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TWW 1dpo today - who's with me?

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Carysmatic · 20/01/2023 13:08

Hello!

Im just at the start of my TWW!

TTC cycle 1 (unofficially 6months)
Baby number 2 (DD is 2.5yrs old)
CD 18
Cycle length approx 25-29days long
1DPO today
AF due approx 31/1

Me and DH have been unofficially TTC baby number 2 for about 6months, so basically not been using any protection but not tracking my cycles either and just leaving it up to fate. However this month I've been doing OPKs and got a positive test on Wednesday and then a spike in my BBT this morning so pretty sure I can pin point my ovulation at some point yesterday putting me at about 1dpo today! DH and I have been DTD regularly throughout my fertile window this month so feeling hopeful!

Who wants to join me for the TWW?

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Sophie3839 · 25/01/2023 18:22

Love This!

Sophie3839 · 25/01/2023 18:21

I really hope this is your month ❤️

MrsSB2023 · 25/01/2023 18:16

@Stephla84 I’ll test Saturday if I can wait that long but if I’m pregnant this month it’ll be a miracle as we only DTD until 2 days before ovulation and the night of ovulation as hubby was working away so kinda thinking we missed it but who knows. I’m 38 now so I’m aware it’ll take longer than my other pregnancies !

Stephla84 · 25/01/2023 17:51

@MrsSB2023 right! That makes a lot more sense 😂😂 awwww good luck! When is testing for you?

MrsSB2023 · 25/01/2023 17:46

@Stephla84 oh sorry should’ve said we cancelled it after I decided we weren’t done 😂 although you can get vasectomy reversal

Stephla84 · 25/01/2023 17:41

@MrsSB2023 Haha! Really?? Is that possible then?!

MrsSB2023 · 25/01/2023 17:25

@Stephla84 Aw sorry to hear that. I’m on cycle 1 too after sending hubby for the snip last month then deciding I wanted another haha!

MrsSB2023 · 25/01/2023 17:23

@Sophie3839 i bought tests they arrived yesterday. I’m so tempted but I don’t want the obsessing with seeing a line that isn’t there or the disappointment of seeing no line at all. I’m really trying to hold out until Saturday which will still be early as I’m not due AF until 1st Feb. I had the coil out in September and my cycles have been anywhere from 25 days to 35 days but going off ovulation I’d say 31 days this month x

Stephla84 · 25/01/2023 16:27

@MrsSB2023 Hello 👋🏻 this is my first cycle after a miscarriage last year! So 1 pregnancy 0 babies…… Think I’m just at a wishful thinking stage!

Sophie3839 · 25/01/2023 12:04

Same but I haven’t had one for a year or so now so that’s just typical haha! We only dtd once so it’s just unlucky I guess :-/

I know what you mean about symptom tracking I usually never bother so it’s good to have a record to look back on. So far I have had sore throat, sore boobs, needing to wee all the time and sore back but all are attributable to uti and being run down😩🤷🏼‍♀️

so you are 7dpo, think I’m 6dpo. AF due 3rd feb and I too have a night out booked before so will have to test early too! Although I do have a confession that I caved and bought tests this morning. I’m not going to do them yet of course as super early but I really shouldn’t have any in the house haha

MrsSB2023 · 25/01/2023 11:57

I am prone to UTIs and am feeling a bit cystitisy today, think it’s all the sex 🙈🤣

Sophie3839 · 25/01/2023 10:22

Ah nice yes a holiday will be a good distraction!
I always test early haha but only ever had a positive from 10dpo. Although I think my symptoms may in fact to be a mild uti :(
Gutted as I’d started to convince myself with my manic symptom spotting haha

Sophie3839 · 25/01/2023 10:20

Hello :) nice to be here!
yes I have a son already who’s two. This is only cycle number one and we only BD once so It’s very unlikely.

MrsSB2023 · 25/01/2023 09:59

@Stephla84 @Sophie3839 welcome to our little group. What cycle are you both on? Do you have any children already?

MrsSB2023 · 25/01/2023 09:57

Morning everyone how are people feeling today?

My cramping has stopped, CM has dried right up, boobs feel back to normal. I’m feeling pretty normal now. I’ve read that progesterone rise and fall makes you cramp throughout the cycle, particularly after ovulation as it slows down digestion, so maybe what I’ve been feeling is more to do with bowels rather than uterus definitely felt like AF cramps though 😂 I don’t know. I’m glad I’ve tracked all symptoms this month though so I’ve got something to compare to. It’s actually been really interesting noticing what my body is doing as I usually pay zero attention.
I’m (think) I’m 7DPO today, I have a night out for a friends birthday on Saturday so I think I’ll test then, I’ll only be 10 DPO but I need to test so I know whether I can have a drink or not 🙈

Stephla84 · 25/01/2023 01:56

@Sophie3839 my OH is super rational aswell it’s very annoying !! 😂 going on holiday next week so hopefully won’t really think about it, thought technically I’m due AF while we are away! Will you test early?

