the reason they suggested that to you?

lottieb92 · 17/05/2023 18:01

@NLO94x

same happened to me - i got bored waiting around then the appointment came as i booked a holiday... typical
i called the department and they got me a cancellation earlier than my offered slot! So call and beg?!

They did internal scans on me as they had all my blood work etc.. so prepare for that even though I was on my period at the time - lovely. lol. height and weight etc was done.

Then they suggested I started Inofolic which I take now - then waitlisted for a laporoscopy ... 8 months wait apparently.. so I am hoping I get that surgery by September/ october :)

NLO94x · 17/05/2023 16:50

@sl7uk I just feel more relief something is finally happening!!

I had all those tests done at the beginning of the year but I'm guessing they may want to redo them themselves.

How are you getting on 💛

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sl7uk · 17/05/2023 16:45

@NLO94x ahh no, I hope they reschedule you quickly! I agree, the waiting around for the next step is unbearable.

I’m not sure what tests you’ve already had done but at my first consultation they wanted to do an transvaginal ultrasound scan, full blood work, with the most important being to check being my AMH levels. My AMH level basically decided my fate and next step! They will also want to get your tubes checked at some point, to make sure no blockages. If there is a blockage, my consultant said we’d need to go straight to IVF.

Hope that helps a little!

NLO94x · 17/05/2023 15:46

How's everyone doing?

I got my referral appointment through today and it's fallen when I'm on holiday, typical!! Back on the waiting list now so hopefully hear something in the next few days! I can't wait now I just want to know what the next step is for us, the unknown is so hard to deal with, I'm presuming they will redo our tests and go from there, anyone able to shed some light on what happens at these first few gynae stages?? 💛

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NLO94x · 05/05/2023 07:23

@MK85 yes taken myo-inositol for this first time this month with vitamin D 💛

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MK85 · 05/05/2023 01:23

@NLO94x are you taking anything supplement wise like myo inositol

NLO94x · 04/05/2023 16:02

@sl7uk such a nightmare just glad it's sorted and I didn't do the full wait (10 month waiting list) before contacting them! They are all over the place, I have some months where I have a normal 4 week cycle, give or take a few days, then some cycles (like my current one) can be so much longer, I'm currently on CD45 and no signs of AF yet, 10 tests later all BFN! I hope the next 3 weeks go fast for you and wishing you all the luck for your operation 💛

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sl7uk · 04/05/2023 15:56

NLO94x so sorry to hear that, what a mess, thank god you checked in with the hospital! Really hope this fast tracks things for you. Remind me, are you getting periods at the moment? I really hope my Ovarian Drilling operation in 3 weeks helps me ovulate, feels like a waiting game not being able to do anything at the moment.

Also, does anyone have any other PCOS symptoms? I have lean PCOS so I’m in the minority and therefore my symptoms and treatment might be a bit different to others, but my acne had flared up massively, so any tips on that would be much appreciated!

NLO94x · 04/05/2023 15:47

@MK85 that is rubbish 😩

I've had a nightmare couple of days! I decided to contact the hospital I have been referred to to ask if they had a cancellation list to find out that my referral was only send 2 weeks ago!! I had my doctors appointment in January and was told the referral was being done then, my doctors filed my notes away without doing the referral and it only came to light when I rang to check everything a couple of weeks ago, even though at that point they confirmed it had been done! Very frustrating!! They have called me this morning to try change it to an urgent referral so hopefully it's worked in my favour and I'll be seen sooner!

How's everyone else doing 💛

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MK85 · 02/05/2023 19:28

@NLO94x I'm in Northern Ireland .Things move at a snails pace

NLO94x · 02/05/2023 19:24

@MK85 oh my gosh I'm sorry it's been so hard work for you!! I can't even imagine how frustrated you are!! What are you based? 💛

