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Anyone else in tww?

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Mummy1502 · 12/02/2023 12:33

I just thought Iā€™d start this thread to see if there is anyone else in the tww and wants to chat? Maybe stop ourselves going insane šŸ˜‚ currently 3/4 days po I think x

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Mummy1502 · 31/03/2023 15:52

@HannahLouD that looks very positive to me, no doubting that line x

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HannahLouD · 31/03/2023 15:51

@Mummy1502 šŸ¤ž such a rollercoaster... I keep on going from being convinced I'm out to thinking I still have a chance... I just don't know. X

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HannahLouD · 30/03/2023 11:42

@Mummy1502 here you go! Happy to carry on talking via private message as it's easier... Weird you can't send pics on it!x

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Mummy1502 · 29/03/2023 10:08

How is everyone today? Iā€™m super tired, no idea if I ovulated or not, first month not using opkā€™s, however we dtd cycle days 3,4,6,7 and 9, missed yesterday which I feel like we should have dtd and not sure if today is going to be too late, worried Iā€™ve not covered enough, I usually get a positive opk day 9/10 so assuming I ovulate day 10/11 going by my previous cycles, there was me saying I was going to be more chill this month šŸ˜‚ x

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Mummy1502 · 28/03/2023 11:21

@HannahLouD im so happy for you! X

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HannahLouD · 28/03/2023 11:14

Very very very unexpected at 10dpo... Terrified of another chemical though... Not letting myself get excited at all for a while...

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Mummy1502 · 28/03/2023 08:29

Anyone tested today? X

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Mummy1502 · 27/03/2023 16:54

@cavebaby i hope it turns positive for you, I have no idea how mines gonna go this month as not even testing for ovulation etc, however I do feel a bit crampy today but if I was to go by my other cycles I normally ovulate around day 10/11, im cycle day 9 today x

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cavebaby · 27/03/2023 16:19

BFN at 9dpo yesterday and I think I'll wait a few days and test once more but pretty convinced it won't suddenly turn positive. It's been nearly 11 months now without even a squinter of a line and I'm losing hope tbh. We are lucky to have DD though and maybe we are destined to just be a smaller family.

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Mummy1502 · 27/03/2023 13:16

How is everyone? X

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Mummy1502 · 23/03/2023 18:22

@HannahLouD sounds like youā€™ve covered it I wouldnā€™t worry x

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HannahLouD · 23/03/2023 17:41

@cave
@cavebaby I hope so! But I honestly don't think this month is going to be my month... I'm only 5dpo but I'm dry as a bone down there and last month I had lots of creamy cm right after ovulation... From what I've read being dry after o at any point isn't really a good sign. Hyping myself up for a bfn already šŸ™„šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ™ˆ

cavebaby · 23/03/2023 17:20

@HannahLouD The days before are much more important so I wouldn't worry. The sperm can survive a relatively long period of days before ovulation whereas the egg can only be fertilised up to a smaller number of hours after ovulation.

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Mummy1502 · 23/03/2023 12:47

Whatā€™s smep? Yea I donā€™t think we covered the 2 days after last month either so will try that this month although Iā€™m not gonna know when Iā€™m ovulating šŸ˜‚ x

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HannahLouD · 23/03/2023 12:37

Mummy1502 · 23/03/2023 12:26

@HannahLouD Thankyou Iā€™m not doing any ovulation tests this month just trying to go with the flow, Iā€™m excited for you x

@Mummy1502 Totally fair enough - I think I'll be the same if there's no luck this month... I'm basically out of them anyway so would save some money not having to order more šŸ˜…
Ah thank you! šŸ¤ž Not getting my hopes up though due to my lack of cm now and also I'm worried we didn't dtd enough. Everyone's been talking about the SMEP and how that's worked for them or that they're trying it but we only dtd 4 days before, 3 days before, day before and day of o... probably should have done it the day after too. My partner even suggested we did and I said not to worry as I was sure we had it covered šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļøšŸ˜‚x

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Mummy1502 · 23/03/2023 12:26

@HannahLouD Thankyou Iā€™m not doing any ovulation tests this month just trying to go with the flow, Iā€™m excited for you x

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HannahLouD · 23/03/2023 12:21

@Mummy1502 so glad it went well!! Fingers and toes crossed for a more successful month this time round for you! šŸ¤ž

All ok here... 5dpo so just impatiently waiting for 10dpo to come round so I can start being a poas addict again!
Already telling myself I'm out this month as cm has completely dried up which didn't happen last month. We shall see I guess! x

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Mummy1502 · 23/03/2023 12:10

Scan went well, no retained products, they couldnā€™t see my ovaries properly so have to go back for another scan in a couple of weeks, waiting game now I spose x

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Mummy1502 · 23/03/2023 09:06

Hi ladies update from me, not sure whatā€™s going on, I started bleeding Motherā€™s Day and bled for 2 days then it completely stopped, literally went from red blood to not even a spec of anything, my normal periods are 4/5 days looking back on my flo app, I started what I can only describe as spotting last night the tiniest amounts of light brown/creamy discharge, have put a pad in just to monitor, this is very unusual for me and has never happened before, Iā€™m thinking something is wrong, I have a scan today to see whatā€™s going on and to see if I do still have retained products which is stopping little beans from sticking, will update you all after scan today, how is everyone? X

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cavebaby · 19/03/2023 11:59

So sorry @Mummy1502 and @RegardingPersephone, a really terrible day for it. Look after yourselves x

HannahLouD · 19/03/2023 11:42

@Mummy1502 @RegardingPersephone I'm so sorry this has happened for you both, especially on Mother's day! :(
I hope you both take some time to yourselves and to grieve if need be.
I've got everything crossed for you both that it happens for you very, very soon! ā¤ļøx

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Mummy1502 · 19/03/2023 11:17

Af arrived for me ladies Iā€™m out, on Motherā€™s Day too! Very cruel, Iā€™m going to be taking time away from mumsnet, ovulation testing and early testing etc, my next plan is to pay for a private scan to look at my uterus as I just feel something is wrong since the retained products, good luck to you all x

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RegardingPersephone · 19/03/2023 11:01

Well I'm out this month. AF has made an arrival and on mother's day... Seems like a cruel twist of irony! Trying to shake off the sadness to perk up and go out to celebrate my friend being engaged.

HannahLouD · 19/03/2023 08:20

@cavebaby ah yayy!! Amazing to have someone in pretty much the same position! šŸ˜Š
Ahaha I know right... After my cp last month I said I wasn't going to test early, but all that has gone out the window and I already know I'll be testing at 10dpo šŸ˜…šŸ˜‚ that's when I got my first proper positive last month (perhaps on 9dpo but it was a vvvvfl). Let's be honest there's no way I'm waiting any later than that šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ™ˆšŸ˜‚

cavebaby · 19/03/2023 08:10

@HannahLouD I'm 2dpo so we can be cycle buddies. I'll tell myself it's a two week wait but I'll definitely be eying up the tests by this time next week šŸ¤£