Ready, Aim...HANG FIRE!! Waiting to TTC (and some too impatient)

thanks, its all just frustrating! Its in her bladder, and as you've said it'l just be a case of catching it now and removing it, i sort of feel guilty for feeling bad myself cos i think how scared she must be im just gonna stay positive and believe

Where is the cancer?

I am guessing she would have still been under fairly close obs for it returning? So I am sure they will have caught it quickly, which is obviously much better.

As Kay says, shout and scream and stamp your foot on here, anything we can do just yell

If she has beaten once she will beat it again.
We're here if you need to shout and scream!

Thanks both of you, she ahs had it before and up till now has been clear for a year so im being positive, im sure she'l beat it again, just outrages me that she has to deal with this crap, i want to stamp my feet and shout its not fair!! Im sure she'l be ok tho they are taking it out on 10th march, its just all so unfair cos, shes always worked so hard and been so healthy x

Oh BB, I am so sorry sweetie Have they given her any kind of prognosis?

Freddie is lovely once he goes to sleep. It takes ages to get him to sleep but once he is asleep he sleeps all night.

BB I'm so sorry to hear about your nan

morning all hope your all ok, had some bad news last night, my nans cancer has come back so feeling down today x

Morning

Kay Freddie is loverly
LG&T, y'know what wannaBe is like, she will either come on at 9 and say she has decided to wait till tomorrow, or she'll say she hasn't done it for x or x or x! Bless her, I really hope this is her chance, she is the only one left from my original TTC thread's, fingers crossed this is it
Happy, we have decided to not book anything this year, and probably next, we went to Menorca last year, DS2 was 8 months old, and it really was a waste of holiday, even the thought of trying to get 3 huge suitcases, a buggy, DS1 (who was 4 and constantly "I need a wee" "I need a drink" "I'm hungryyyyyyy") and DS2 through the airports again is terrifying, and then add the baby and more luggage... I would rather never go on holiday again than go through that! We have said we will do some weekend breaks here and there and do the obligatory days out, but even they will be few and far between because once the weather warms up we have a house to decorate throughout and get on the market!!

First pregnancy, apart from not eating anything except fish fingers for the first 3 months, was absolutely perfect. Second was a bit more tiring, being huge from 6 weeks wasn't much fun, but then I had the 9 week labour and the pre-eclampsia at the end, major child care issues for DS1 and I couldn't stand the sight nor smell of raw meat, I had to let DH go and get it in Tesco or whatever I couldn't even walk down the aisle or see it in the trolley, put it on the conveyor or pack it! 3rd pregnancy was gone before I knew it, though still no sickness or anything, just nose bleeds which I only ever have while pregnant. Hopefully the next one will be like the first one, though at least I know if it is another 9 week labour I have MN on my side Some positivly gearing up for it!!! LOLOLOL

Throughout all of them I have only ever felt a bit sickly, never been sick, had cravings for sour sweets and jaffa cakes at the same time.... everything else differed from one to the other.

Right must go and get my shower..... fucking quickly, I am lateeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.......

I had an amazing pg last time. No morning sickness, I didnt feel tired at all really until the last few weeks. Just felt my normal self except for big belly.
I reckon next time I'll be awful bad morning sickness and really tired

Thanks Kayz - I am getting more carried away with holidays than the thought of ttc at the moment, but think I should be a bit more cautious. Morning sickness was awful last time for me... I know each pg is different though, but somehow I imagine it will be as bad!

Hi Happy, I'm a little worried I have a holiday booked in July. I was pg last time I went on holiday, I had no morning sickness or over tiredness at all but I was really hormonal and we were on holiday with my mum, and I was really moody, the same is happening this year too.
Im not taking omega 3

I'm back again - was just about to settle down for a chat before then dd woke up, and my feet haven't touched the ground ever since! The conversation seems to have moved on again since 3pm... Can I ask a question? For those of you taking folic acid - are you taking Omega 3 as well? Also, has the prospect of being pg put anyone off going on holiday?? Strange question but am in holiday-booking-mode and keep forgetting that hopefully I will be pg by July, but then get worried at the prospect of morning sickness and never-want-to-move-again tiredness... should I just go for it?

I have no idea why I dont want a baby in May prob due to MIl birthday in May and when my ex friend was expecting her dd was due in May and my mil said to her "It may be born on my birthday which is better than March" Ds's birthday 20th March

Kay i got pregnant on my birthday (20th August) and B was due 13th May but didnt arrive till 26th May. My last af before i concieved was 27th July, they originally dated me 3rd may but i knew i had not ov till middle of August.

Like Teuch and i have said before you are all a bunch of slackers

Have work tommorrow morning and have to nip in to town then wll be back to rest my weary body before jumping up for the school run. I wont be here at 9 to see Wannabe and her test results.

I would like a boy girl

Yeah I suppose its differcult when you aren't sure on your cycles. If I dont get pg by August Im missing that out as I dont want a May baby

Freddy is georgous as well KB. I would love a brother for my dd.

I'm not waiting till July, though I really should...

It all depends how my AF's behave, last cycle was 30 days but after the MC the next one could be 25 days or 50 days, or more.......

LOL at LL. Its so hard isn't it, once you get it into your mind that you want another you never stop thinking about it

Must wait until April, Must wait until April.....

Boys are gorgeous BTW

JULY!!!!!!!!!
WHAT???
NOOOO!!!!
How could you wait until July NJ? I'm finding it hard enough not to try this month!! Moving forward is only allowed no backwards listen to Diege and I

Awww thank you, they're not too bad I suppose!

NJ you have two lovely boys there, how cute (can i wait until April) yes yes i must....

LOL I couldn't even if I wanted to, DH would kill me

Believe me, I am finding it hard to wait for May, let alone next year!