Sophie3839 · 24/01/2023 23:36

Sorry for your loss stephla84 i totally get the trying to be cool thing. I was like nope I’m not symptom spotting I’ll wait for AF….
so glad this group is here, my husband is much more rational than I am and has far more patience 🙈

Sophie3839 · 24/01/2023 23:32

5dpo here and so many symptoms which I know can’t be symptoms but are happening anyway haha!
sore boobs, need to see loads, bit of heartburn / acid reflux.
not high chance of pg tbh as only dtd once and wasn’t using opks etc this time.
what dpo is everyone planning to test on?
mum going to try and hold out until 10dpo 😅

Stephla84 · 24/01/2023 22:24

Thought I would say hi and now following the thread. I’m 4DPO and, after having a miscarriage at 10 weeks in October we are back into cycle 1 after taking a couple of months off. I wanted to be so cool and not symptom check at all but here I am….. symptom checking like mad 😂I’ve spent most of this evening with cramps. I have 5 large fibroids on the outside of my uterus so periods and ovulation etc are normally noticeable and quite painful. So I’m seeing this has a good sign…. Rightly or wrongly! Looking forward to seeing how you girls get on. Lots of luck!!

Babydustthisyear · 24/01/2023 18:19

@Carysmatic im going to wait a few more days unless I get crazy symptoms, today at 6dpo/7dpo cramps in left side, taste in mouth and mood swings lol

Myperfectchaos · 24/01/2023 17:38

I am so so bloated today!! Hubbys 40th so we went out for some lunch so trying to put it down to that and not it being a “sign” although the “bump “ the bloat is giving me is making me emosh!

LucyEleanorModeratz · 24/01/2023 13:29

Ahhhh good luck everybody , and @MrsSB2023 doesnt sound like you’re too far off testing eeeek!

Absolutely no signs or symptoms my end, but given I’m only (around) 2DPO I won’t worry about that yet ! I was incredibly lucky and had virtually no symptoms whatsoever when I had my little boy except for just ‘knowing’ I was pregnant (which sounds very mystic Meg!) , and I had exactly the same again for my chemical last month.

@Carysmatic increased temp definitely sounds positive ! One thing I noticed retrospectively last month was a steady increase in my resting heart rate from my Apple Watch (to the extent I got an alert about it!) so that looks like a sign to me too albeit not one I would notice myself physically , without the aid of my watch! And then it dropped right down again when I miscarried. So I think I’ll get a decent steer from that too, in a similar way as one would do with BBT

Carysmatic · 24/01/2023 13:20

The clear blue ovulation test track your LH surge which peaks just before ovulation so you get your peak which would have the solid smiley you had on CD16 but then you may not ovulate until 12-36hours after your LH surge, so if you feel like you ovulated on the CD18 then maybe you did! I'd say in you're with a good chance this month! 🤞🏻

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MrsSB2023 · 24/01/2023 12:46

@Carysmatic so we DTD CD 14, 15 (midnight) I got solid smiley CD 16, hubby was away CD 16&17 DTD again CD 18&19
I definitely feel like I ovulated on CD 18 but that would be too late according to CB digital but definitely had the most EWCM and felt like I ovulated that day. We didn’t DTD until late on CD 18 though so think we may have missed it.
I’m either 6, 7 or 8 DPO today 🙃
I had strong cramps again last night but feel absolutely fine today. I don’t know whether it’s normal for me or not to cramp after ovulation however I don’t remember that happening last month.
Raised temp sounds promising! Definitely going to temp next month.
Does anyone check their cervix?

Carysmatic · 24/01/2023 12:27

@MrsSB2023 I definitely know when I'm nearing ovulation too as I get lots of EWCM and increased sec drive, I've never noticed pain in my ovaries to know exactly when I likely ovulated so rely on the OPKs for that, I'm lucky that I was able to pinpoint my peak with OPKs and then confirm with spike in BBT. Weirdly my BBT has stayed high since I've ovulated this month when it normally starts go down again but I'm not looking too much into that as I am quite crap at remembering to take it 😂 how long was your hubby away for? If it was only a few days and you DTD before and after he went away you may still have a chance!

@Babydustthisyear ooo so you haven't got too much longer to wait before you can test! My Flo app is saying to take a test in 8days time when I will be 13DPO, but I may try and hold out a little longer.

@Myperfectchaos it's so hard not to symptom spot though! Every time I feel something slightly unusual in my body my brain goes "omg I'm pregnant" 😂. I'm going to hold off on testing until at least Tuesday/Wednesday next week if I can! I've only some cheapies from boots and one clear blue digital(which I want to save until I start seeing a faint second line on tests at least!) nothing worse than seeing the words "NOT PREGNANT" so yeah, may order some FRER tests because I like those better than the little cheap strip ones!

How's everyone today? I feel pretty much normal, no possible symptoms today. But I'm sure my brain will have convinced me of some by the end of the day 🙈

Baby dust ✨✨✨

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