TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

@tulipsunday ahhh yes I remember now. Well there's still some time 🤞🏼

@buckingmad I tried again straight away both times but I think just go with how you feel at the time

Bleeding is over. I haven’t decided how I feel yet about trying this month but I’m testing on OPK’s just so I know what my cycle is doing post miscarriage.

What did you guys do? Try again straight away or take a little time off?

Don't even know 😞 only got a long series of flashing faces on the clear blue opks but no peak so not sure if I ovulated this cycle. Due period later this week so not feeling v hopeful

@tulipsunday ahhh that's rubbish lovely what dpo are you?

That's so frustrating @bringmearainbow that has happened to me before. Getting negatives on FRERs so just waiting for the likely inevitable 🥲

I'm def out this cycle 🙄 peak yesterday O pains today and we last dtd on Thursday so 5 days are up. Dh is not allowed on anymore holidays 😂 I'm gutted but nothing to be done just have to keep everything crossed for next cycle

@Bubblesandballoons I haven't spoken to you in ages lovely, 🤞for this cycle and like you symptom spotting gets me disappointed fast. I think I'm just hyperaware of anything different. Hope these blood results come back soon ❤️

@Bubblesandballoons that's so frustrating glad though that things are hopefully moving forwards for you. My miscarriages have also been following having my son. Hard to know at this stage if it just bad luck or something else. I just want to focus at the moment on trying to regulate my cycles as my recent pregnancy was conceived early in the cycle and I just wonder if that had an impact.

@tulipsunday i’m having tests as had 4 miscarriages since my ds and they messed up the sticky blood test when they did my bloods in November, so been waiting for them to send a new form to get it done again. Been waiting since the middle of Jan, it took for me to ring them for them to realise it hadn’t been done for some reason 🤦🏼‍♀️. They won’t do anything else until I have this test so it’s been very frustrating having to keep chasing it up. Fingers crossed for tomorrow 🤞🏻. I can feel af on her way so just going to hold out till the weekend and wait for her arrival.

@Bubblesandballoons I know it is pointless isn't it trying to distinguish being the symptoms. That's good you have got the blood form - what are you having tested?

@Brokenpancreas94 good luck!

@TrulyMiss sorry you are having to go through that hormonal rollercoaster ❤️

Going to try holding off testing till tomorrow.. will see how that goes 😂

@Brokenpancreas94 good luck 🍀 x

@ChloeN @SMG1992 brilliant thank you! I thought so! Fingers crossed for this month then, although not holding my breathe! Xx

@Brokenpancreas94 that looks pretty much as dark as the control line to me!

@Brokenpancreas94 i think that looks positive! Darker than I’ve ever had anyway🤣

Hi all, just done an ovulation test but can't decide if it's negative or positive! I've had the discharge that I usually get around ovulation! Xx

@TrulyMiss sorry you are feeling like this 💛
@tulipsunday I’ve given up trying to work out what pms and what’s pregnancy as had varying symptoms with each pregnancy. When are you testing again?

Finally have my blood form 🎉🎉 only took them 6 weeks to send it 🙄, booked in to get them done on Monday. So happy things are finally moving forward again. Just hoping they don’t take another 6 weeks to give me the result 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Thanks @SMG1992! Unfortunately there isn't an alternative - the way the drugs work is by making all the normal hormone fluctuations more extreme so I'm just wrecked and hormonal most of the time... I'm trying to just get on with it but sometimes it's hard.

@TrulyMiss Aww I'm sorry to hear you are feeling this way.
I totally understand feeling rubbish for parts of the month. I seem to have 2 weeks off and 2 weeks on (I only feel abit better when I'm hoping for a BFP).
Maybe speak to your GP about the fertility drugs and the side effects they are having? I have no idea, but they may be able to offer an alternative that will have you feeling better through the month? x

Morning all! I'm a bit fed up with TTC at the moment. I have to do fertility drugs to induce ovulation and they make me feel crap for 3/4 of the month. This is cycle 2 after a mmc last November. I think I might take a break for a while after this one!

@bringmearainbow I got some FRERs and a few cheaper ones. Neg FRER this morning so not feeling too hopeful 🥲

@Bubblesandballoons I know that feeling I am bad for symptom spotting and getting my hopes up.

Will keep everything crossed for you both 🤞

@Chellooo congratulations xx

9dpo and have had two dreams this tww I’m pregnant, not sure why my mind wants to torture me 😩. Tempted to test today, but also don’t want to see that negative test…

@Chellooo ahhh congrats those are lovely lines 😍

@tulipsunday I don't think I'll be testing at all this cycle 😩 hubbys away and I still don't have a peak. I really needed it to happen tonight as Tuesday will be day 5. Love that test restock 🙊what kind did you get?

@tulipsunday I also have no idea when/if I ovulated. I had OPK rises last weekend (with EWCM) and this weekend (with no EWCM) so who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

So who will be pregnancy testing next week..? As no idea if/when I ovulated I don't know when to start. Maybe tomorrow. Expecting AF Thurs onwards if same short cycle as last time. Topped up my test stocks this weekend 😂

Congrats @Chellooo! Hope the nerves aren't too bad, but no reason it won't stick so absolutely just stay positive! Statistically it's supposed to be unlikely to suffer a second Mc in a row x