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TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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FfoxRedN · 09/02/2023 21:07

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MrsC2018 · 13/02/2023 17:07

Strange update from me - from the second ultrasound this morning they're not sure if baby is actually attached to the c section scar or just close. It's only a non viable pregnancy if it's attached so they're going to have an MDT tomorrow to discuss, and then arrange an MRI to determine what the next steps are. We're not out of the woods yet even if baby isn't attached to the scar, as there wasn't a heartbeat yet so I guess it also depends if baby continues to develop. Just got to sit tight and see what happens over the coming days/weeks, but for today at least - I'm pregnant

Bubblemachiene · 13/02/2023 17:01

@Ttcpph I've only ever used the cheap ovulation straps not easy @ home just cheap clear & simple from the range

@LMM91x what is pressed? Is that lube? 🙈 I have seen ppl on here mention it, do people use lube anyway and switch to this one when ttc? It's never crossed my mind that. I'd never heared of pressed until now

Chellooo · 13/02/2023 16:05

Yeah they're a bit weird...the first time we got pregnant it was when using them and it was first try... so splashed out on the advanced and now gettin taunted by the flashys...might go back to the old ones

Ttcpph · 13/02/2023 15:43

@Chellooo sorry, meant to tag you but tagged the wrong person 🙈 see my earlier post

Ttcpph · 13/02/2023 15:42

@Bubblemachiene Have you tried the cheaper easy@home ovulation test sticks? I found them to be really helpful as you can see a more clear line progression and then an obvious darker test line so you know it's the right time.
I have honestly found the CB expensive digital ones to be a little temperamental but that is just my experience, others swear by them.

Chellooo · 13/02/2023 15:38

@Bubblemachiene no no have been dtd on the flashy to cover bases but the longer the wee shite hangs about the more I look at the earlier sessions as wasted lol it's been 5 days of it so just want the static to appear so I'm sure...but mu temp spiked this morning so I've no idea what's going on 🙄

LMM91x · 13/02/2023 15:34

@Bubblemachiene yes dtd on flashing and static (I ovulated on a Monday and had sex Thurs, Sun, Mon ) so one of those stuck!

i would say both times i’ve fallen ive used preseed - could be a coincidence or it just really works for me! I was trying before I fell first time for 4 months ish and first month using preseed fell so if you havent given it a try I would recommend x

@Ttcpph hello sorry you’re here :( I am now a total advocate of waiting to test so no second guessing ! My boobs also feel totally normal- normally I get the worstttt sore boobs and thats a sign i’m coming on so i’m gonna take it as a good sign🤣

Kranke · 13/02/2023 15:14

Hi all, would like to join too! I had 3 miscarriages, then a successful pregnancy, then an ectopic last year. Started ttc again late December and had a period 16 Jan. Due on today, but I feel like my period is about to arrive as I’m feeling very heavy. If I don’t come in tomorrow I’ll try a test, just hate raising my hopes! I think I only felt properly pregnant in my successful one at 25wks!!

Ttcpph · 13/02/2023 15:14

Pasted as also posted in another thread:

Hi, I'd also love to join the thread!

we conceived July last year but unfortunately ended in October with a MMC, medical and surgery.
been trying again since December.
I think I'm 7DPO today. The last few nights I've been waking up at 3/4am and also having vivid dreams. Does anyone think it could be a good sign?

its so hard even letting myself consider that I might be pregnant again as the loss last time hit me so hard, I'm not sure I could go through all that a 2nd time.

I took a FRER test on Saturday (5 DPO , BFN, I don't know why I bothered 😂)

I really want to hold off as long as I can before I take another one.

I have had what feel like AF cramps on and off for a few days.

boobs feel normal

Bubblemachiene · 13/02/2023 14:54

@Chellooo @LMM91x do you wait for a static before u dtd or whilst it's flashing
How long after mc did u get a negative pregnancy test x

LMM91x · 13/02/2023 13:56

@Chellooo thank you so much! omg the smug shit! I had it for i think 6 or 7 days before static this month so don’t lose the faith ! It will stop at some point 🤣🤣

Chellooo · 13/02/2023 13:45

@LMM91x awww congratulations what a gorgeous line!!!

