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TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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FfoxRedN · 09/02/2023 21:07

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bringmearainbow · 08/03/2023 07:22

@Ella31 sorry to read your update ❤️ hopefully it won't take too long for your cycle to return

@indieray I'm 37 and TTC #2

indieray · 08/03/2023 00:20

Anyone have already one child and ttc2?
Anyone over 35? Xx

Ella31 · 07/03/2023 23:49

Ella31 · 04/03/2023 19:06

A sad update from me. About a week and a half ago I got my cycle - all normal, came on the day it was supposed to. Had Bfn's so was sad but onwards and upwards. Fast forward 3 days later, I was feeling rough ...so took a preg test and was shocked to see pregnant on a digital and a faintish line on a frer.

Went to doctor on the Monday, the fact that I got my period when I was supposed to meant she agreed it was likely this pregnancy wouldn't last. Bloods were low only 55 and I should have been about 5 weeks nearly. But she was surprised to see they doubled two days later....that was last Thursday.

Unfortunately today on Saturday I've had brown discharge almost jelly like. Slight cramping in my back and my tests look lighter. Also my digital only says 1-2 weeks. I'll be 6 weeks tomorrow according to my last real period.

I'm utterly devastated. I should have known that getting my full period on time was unlikely to result in a viable pregnancy. Have to wait till Monday to see Doc and get bloods again.

Update : Blood tests confirmed my loss today. Should be 6 weeks but the lack of cramps and severe pain like my last mc is suggesting a possible chemical.

Hoping my cycle won't take too long to get back to normal. I'm so regular so this has thrown me for a loop. Sigh....Next time hopefully.

tulipsunday · 06/03/2023 20:00

Good luck @indieray sounds a good idea to have taken a break. It really does mess with your head this TTC stuff. Hope your body resettles quickly post pill

indieray · 06/03/2023 18:52

Evening ladies 🙂 please May I join ? I was part of a thread last year March /April I think felt pregnant April then had my 3rd MMC June 22. I needed a break as mentally could not cope. I've had some tests & Tests have come back positive for APS. So now feel about ready TTC Again. I've come off the pill
Feb and have started tracking my ovulation.

Wishing you all lots of luck 🍀

tulipsunday · 06/03/2023 18:21

So sorry @Ella31 it is so rubbish. Hope you are feeling ok today.

Hope everyone is ok. No AF yet so still holding on to some hope 😬 🤞

Daniki · 05/03/2023 11:25

@Ella31 miscarriages are so common and usually it is chromosome abnormalities that cause it, I’d go to your EPU next week and find out what’s happened anyway and they’ll have all on record and hopefully be able to help you with conceiving again, doing tests etc to rule out anything or prescribe medication if needed.
i really do know the feeling of thinking something is wrong but there is nothing to say you won’t have a successful pregnancy.
Wishing you all the best! X

Ella31 · 05/03/2023 11:10

Bubblemachiene · 05/03/2023 07:28

Thinking of you @Ella31 its so rubbish

Thank you so much. Tests are sooooo faint now. At least I've closure. No one will see you here on weekends.

I'm starting to think there is something wrong with me. I had a mc in August at 7 weeks. The only thing that's giving me hope is I was very sick the week I conceived this baby , had a serious cold over and I was on antibiotics and ibrufen. I had no idea I would conceive. Maybe that did this. I'm terrified there is something wrong with me.

bringmearainbow · 05/03/2023 09:20

@Ella31 ahh that's rubbish lovely. I've got everything crossed that it will be ok ❤️

Bubblemachiene · 05/03/2023 07:28

Thinking of you @Ella31 its so rubbish

Ella31 · 04/03/2023 22:18

tulipsunday · 04/03/2023 22:08

@Ella31 so sorry you are having to through this stress will keep everything crossed for you

Thank you. I've little hope really. The brown discharge was minimal but the faint tests are key I think.

tulipsunday · 04/03/2023 22:08

@Ella31 so sorry you are having to through this stress will keep everything crossed for you

Daniki · 04/03/2023 20:21

@Ella31 oh I’m sorry to read this, that’s so worrying. But you never know, see what happens next week? ❤️ x

Ella31 · 04/03/2023 19:06

A sad update from me. About a week and a half ago I got my cycle - all normal, came on the day it was supposed to. Had Bfn's so was sad but onwards and upwards. Fast forward 3 days later, I was feeling rough ...so took a preg test and was shocked to see pregnant on a digital and a faintish line on a frer.

Went to doctor on the Monday, the fact that I got my period when I was supposed to meant she agreed it was likely this pregnancy wouldn't last. Bloods were low only 55 and I should have been about 5 weeks nearly. But she was surprised to see they doubled two days later....that was last Thursday.

Unfortunately today on Saturday I've had brown discharge almost jelly like. Slight cramping in my back and my tests look lighter. Also my digital only says 1-2 weeks. I'll be 6 weeks tomorrow according to my last real period.

I'm utterly devastated. I should have known that getting my full period on time was unlikely to result in a viable pregnancy. Have to wait till Monday to see Doc and get bloods again.

Bubblemachiene · 04/03/2023 17:25

Frer not fresh, lol

Bubblemachiene · 04/03/2023 17:24

Thanks guys
I've just done a cheap strip test was negative
So I've ordered some fresh from amazon il update when they arrive x

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FfoxRedN · 04/03/2023 17:21

@Bubblemachiene just looked lovely yep that's positive! Last weeks positive OPK could have been due to the pregnancy, or the other way round your first may have been an unsuccessful rise, either way you caught 🥰. Congratulations xxx

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tulipsunday · 04/03/2023 17:14

@Bubblemachiene yey that's a positive! 🥳

Sadly bfn still here on FRER and no AF.. guess one positive is that my cycle is lengthening 😂

Bubblemachiene · 04/03/2023 16:01

Thanks, I'm so nervous I'm kinda still shaking. I can't take a pic sorry as my daughter is with me now so I've put test away. I will buy more and test again in a few days
Thanks for looking at the post @bringmearainbow

bringmearainbow · 04/03/2023 15:57

@Bubblemachiene it def looks positive to me lovely

Bubblemachiene · 04/03/2023 15:38

It won't let me upload a pic only take one and I've put the test away now buy I've just put a thread on conception board
Title starts with TW*

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FfoxRedN · 04/03/2023 15:34

@Bubblemachiene yep happy to have a look lovely. You can only ovulate once per cycle so hopefully the test will give a better indication as to what was your actual ovulation date? 🤞🏼 xxx

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bringmearainbow · 04/03/2023 15:32

@Bubblemachiene have you got a picture? Want us to take a look

Bubblemachiene · 04/03/2023 15:04

Hey I've just done a test at random I'm not even sure when I'm due after as I seemed to ovulate twice a week apart but anyway my test was positive I think

Daniki · 03/03/2023 15:28

@tulipsunday we have the same timeline for losses! Really hope you get a positive result, keep us updated 🤩