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Anybody else 4 dpo - I'm going crazy!

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WonderVibe · 25/02/2023 17:58

Could do with people to get through the 2ww with!

DH is away and back on Saturday so hoping to test Friday / Saturday at the earliest and don't want to cave sooner

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Darcy86 · 30/03/2023 15:57

Boymum111 · 26/03/2023 00:36

@Darcy86 hoping you are having an easy time of pregnancy! How wonderful.

@JoRobyn i hope you figured out the battle between head and heart. Thinking of you both through this cycle.

all the best ❤️

@Boymum111 thanks so much! Have had a couple of wobbles but all good otherwise (I hope), got my scan in about a month's time which seems a tad early but I'm not complaining! Hope you're doing well and wishing you lots of luck on your journey 😊

Boymum111 · 26/03/2023 00:36

@Darcy86 hoping you are having an easy time of pregnancy! How wonderful.

@JoRobyn i hope you figured out the battle between head and heart. Thinking of you both through this cycle.

all the best ❤️

Darcy86 · 14/03/2023 17:43

@Boymum111 thank you, sending hugs to you and lots of sticky bean dust for your next cycle 💗

Boymum111 · 13/03/2023 22:33

@JoRobyn thank you - I am doing fine. It was hard during the time of not knowing but now that I have processed it, I am ok. I feel ready to start again next month with all it’s up and downs.

I understand the battle of the head and heart. I am coming 38 and hoping for my second, i feel so young but with a traumatic birth last time my body doesn’t think so! Hope you get the clarity you need, and we will be here should you decide to go again next month! And if not, you’ll be so happy with your boys going forward and can enjoy the not trying.

@Darcy86 hoping you are feeling fab and still on a lovely high ❤️

JoRobyn · 13/03/2023 08:32

I honestly don't know where my head is. I don't want to stop. My partner absolutely does, not for not wanting another baby, but for practical reasons which are very valid. I don't disagree with him but it makes my heart hurt. I haven't got forever to play with as I'm getting older (I'm 40).

JoRobyn · 13/03/2023 08:30

@Darcy86 delighted for you! Congratulations and hope all continues to go amazingly for you xx

JoRobyn · 13/03/2023 08:30

@Boymum111, am so sorry you have gone through this. How are you feeling now? I understand the relief of knowing where you stand, my first ever BFP ended like this, and the uncertainty was hard. Definitely give yourself time to process it though, it's very upsetting still. Sending love.

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Darcy86 · 12/03/2023 21:10

Boymum111 · 12/03/2023 18:18

@Darcy86 no way amazing! Massive congrats! This looks like a strong positive as well. Delighted for you 🥰

Thanks so much! Best of luck to you 😊

Boymum111 · 12/03/2023 18:18

@Darcy86 no way amazing! Massive congrats! This looks like a strong positive as well. Delighted for you 🥰

Darcy86 · 12/03/2023 08:06

Boymum111 · 11/03/2023 10:32

Hi @JoRobyn thanks for checking in! How are you feeling now?

so sadly it has been a chemical. I was getting positives, albeit very faint, until Thursday, and then AF arrived last night. It’s sad but tbh I’m glad that the not knowing is over, it’s such a rollercoaster. Things just didn’t feel right.

Hoping next month things are better for us all…

@Darcy86 how did you get on? Everything crossed for you.

I do have an update this morning...turns out those twinges and the nosebleed was an actual symptom! Eek!

Anybody else 4 dpo - I'm going crazy!
Boymum111 · 11/03/2023 10:33

@Clomidjourney2021 good luck on your 2WW. Mine won’t be starting again for a little while!

Boymum111 · 11/03/2023 10:32

Hi @JoRobyn thanks for checking in! How are you feeling now?

so sadly it has been a chemical. I was getting positives, albeit very faint, until Thursday, and then AF arrived last night. It’s sad but tbh I’m glad that the not knowing is over, it’s such a rollercoaster. Things just didn’t feel right.

