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Out... AF Arrived today. Looking for next cycle buddy

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flowerlover1990 · 14/02/2023 13:21

Hi all, AF graced me with her presence this morning... after what I thought were some promising cramps/light bleeding over the weekend. (It was just my mind playing tricks on me but so glad I waited it out, I think a negative test might have upset me a little) Made a note of all my symptoms, so I know what to expect next month, in case it's a no again.

We will be going again for cycle 2 in around 2 weeks time if anyone is in the same boat and is looking for support?

We haven't told many people we've started trying for our 1st baby, so I'm desperate to chat with someone else going through it.
Good luck to you all ♥️

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flowerlover1990 · 05/03/2023 14:28

BudgetBuster · 04/03/2023 21:40

@Piglet34 Nope, no tests. I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks in 2018, had a medical termination at 8 weeks in 2019 and a miscarriage at 6 weeks in 2022. Because the 2nd was technically a termination, I'm not entitled to tests.

I just a bad day. It was emotional. My husband was great - which I know is eqiaas difficult for him. He also invitee our best friends over for drinks this evening which was great to brighten me up a bit.

Sending hugs @BudgetBuster that's a rough ride for you. I'm crossing everything for you that you will get your little baby - keep going 💕 Can you be offered tests after a certain period of time has passed since 2019?

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Piglet34 · 05/03/2023 10:45

@BudgetBuster sorry to hear you've been through such a hard time :( that's so bad it means your not entitled to tests anymore! What an awful system, don't they know that things can change!

Sounds like you have a lovely DH! X

BudgetBuster · 04/03/2023 21:40

@Piglet34 Nope, no tests. I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks in 2018, had a medical termination at 8 weeks in 2019 and a miscarriage at 6 weeks in 2022. Because the 2nd was technically a termination, I'm not entitled to tests.

I just a bad day. It was emotional. My husband was great - which I know is eqiaas difficult for him. He also invitee our best friends over for drinks this evening which was great to brighten me up a bit.

Piglet34 · 04/03/2023 21:28

@BudgetBuster sorry to hear you've not had a good day 😞 so so hard what you have been through and the not knowing is so all consuming. Have you been able to have tests yet? If not that might be a good thing to do to feel like things are moving forward. It's okay to have bad days though, hope tomorrow is better for you xxx

BudgetBuster · 04/03/2023 20:56

@behappy1736 Bleeding that lasts 24-48hrs in early pregnancy is often nothing to worry about. It might settle. Also I wouldn’t worry about the line not getting darker as its still very early.

I hope it all goes well for you on Monday x

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behappy1736 · 04/03/2023 16:27

Hi everyone. So I had positive tests Thursday and Friday then started bleeding Friday lunchtime and still bleeding now it period like too with cramps and enough to wear a pad and have to change it every few hours.
Booked in for bloods on Monday but am I probably right in thinking it's c chemical pregnancy?
I wasn't due my period until tomorrow so I was testing early with 10miu tests from Monday this week.
I did a test this afternoon and there is still a faint line there, no darker but still there.
If it's a chemical pregnancy then would it take a while for the line to disappear?

First photo is Thursday/Fridays tests, second photo is this afternoons test after bleeding for 24 hours.

Any help or thoughts would be much appreciated 🙏🏼 thank you x

Out... AF Arrived today. Looking for next cycle buddy
Out... AF Arrived today. Looking for next cycle buddy
BudgetBuster · 04/03/2023 16:20

Having a pretty rough day today ladies. Completely broke down for hours and hours. I'm not even frustrated anyway I'm just so sad. I don't know if I'm cut out to continue trying anymore if I'm honest. Three pregnancies and no babies.

Piglet34 · 01/03/2023 08:46

@BudgetBuster hello again! Definitely think taking a more relaxed approach can only be a good thing, glad your are having a positive month and good luck this cycle! :)

I'm CD13 and just had a positive OPK so looks like a few days of DTD ahead. We've already DTD every other day since CD4 mainly just because we fancied it which has been nice! Now that I've had the OPK and the pressures there it instantly takes the fun out though 😂

FlyingHighFlyingLow · 28/02/2023 22:24

behappy1736 · 28/02/2023 19:16

Can anyone see a line?

I can see something, did it come up in the time? It's quite grey so could be evap, fingers crossed for you!

behappy1736 · 28/02/2023 19:16

Can anyone see a line?

Out... AF Arrived today. Looking for next cycle buddy
BudgetBuster · 27/02/2023 15:28

Hey everyone. How are we all doing?

I have been MIA the last week - decided to take a brek from tracking for awhile. Currently on CD14 and trying to DTD for fun. Have no OPKs in the house to even tempt me!

FlyingHighFlyingLow · 27/02/2023 13:42

Piglet34 · 27/02/2023 08:27

@FlyingHighFlyingLow I sometimes do get random high ones way before ovulation, I would just ignore until you get the actual peak :) see below one of my past ones where I got almost 0.5 on CD12 but didn't get peak until 6 days later x

Thank you! I've never used them before so when it came up so high I was very confused! I'll keep using and see what happens.