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MK85 · 02/05/2023 18:38

@NLO94x I was originally referred to gynaecology and they requested the semen analysis. Gynae originally wanted me to complete a 6 month OI induction since I have pcos before being referred however we saw a different doctor who put us straight through to fertility clinic due to several factors really. His results aside, we'd waited 4 years on a waiting list to see a gynaecologist and when we did get referred we spent an entire year getting messed around by gynae. They essentially just threw drugs at me without any proper testing or instructions and refused to see me when i requested clarity. I had to go all the way back to my gp and complain about the inappropriate care I'd been receiving. Around that time we saw another doctor and given all these factors, Including how long we've been trying (18 years) and my age now since I'm late 30s, he felt referring us to the fertility clinic was the best option. That had taken us ANOTHER 9 months waiting on first consultation and we're due out review in June. 4 months after the first to decide the appropriate treatment, which we were told would be ivf and that's another 12 months waiting list. 😴
If its any help , everyone seems less concerned about his results. Unless he's shooting blanks then it's not impossible. You just need one sperm . All of the conversations between doctors seem to really be focused around the female.
Gynaecologist referred us to another doctor, and while I was initially very pleased ,he finally gave me an ultrasound and hsg, something no one else thought about , which is was so frustrated with since I was having lots of random bleeding which should have been checked out to rule out the C word . He told us go ahead with OI induction while we're waiting for next fertility clinic appointment . I've just completed my first cycle of clomid . It was a bit of a disaster to be honest. They called us in way too early for the scan, and now we can't get bloods so its has been an entirely unmonitored cycle, which I'm not happy with at all. Now that docs refusing to see me also. I've contacted his secretary and complained and everything. Nhs are arseholes, thats the conclusion I've came to

NLO94x · 02/05/2023 15:11

@cdn298 so sorry!! :( keep testing and fingers crossed for you!!

@FatAgainItsLettuceTime I'm not over weight but I don't have the best diet, I don't like veg which isn't ideal but I do eat alot of fruit, meat, fish, some months seem to be fine but others seem to longer, there is no pattern!

@Pearfacebananapoop They are hit and miss, I presumed I could only have clomid prescribed from a fertility specialist but I will definitely ask the question!!

💛

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Pearfacebananapoop · 01/05/2023 10:44

Do you get periods OP? If you don't / v irregular I would be asking if your GP will prescribe clomid whilst you wait for Consultant (they may not want to as not many do, I was lucky and had one that did).

When you see your consultant expect more tests and then a delay until you get those results and next appointment before course of action is decided - just warning you as this could still go on for months after first appointment.

I fell pregnant on my 3rd round of clomid and the day 21 test showed I would not have got pregnant without it. Nb my clomid was from the GP still and the consultant was of the view I should wait longer before going on it (it had been 3 years! I had done 2 rounds and decided to use my last round on a whim a few months later).

I also used to eat a lot of oestrogen rich foods eg houmous. No idea if it helped but made me feel
Like I was doing something. Good luck!

FatAgainItsLettuceTime · 01/05/2023 10:31

@NLO94x what is your weight/diet like?

I have PCOS, insulin resistant too and had very irregular periods, it took 3 years to conceive and we had reached the point where we had accepted it wasn't going to happen.

The only thing that regulated my periods and led me to ovulate was losing weight and going low carb. As soon as I lost 10% of my body weight my periods started to come regularly every 28-30 days. If I put weight on they go again. The low carb is important, I just cannot lose weight by calories alone, I also find myself starving hungry, but if I can make it through the first week of a diet with no refined sugar, no bread or pasta, just carbs from green veg and berries then the hunger disappears and the weight starts to come off.

cdn298 · 01/05/2023 09:49

Negative on a clear blue ultra early and on another IC 😢
Absolutely gutted x

NLO94x · 01/05/2023 09:38

@sl7uk thank you I've read that so I'll buy some. Going private is definitely an option for us, financially it would be difficult but we could manage. On my NHS app it says if I've not heard about an appointment by early June I can ring and chase it up, that's for the gynaecologist though so I have no idea time wise after that we'd be looking at ☹️

@MK85 I'm sorry for your loss, have you had a referral for a gynaecologist or straight to a fertility clinic? My head feels mashed by it all 💛

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MK85 · 01/05/2023 09:31

@NLO94x yes , in the same boat here. His results were bad, low count and poor morphology.. very high abnormal count . Advice from andrology was to refer to fertility clinic. Consultant at hospital told us its not completely impossible to get pregnant even with those results ( it only takes one) but would take longer so we were put on fertility clinic waiting list in October as weve been trying for an extremely long time . Pcos has wrecked havoc with my cycles (1 to 2 a year) and one my first back to back period in december I got pregnant ( ended in a loss ) . But yes, clearly it's very much possible . I put him on supplements but they made absolutely no difference at his 3 month repeat test