Hoping next month things are better for us all…

@Darcy86 how did you get on? Everything crossed for you.

JoRobyn · 10/03/2023 12:02

How are things @Boymum111 xxx

Clomidjourney2021 · 09/03/2023 20:22

Hello! Is anyone still in their 2WW? Currently on cycle #1 of baby number 2. Last time took 18 months but using clomid fell within 1 month when had the correct dose. Have used that same dose this time and had peak clear blue on 7th and 8th feb (used 2 diff test holders) so assuming am about 1DPO. Anyone want to join me on the 2WW??

Boymum111 · 08/03/2023 15:11

@JoRobyn thanks so much 🥰

battles of the heart and head are tough. Just give yourself all the time you need to decide and in the meantime enjoy your little loves ❤️ that’s my plan regardless of the outcome this time x

JoRobyn · 08/03/2023 15:03

Sending love @Boymum111, it's so hard when you feel so unsure. Really keeping everything crossed for you. You too @Darcy86

Yes, no work tomorrow so think will have a little drink tonight. Then I need to have a big think. Head says time to stop, heart is another matter.

Do keep us posted! I'm rooting for these babies!

Boymum111 · 08/03/2023 14:50

@Darcy86 yep 14DPO and AF due tomorrow so I just need to be patient! Maybe too early but just strange fist thing in the morning when it should show the most it isn’t…just unsure 🫤

good for you holding out to the weekend, early testing has caused me so much stress! Everything crossed

Darcy86 · 08/03/2023 13:28

@Boymum111 how many DPO are you now - around 14? It could just be that little bit too early still to properly show. I had nosebleeds with my first too but not this early so am trying not to read too much into it (so hard!)

Planning on testing this weekend if AF doesn't rear her head...keep us posted on how you are getting on!

Boymum111 · 08/03/2023 12:42

Also @Darcy86 i had nosebleeds as a symptom with my first pregnancy, and throughout 1st trimester x

Boymum111 · 08/03/2023 12:40

@JoRobyn sorry to hear AF arrived it’s such a rollercoaster. So disappointing but me time is needed now. I second @Darcy86 and open the wine!

I genuinely have no idea what’s going on with me. I had some very light pink spotting 11DPO @Darcy86 so not sure if that was implantation too? I know they say it comes earlier but unsure. I have faint positives in afternoons and evenings but in mornings there is honestly hardly anything on the sticks, like if you weren’t really looking it would seem negative. Unsure if it’s maybe a chemical then. The rollercoaster continues!

Darcy86 · 08/03/2023 12:21

@JoRobyn sorry the witch arrived. Have a nice glass of wine tonight and a bit of me-time - I know how disappointing this bit is!

I feel AF could be around the corner for me too. 12DPO today, feeling a few twinges, had some light pink spotting yesterday/this morning - feel like this is a bit late for implantation bleeding and I never had it with my first?

JoRobyn · 08/03/2023 07:06

AF for me like clockwork 😭

Darcy86 · 07/03/2023 22:27

11dpo today and had a random nosebleed...?! Have read this can be a sign and also had this a bit with my first, although not quite this early. Obviously now my hopes have spiked considerably and I'm symptom spotting like crazy!

Darcy86 · 06/03/2023 22:03

Boymum111 · 06/03/2023 14:42

Just incase anyone looks here in the future for reassurance - I got a faint BFP in the late afternoon of 11 DPO and today v faint in morning of 12DPO and stronger (but still faint) in the afternoon.

I seem to get stronger BFP in the afternoons for some reason.

Good luck everyone x

Oh wow how one day can make such a difference!! Huge congrats!

We've just come back from a weekend away celebrating my son's 2nd birthday so it's been nice to have other things occupying my brain but now am straight back in speculation mode 🤣 I think I'm 10dpo today, no real symptoms and still planning on waiting until the weekend at least to test. Fingers crossed though 🙏

JoRobyn · 06/03/2023 18:56

Congratulations @Boymum111