TWW thread around 27/02/23

@Freya8 I am sooooooooo happy and delighted for you ahhhh congratulations 🎊 🎉 🤞🤞 safe and healthy pregnancy for you eeeee!!

Aww this is great! Are you joining a birth group? I'm on the may one.. there is a WhatsApp group too 😊 xxx

Yeh lit found out monday night 9dpo obv first hurdle felt lik gettin over 13dpo wen af was due there on fri. I ovulated on cd11 this month weirdly which was so early. Also was jus in a very low place of fuck it all type thing this month. So yeh very very early days jus hope n pray for us!! Jeez i keep runnin to loo lmao i actually had zero symptoms this month only now am i gettin little cramps or sore boobs xxxxx 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Wahhhhh are you serious @Freya8 ?! This is amazing!!! Congratulations!!! Xxxx

Yep before the ivf! Amazingly! Lol thank you so much! Xxx

@ddaisynner hey babes yayy delighted for you!! All that matters is healthy n happy! Wow @Floralsandsmiles amazing news abso amazin prayin for you n this little bean ❤❤❤ after 3 chems i dont even wana say this out loud or type it thru fear of jinxing abso petrified im only 3 weeks 5days xxx

@Floralsandsmiles ahhhhh I'm soo happy for you congratulations 😍😍 I'm so glad you caught and before doing the ivf as well that's so exicting! 🤞🤞 for a safe and healthy pregnancy for you

Aww my darling @ddaisynner ! This is amazing! Congratulations on your next baby boy! 🥰
I'm doing well thank you.. I have actually been keeping a secret... after my CP in July, I actually fell pregnant and am 6 weeks tomorrow. Early days and I'm tired and scared and anxious as hell, but pray and hoping! Xxx

@Freya8 @Floralsandsmiles how are you both doing? Any news?

I had my gender scan and its another boy although I'm a bit unsure because she wasn't filled with confidence and the two images I got was a bit contradicting 🙈 but at least it isn't long until the 20 week scan to confirm 🤞 both my boys cried their eyes out they didn't want another brother 🤣🤣 but I'm happy that bab is healthy

Oooo @ddaisynner , please let us know when you find out? I'd love a little girl too, but now I'm not fussed at all.
Thank you, really crossing my fingers that it will fall natural (by the skin of its teeth in the next week) or will fall on the first round of IVF as we can't afford multiple cycles.. 😒 xxxx

It was dreadful, I know you understand @Freya8 . I really thought that was the one! I had all the symptoms, tests were darker over the 4 days too. Devasting.
I am hoping for the more fertile rule, who knows though! If no BFP before, I will be starting ivf 13th September hopefully
I'm sorry that you are feeling so low, from experience (as I was the same), I felt better after I had a plan in place as next steps, felt I had abut more control of the situation xxxx

@Freya8 I am - I was actually buzzing because my local scan place was holding a giveaway for a scan and I actually won it so saving myself £87 lol but yeah 2 weeks today. I'm so exicted to see if baba is a girl because I tried to gender sway. I sent off the scan to early glimpse and nub whisperers to guess and they both came back as girl so 🤞🤞🤞

I would ask to go onto progesterone with all thise chemicals 🥺 I'm so glad the tests have come back all normal hopefully your get your rainbow baby soon 🤞

@Floralsandsmiles oh hun I'm so sorry about the chemical last month, I really hope this month is it for you. But I'm exicted that your starting ivf next time 🤞 you never know your have your secret rainbow 🌈 really have my fingers crossed for you both

@Floralsandsmiles im so sorry for ur chemical 😔 your so strong!! Its a tuff journey esp wen everyone is telling you more fertile after chemicals .. in my case this is not true. They also tell u that its good thing u can get preg too. Full praise for goin down the ivf route and ive heard miracles of ppl gettin bfp right before! Xxx

Sorry babes im only seein the post now above that one

@Floralsandsmiles thank u 💓 how r u doing? I dont want to pry if ur not wantin to talk about anythin but know am here. I had to come off the 35+thread for a bit xxx

Aww @Freya8! I.hate to hear you so low! Positives this month for you: you've started investigating and everything is coming back OK 👍👌 hang in there, you've got this. Sending you loads of love and hugs! Be kind to yourself darling, you're doing amazing xxxxx

Aww this is amazing @ddaisynner ! A massive congratulations! Must have been so nice seeing little one on the screen!

I'm OK, had a chemical last month which utterly devasted me. However this cycle I'm currently 5dpo. I will be honest I felt some of the same symptoms I had last month, this month, from 3dpo. But u know that's too early, so it can't have been implantation. So who knows.
Anyways we are doing ivf this cycle, start when AF arrives. Part of me hopes I get a positive test just before we start but the other part wants to start otherwise I will be in this constant cycle each month and I need to break myself out of it for my own sanity.. xxxx

@Floralsandsmiles @ddaisynner hey how r u both?

Omg @ddaisynner thats so so lovely thats flyin in for you my goodness! Are u gonna find out wat ur havin? Chuffed to bits for u xxxx

@Floralsandsmiles hey babes hows u dealing with everythin? Xxxx

Im on cd6 today of cycle 7. Progestrone tests and rubella everythin all came bk clear hubbys SA came back with good results only slightly under in morphology but dr was like its marginal. Im doin a amh test this week so see wat that brings tho im fairly reg. Ive had 3 chemicals now in 6 months weirdly at month 2 4 and 6 there all faint lines that never progress and on all diff tests too. Dont really know how i am mentally to be fair. Prob give it to end of year n give up. The actual physical symtoms every month floor me in terms of cramps boobs hurtin n periods that are quite intense i can only presume are instense as somethin is maybe trying to happen but failing. Yeh soul is destroyed at this point not gonna lie and i know theres alot of happy stories out there but cant shake this feelin mine wont be one of them xxx

@Floralsandsmiles I had my 12 week scan on Thursday. Feels more real now. I'm now 13+3 got my gender scan in 2 weeks 😍 How are you?

@Freya8 how are you lovely

How are you all doing ladies? Xxx

Can you submit more than one referral? To prompt the system to answer the first? Xxx

Sorry you are feeling this way @Freya8 ! Maybe take a few months off and approach with a fresh mind, it's all consuming and damaging from a mental health perspective too, as there is no answers as to why it isn't happening etc
I feel you, I really do. Sending hugs xxxx

@ddaisynner awh thank u for all ur support it means alot!! 💓 ive no idea way way midwives apps work its been that long since my daughter!!! Lol surely they wont hav forgotten probbers jus back logs everywhere xx

Still no contact from the midwives been 2 weeks and a day since I self referred now 🙈 there isn't even a number to call to check. Bit I'm hoping I'll here soon because I'm so worried to be forgotten lol

Oh @Freya8 I'm so sorry babe :( I really hope the doctors have some good news for you and can explain why your body is acting the way it is 🥺🥺 I really hope the af calms down for you. Mine have been super light and it took 5 months to catch.

The doctor suggested I was starting the perimenapause and I'm literally 30 this year 🙈 So I think this will be my last baba but 3 is defo plenty for me. The last month I tried the doctor recommended fertility g*ummies, drinking pomegranate juice and eating pineapple (I hate pineapple) maybe the doctor could prescribed some clomid (whatever its called) or could try ivf if all fails 🥺 defo don't give up. You deserve that extra baba and happiness

Taking a break is a good idea stop tracking, enjoy bd and just think if it happens it happens. Sometimes the best things come by surprise. Bugs hugs to you