My smug little bastard of a smiley face appeared this morning flashing away again... need him to hurry up and go static so I can get a break from the hubby lol 😂

LMM91x · 13/02/2023 12:54

@SMG1992 I will let you know! ❤️ eeeeek fingers crossed for Thursday for a pretty line 🥹 I can’t stop looking at mine, can’t believe it’s actually MINE!

SMG1992 · 13/02/2023 12:48

@LMM91x im so pleased for you! I’d be really interested to hear whether you get a dating scan as I’m hoping I’ll be in the same boat as you later this week - I’m waiting until Thursday to POAS which will put me at 14dpo after my MC

Enjoy the state of disbelief and happiness for now and relax and take it easy! x

LMM91x · 13/02/2023 12:42

Thank you thank you thank you !!

@SMG1992 & @Bubblemachiene I assume so - I’m 14 dpo (from tests I don’t track bbt so can’t be sure I definately ovulated then but I have at some point).

my premom when I put in 15/1 as my LMP (when I passed tissue MC) has me at 4+2 which feels crazy…. i’m not really sure what I do now…. Going to leave it a couple of weeks and then just self refer I guess if all still ‘progressing’ …. Not sure if i’ll get a dating scan as no last period….god it doesn’t even feel like it’s real to be honest and i’m gonna stay in this state of disbelief as long as I possibly can… or at least until I get a bloody symptom! 💕💕

Bubblemachiene · 13/02/2023 12:36

Congratulations @LMM91x when was Yr af due? That's a lovely strong line

SMG1992 · 13/02/2023 12:17

@LMM91x huge congratulations- there is no doubting that line!

Silly question- does that make you 4 weeks? X

bringmearainbow · 13/02/2023 10:42

@LMM91x omg 🙊 that's awesome lovely what a line! Xxx

ttcttc · 13/02/2023 08:16

LMM91x · 13/02/2023 08:12

14dpo & look at this beauty 🥹😭 can’t believe it, exactly 29 days since my heavy bleed for MC… thankfully my cycle appears to have gone straight back to normal and ovulated etc. 🤞 for a sticky sticky bean. Mixed emotions right now - absolutely petrified😔. Don’t have any symptoms other than some cramps ….

Amazing! ❤️

TheBirdintheCave · 13/02/2023 08:13

Aww congratulations @LMM91x :D

LMM91x · 13/02/2023 08:12

14dpo & look at this beauty 🥹😭 can’t believe it, exactly 29 days since my heavy bleed for MC… thankfully my cycle appears to have gone straight back to normal and ovulated etc. 🤞 for a sticky sticky bean. Mixed emotions right now - absolutely petrified😔. Don’t have any symptoms other than some cramps ….

TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙
ttcttc · 13/02/2023 08:11

BudgetBuster · 13/02/2023 08:09

Hi All, just joining this thread.
Has anyone seen a difference in cycle length following a miscarriage? My previous cycles were always 28-30 days but since MC 1st November all cycles have been 25-26 days. I'm worried the cycle isn't long enough to conceive.

I'm a 25 day cycler and conceived first month after stopping the pill after 12 year. I miscarried 25th December, period came back 19th Jan and I'm pregnant again.
25 days is fine - I feel your pain because I worried when I realised I was a 25 day too but it's totally normal and doable x

BudgetBuster · 13/02/2023 08:09

Hi All, just joining this thread.
Has anyone seen a difference in cycle length following a miscarriage? My previous cycles were always 28-30 days but since MC 1st November all cycles have been 25-26 days. I'm worried the cycle isn't long enough to conceive.

bringmearainbow · 13/02/2023 07:57

@MrsC2018 so so sorry lovely ❤️ xxx

Bubblesandballoons · 13/02/2023 07:26

@MrsC2018 so sorry so see your update xxx 💛

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