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TWW 1dpo today - who's with me?

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Carysmatic · 20/01/2023 13:08

Hello!

Im just at the start of my TWW!

TTC cycle 1 (unofficially 6months)
Baby number 2 (DD is 2.5yrs old)
CD 18
Cycle length approx 25-29days long
1DPO today
AF due approx 31/1

Me and DH have been unofficially TTC baby number 2 for about 6months, so basically not been using any protection but not tracking my cycles either and just leaving it up to fate. However this month I've been doing OPKs and got a positive test on Wednesday and then a spike in my BBT this morning so pretty sure I can pin point my ovulation at some point yesterday putting me at about 1dpo today! DH and I have been DTD regularly throughout my fertile window this month so feeling hopeful!

Who wants to join me for the TWW?

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Myperfectchaos · 30/01/2023 08:12

Morning ladies! Another BFN this morning 🙁

I’ll do another test tomorrow and if that’s negative I’ll stop.

perhaps not my month

MrsSB2023 · 29/01/2023 21:22

@Carysmatic symptoms subsiding for you that was meant to say!

MrsSB2023 · 29/01/2023 21:22

@Carysmatic I’m so scared to do another test! Even though AF hasn’t showed yet and I feel pg it’s just the thought of doing a test and getting a BFN when I’ve had a few lines on tests and got my hopes up!
I’ve had no cramps today but this evening I’ve had weird pains down my legs and around my lower back. I was driving and suddenly felt like I had blood in my mouth, such a strong metallic taste it freaked me out a bit actually! Never had that before.
I really hope symptoms subsiding is a good sign fingers crossed 🤞🏼 ☺️

MrsSB2023 · 29/01/2023 21:17

@Luna0905 sorry to hear that, glad you’re ok ish I’ve been thinking of you. Hopefully next month will be your month xxxx

Luna0905 · 29/01/2023 21:10

Sorry I’ve been quiet today, I’m okay as I can be, thanks to those for asking 😘 it’s definitely AF as it got heavier throughout the day yesterday. Still have bad cramping too, I’m hoping it eases tomorrow

@MrsSB2023 i’m not that sure I tested that early, I think I must have ovulated earlier and so I only tested 2 days early. I have pcos so never quite sure what is going on with my cycle. I was also travelling long haul and I know this always messes up it’s my cycle.
Keep us updated on your line progression 🤞🏼🤞🏼

good luck to everyone else with BFPs xxx

Carysmatic · 29/01/2023 20:32

@MrsSB2023 love that you made yourself go for a wee quick before you could test! Have you managed to stop yourself from testing again today? Definitely don't think you could have 3 faulty tests from 3 different brands!! Sounds to me like you're most likely PG but just very early days hence the faint line! If you can hold out until Wednesday you'll have amazing will power!

@Stephla84 8dpo is still very early days! You're not out until the red monster tears her ugly head! Hopefully your holiday will take your mind off of things and you c a just enjoy your time away!

All my AF symptoms seem to have disappeared. Not getting any of my usual cramps and backache that I usually get in the days leading up to AF, dunno if everything is just masked by how ill I feel or what. My FRER tests arrived this afternoon but think I'll hold off and test on Tuesday....

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MrsSB2023 · 29/01/2023 14:35

Enjoy your holiday @Stephla84 you’re very early on so probably wouldn’t even pick up yet! Have a fab time xx

Sophie3839 · 29/01/2023 13:03

Fingers xd you get a holiday bfp 🥰

Stephla84 · 29/01/2023 12:18

Well I did my first cheapie test this morning also, it’s a very clear negative! As expected 🤦🏻‍♀️ my app says I’m 8dpo but I’m sure I ovulated earlier, but maybe I didn’t! I’ve still got cramps although this morning they are much like AF cramps to be fair. Crying at the news ( but the state of the world at the moment is there any wonder 😂). Knocked my knee on the bed and my reaction was quite dramatic with tears sooooo….! Who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’m off on holiday tomorrow and I’ve decided now just to wait until (or if) my AF arrives which will be this Saturday while I’m away! So lots of luck to you guys, I really hope you get your BFP’s this week 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

MrsSB2023 · 29/01/2023 10:20

@Myperfectchaos I had a positive OPK at 7DPO and haven’t retested. Apparently you can get an LH surge around implantation BUT you can also get one before AF is due so not very helpful! I’d advise against it because it just messes with your head I think. I just had an urge to pee on some on something 😂

MrsSB2023 · 29/01/2023 10:01

Hi everyone

Welcome to the newbies.

@Carysmatic don’t give up hope it’s still very early!
So after reading about evap lines on FRERs all day yesterday I decided to do an experiment 😂 I used a FRER from the same packet with just tap water and it was stark white BFN with no indent/evap. So then I stupidly done a cheapie last night at midnight when I’d drank about 10 cups of tea and had a very faint line (can’t pick it up on camera really).
This morning I made myself have a wee quickly so I couldn’t test with FMU only because I’m driving myself mad looking at the tests and googling indent lines. I’ve had 3 lines on 3 different brands now, surely they can’t all be evap lines but I’m still doubting them haha!
I’m going to wait until Wednesday now when AF is actually due and do a FRER with FMU. That way there’s no guess work and I’m not driving myself mad!
Cramps have stopped again this morning, same as yesterday. Woke up feeling rough with a head cold which I knew was coming because I felt so rough yesterday.
Fingers crossed AF stays away for us all xx

Carysmatic · 29/01/2023 09:38

Hello and welcome to the new members of the group!