Piglet34 · 27/02/2023 08:27

@FlyingHighFlyingLow I sometimes do get random high ones way before ovulation, I would just ignore until you get the actual peak :) see below one of my past ones where I got almost 0.5 on CD12 but didn't get peak until 6 days later x

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FlyingHighFlyingLow · 27/02/2023 00:33

First time using LH tests, early evening, CD8 and got a ratio of 0.5 surely thats higher than it should be considering my estimated ovulation is CD17?

Out... AF Arrived today. Looking for next cycle buddy
Piglet34 · 24/02/2023 14:55

@flowerlover1990 no worries :) I think you are supposed to do lunchtime for OPKs but I drink a lot of water 😂 I usually do FMU then on the days it gets darker (so 16/17 in that photo) I would also do a lunchtime one to properly catch the peak. I just didn't do it last time while I was away :)

flowerlover1990 · 24/02/2023 10:45

Thanks @Piglet34 that really helps seeing a comparison. Hopefully the peak is coming soon for both of us 👍🏻 that's interesting you've been doing FMU.. I've been doing it around lunchtime when I'm at work but might try FMU over weekend and see if it makes a difference. Jealous you've been in Bali too 😍

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Piglet34 · 24/02/2023 10:40

@flowerlover1990 yeah I find doing a bit of tracking is nice so you know where your at :) don't know if this helps at all but this is my Premom from my last cycle , so it stayed pretty low until then went high then went back to low. I use FMU as seem to get the best results that way! These were all done around 8am but it says 12am because I was in Bali at the time and it didn't change the time difference aha. Hope you get your peak in the next few days! X

Out... AF Arrived today. Looking for next cycle buddy
flowerlover1990 · 24/02/2023 10:15

Piglet34 · 23/02/2023 22:36

@flowerlover1990 yep definitely, I am currently in the same boat. CD8 tomorrow so time to start SMEP-ing, going to try pre seed out so will see how that goes ! Am also planning to start the OPKs tomorrow but I don't usually ovulate until CD17 (although unsure of my CD1 as has random bleeding which stopped then started again so could be CD13 tomorrow if I count from that day). My LH levels usually stay low until literally the day of peak and then I usually do two that day and the next day. Do you use Premom to track the percentage of LH? X

Hey @Piglet34 that's good to know, thank you. - I always assumed I'd ovulate around CD14, but I must be much later in my cycle. Glad to be using OPKs this month so I can really understand what's going on with my cycle. Yes I'm using the pre mom app, and my lh levels have been around 0.14 so far... seems really low 😞 but hoping that's normal for me and it will pick up soon. Either that or I'm drinking far too much water before I test 🤣

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Piglet34 · 23/02/2023 22:36

@flowerlover1990 yep definitely, I am currently in the same boat. CD8 tomorrow so time to start SMEP-ing, going to try pre seed out so will see how that goes ! Am also planning to start the OPKs tomorrow but I don't usually ovulate until CD17 (although unsure of my CD1 as has random bleeding which stopped then started again so could be CD13 tomorrow if I count from that day). My LH levels usually stay low until literally the day of peak and then I usually do two that day and the next day. Do you use Premom to track the percentage of LH? X

flowerlover1990 · 23/02/2023 18:37

Why does time drag so much when you're ttc?! Just waiting for my ovulation window to hurry up 😂 anyone else? I'm CD10 at the moment and it's the first month of me tracking with OPKs. LH levels are still reeeeally low at the moment... I'm guessing I must ovulate much later in my cycle that I thought.

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flowerlover1990 · 17/02/2023 18:34

BudgetBuster · 17/02/2023 09:28

@Piglet34 Fresh new cycle! I've warned my husband not to ask me am I ovulating this month and to just do what hes told 😂

@BudgetBuster 😂😂😂 this made me laugh. Similar conversations have been had with my OH too lol

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Tophy124 · 17/02/2023 14:42

Due AF today and feeling really sick! I’m in such a bad mood I think I will cancel plans today for fear of biting anyones heads off 😅 I had a CP this month so feeling really upset about it all

Piglet34 · 17/02/2023 11:51

@BudgetBuster yeah I think it's better when they don't know 🤣 I'm SMEP-ing this month but not mentioning it haha

Winniewobble · 17/02/2023 11:43

BudgetBuster · 17/02/2023 09:28

@Piglet34 Fresh new cycle! I've warned my husband not to ask me am I ovulating this month and to just do what hes told 😂

@BudgetBuster 🤣🤣 love this, I tell my partner the same thing!
Good luck this cycle ladies 🤞🙏❤️

BudgetBuster · 17/02/2023 09:28

@Piglet34 Fresh new cycle! I've warned my husband not to ask me am I ovulating this month and to just do what hes told 😂