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TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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FfoxRedN · 09/02/2023 21:07

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ttcttc · 11/02/2023 17:48

ScrantonDunderMifflin · 11/02/2023 17:47

@ttcttc evaps look different. These are very clear positives

Thank you. I thought so but didn't want to get my hopes up xx

ScrantonDunderMifflin · 11/02/2023 17:47

@ttcttc evaps look different. These are very clear positives

ttcttc · 11/02/2023 17:31

I had a Mc in December.

Was considering taking a break to go on holiday. Tested this morning and got these. Evap lines? Or positive. Isn't it a minefield!
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TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙
TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙
ScrantonDunderMifflin · 11/02/2023 17:29

@Bubblemachiene didn't take any breaks both times. Doctors pretty much say that as long as you're okay mentally, keep trying. Best of luck!
P.s. I appreciate some people might need to take breaks for medical reasons.

SMG1992 · 11/02/2023 17:19

@Bubblemachiene im current trying again in my 1st cycle post MC after ovulating last week
as long as your body is back to normal and mentally feel ready then go for it
as you say it gives you something positive to focus on rather than dwelling x

Daniki · 11/02/2023 13:48

@TheBirdintheCave thanks 😊 left it two cycles before trying again so hoping it was just bad luck those times 🫣

Bubblemachiene · 11/02/2023 10:37

Great thanks everyone
I was sure if It was too soon to try right away buy then it saves dwelling on what happened I suppose

Bubblesandballoons · 11/02/2023 10:06

@Mannymoomin that sounds positive fingers crossed xx
@Daniki sorry for you losses and welcome to the group
@Bubblemachiene i’m 36 and 37 in April too, so definitely not too old. I’ve tried straight away every time, bar when I had to not try to get some blood tests done.

TheBirdintheCave · 11/02/2023 09:32

@Bubblemachiene Straight away both times :)

Bubblemachiene · 11/02/2023 08:59

Thanks everyone
I already have 2 children 10 & 7
But i definitely want more and I don't feel too old at all.
How soon after mc did you start trying ?

TheBirdintheCave · 10/02/2023 23:15

@Daniki Sorry for your losses :( There are quite a few of us with two or more miscarriages in this group so you're not alone. I hope you get your rainbow soon :)

Daniki · 10/02/2023 22:46

Hi ladies, is it ok if I join? Starting TTC again this month after two Mc,
one in September and one in December.
Hoping it was bad luck and everything ok this time round 🤞🏻 god the nerves! 😫

MrsC2018 · 10/02/2023 21:10

@Superstorefan123 I'm sorry, today is shit but hopefully tomorrow will be better

@Mannymoomin fingers crossed it's IB 🤞

@Bubblemachiene I'm 38, 39 in March and my mum is positively horrified I'm still having kids. But she'd finished having us by 23 when I was starting with my first so we've just had different lives is all. You're not too old 💕

@bringmearainbow hope you're ok lovely

TheBirdintheCave · 10/02/2023 21:01

@Bubblemachiene I'm 36 :) I don't think you're too old.

FfoxRedN · 10/02/2023 20:37

@bringmearainbow I'm so sorry AF arrived, at least you and @TheBirdintheCave are in it together and have support for this next cycle too!
@Bubblemachiene I am 37 too, i echo the others, it's not too old! I can't believe your mum said that 🫣. Really insensitive, but times are very different now to probably when she had children? Xxx

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bringmearainbow · 10/02/2023 19:53

@Bubblemachiene I'm 37 your def not too old!

@Mannymoomin oooh how odd surely she wouldn't show up 6 days early 😳 I've got everything crossed that's it's IB 🤞🏼

Mannymoomin · 10/02/2023 19:43

@Bubblemachiene thats very insensitive of your mum, you’re definitely not too old, medically we’re considered geriatric after 35 I think, which if you ask me is bonkers!
lots of ladies don’t even start to think about children until mid 30s now anyway, it might take a bit longer, but you’re definitely not too old.
Im 32 but I had three children before I was 20, you’re certainly not the oldest here, and I personally know women that have had babies in their 40s so don’t be disheartened. As long as you’re ovulating you can get pregnant xx

Bubblemachiene · 10/02/2023 19:15

How old is everyone just curious
And a bit worried 😟
I'm 36, will be 37 in April
My mum thinks I'm old to be trying for a baby

Mannymoomin · 10/02/2023 17:34

Thanks for the new thread.

sorry AF hit you @bringmearainbow 😔

I’m 7dpo today, I wiped last night and had pink blood, heart sank thinking here comes AF, wiped again and nothing, and nothing today either. So IB or AF is gearing up, I was really hungry yesterday though and that’s my usual sign that af is getting ready to arrive.
I probably won’t test until af due though which is another 6 days, unless of course she comes first

Superstorefan123 · 10/02/2023 15:43

@LMM91x - thank you <3 it’s been a long 9 months! On clomid now so hoping that helps

LMM91x · 10/02/2023 15:36

@Superstorefan123 oh i’m so sorry that is just awful :( x sending lots of love x

Superstorefan123 · 10/02/2023 15:28

Thanks for the new thread - today is my due date from my first lose and still no further forward with a pregnancy :( feels like a really depressing milestone!

Hoping the new thread brings lots of new luck and BFPs!

Phoenixwings1989 · 10/02/2023 11:16

@FfoxRedN Thank you for starting a new thread.

@bringmearainbow sorry to hear AF came for you.

@SMG1992 wishing you luck with it all.

I am worried about how I've not heard anything from when I self referred. I did so when I found out on Sunday night and thought I might have had least got an email confirming I was on the system and I'd hear back soon. The same happened last year when I was pregnant and I couldn't arrange an appointment with a midwife due to the silence on their end. The anxiety is really bad today regarding this.

bringmearainbow · 10/02/2023 11:15

@SMG1992 I know I thought that after my first I was like why dont they just tell you it might take 4-6 weeks. after the 3 week point I was panicking because there was a still a very positive line 🙄 they really do we have to go through what feels like everything

SMG1992 · 10/02/2023 11:04

@bringmearainbow that is a long time! I'm so sorry you had retained product, I was literally dreading them telling me that yesterday at my scan so was a relief that everything had passed.
It's so weird that they ask you to test after 3 weeks but then have differing dates when you speak to different doctors, the one yesterday told me that it could take "a little longer"!
These MCs really do take their toll 😞