Sorry to those have tested this morning and got a BFN! Like @Sophie3839 it is still early days for most of us! I'm only 10DPO, period due in like 3-4days so I'm hoping it's just a bit too early and very low levels on HCG. There's still hope 🤞🏻🤞🏻

How are you doing today @Luna0905? Thinking off you ❤️

@MrsSB2023 are you testing today? Wanna see that line progression!

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Sophie3839 · 29/01/2023 08:57

welcome @babyfever88 it’s so hard to wait for testing :( and symptom spotting is the worst 🙈

found an article about testing I thought was interesting www.verywellfamily.com/when-is-the-best-time-to-take-an-early-pregnancy-test-1960163

looks like 6 days before period only 25% chance of positive even 4 days before only 42% so less than half! Hopefully this gives hope to some people who have had bfns early on x

babyfever88 · 29/01/2023 08:49

Hey,
I've been following this thread for a while. Struggling with the 2ww - it's so hard! This will be 6th month trying. 9dpo today. Feel like everyone around me is announcing pregnancies it's draining! Feel like I've been symptom spotting waaaay more this month!
Just did a cheap test and BFN but aware it can just be too early. I'm not feeling too positive seeing as it's not happened so far.
Just wanted to join for a bit of solidarity. Baby dust to you all x

Sophie3839 · 29/01/2023 08:45

Oh no :( hopefully still just a bit early ❤️
hope the tonsillitis is better x

Myperfectchaos · 29/01/2023 07:44

@MrsSB2023 aw I’m so excited for u. When u peed on opks did u notice any changes?

I just tested on a FMU just using a cheapy and a BFN I’m 9dpo so not overly stressing yet.

im so tired but when I do fall asleep I get vidid dream and wake myself up! Was a really broken sleep last night!

Babydustthisyear · 29/01/2023 05:55

@Carysmatic I just tested too......negative as well on a clear blue one today my Af is due no sign which is good and I usually have spotting one day before and I haven't I'm hoping I don't have enough hcg 🙏🙏

Carysmatic · 29/01/2023 05:38

FMU and looks like a BFN from me 🤷🏼‍♀️ knew it would be as these tests say they should be used from the day off the missed period so will wait for my FRER tests to arrive and probably do another with FMU on Monday or maybe just wait until Wednesday when AF will actually be late.

TWW 1dpo today - who's with me?
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LittleMiss2023 · 29/01/2023 04:27

@Peachyplumm This is actually my first cycle off the pill, so I can’t remember what ovulation feels like! I know they say to allow a proper cycle before TTC, but we thought yolo. Will give it a crack this month and then have a couple of months off before we travel in April. Ideally would want to be finished the worst of the morning sickness by the time we go. So if it doesn’t happen this month, it’s ok - we’ll start again in April. But I do love the thought of a late Oct/Early Nov baby!

Peachyplumm · 29/01/2023 03:41

@LittleMiss2023 Aww omg ovulation buddies! 🥺 hahah. It’s good to meet someone else who’s like totally new to all this! I also had like 4 days of flashing smilies before my static one. I have no idea what to expect and part of me is like ‘is this really happening?’ Because I don’t have any symptoms of ovulation really! If I hadn’t tracked it I’d honestly never have known. Do you get symptoms when it comes? I think I had some cramps a few days ago but that was when it was still flashing. Otherwise I mostly just get pre-af symptoms later on!

LittleMiss2023 · 29/01/2023 02:19

Peachyplumm · 29/01/2023 01:30

Hi ladies, I hope it’s okay to join in. I got my peak static smiley today so I’ll be 1dpo tomorrow. Early days! It’s my first time using the digital clear blue test successfully (it’s the purple one that detects both hormones).

I have mild pcos but main symptom is irregular periods so I never know when I’m ovulating or if I’m even ovulating. I decided to just do tests with IC and CB all this month to see for the hell of it and was really surprised that I am ovulating! (CD 23).

Me and my partner dtd yesterday a day before ovulation. Not sure if we will be able to again but I kept my legs up for a long time after 😂

it’s my 2nd cycle ttc for baby #1! Hope it goes well 🥺

Hi @Peachyplumm - I’m in the same boat as you! This is cycle #1 trying to conceive #1! I’ve had the flashy smileys all week and finally got my static yesterday afternoon (28th) so assuming I’m ovulating today and then tomorrow (30th) will be 1DPO. We only DTD twice, on the 25th and 29th, so fingers crossed it’s enough!

Peachyplumm · 29/01/2023 01:30

Hi ladies, I hope it’s okay to join in. I got my peak static smiley today so I’ll be 1dpo tomorrow. Early days! It’s my first time using the digital clear blue test successfully (it’s the purple one that detects both hormones).

I have mild pcos but main symptom is irregular periods so I never know when I’m ovulating or if I’m even ovulating. I decided to just do tests with IC and CB all this month to see for the hell of it and was really surprised that I am ovulating! (CD 23).

Me and my partner dtd yesterday a day before ovulation. Not sure if we will be able to again but I kept my legs up for a long time after 😂

it’s my 2nd cycle ttc for baby #1! Hope it goes well 🥺

Sophie3839 · 28/01/2023 23:39

Nooo haha weirdly my urge to test has totally gone! Symptoms all went when I got this cold 🥶 rationally I knew 3dpo was too soon to get symptoms but hey 🙃

I actually made myself 2 days late one month as I thought I was pregnant and stressed so much over it 😂

might do one next week after I went out and bought so many tests 🤦‍♀️ Feel silly now!

Carysmatic · 28/01/2023 21:39

We all know I'm probably going to test tomorrow morning 😂 will probably be a BFN! I'll keep you posted

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MrsSB2023 · 28/01/2023 21:39

Ooh @Sophie3839 are you testing tomorrow?