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BiscuitLover3678 · 31/12/2022 08:41

Well here we are again, day 1 of new cycle. It’s been over a year now (I’d ducked out of these threads for ages). Finally going to start with some private investigations. But not for a few weeks.

Anyone got any fun ideas for this month?

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AlbaGracie · 26/01/2023 13:31

Hi @littlemiss2023 I had a withdrawal bleed as normal when I stopped the pill. I counted day 1 as the first day of AF as you would if you weren't on the pill. Wasn't expecting to ovulate but glad I persisted with daily OPKs so I know ovulated on D18. Fingers crossed AF comes on time and I can try again next month. I've read stopping the pill can upset your cycles so it can take a while to ovulate. Maybe get some OPKs so you know what's going on? X

LuckyC27 · 26/01/2023 12:55

Just got AF so looks like we will be trying again next month 😩

TunnocksTCake · 26/01/2023 11:49

@MilkyAndFluffy I dont have a plan yet, trying to hold out as long as possible, been easy so far because I didnt have any tests in the house but my amazon delivery arrived yesterday! Feel like I've waited this long now though (12dpo) I may as well wait til af late. I am getting so many symptoms I will be really shocked if I am not, its driving me crazy!
Ive been reading this (old) thread for fun and lots of people on there had neg 10dpo and went to get bfp later!
community.babycentre.co.uk/post/a3554675/the-big-bfp-symptoms-list-come-and-add-yours

MilkyAndFluffy · 26/01/2023 11:23

@TunnocksTCake i have everything crossed that I’m just a late implanter! Thanks for making my crap day a lil less crap πŸ€—

what is your plan for testing day? Have you managed to hold out? X

TunnocksTCake · 26/01/2023 11:16

@MilkyAndFluffy 10dpo is still so early, I know it seems like evryone on here has a bfp at 10do but you might still be implanting!
Fingers crossed for a bfp in the coming days xx

MilkyAndFluffy · 26/01/2023 11:06

@TunnocksTCake im 10dpo today, I think after seeing all the good lines so early on here I’ve convinced myself I’m out! I did think I’d see something but it was a stark white test πŸ˜ͺyou are so right, AF due Monday so there’s still time!

TunnocksTCake · 26/01/2023 11:04

@MilkyAndFluffy what dpo are you? you're not out til af shows!

MilkyAndFluffy · 26/01/2023 10:35

@Maxime34 how are you feeling today love? Did you fight the urge to test again today or have to tried again?
i lost all will power to wait until tomorrow and tested this morning, BFN - devastated. I don’t know why I convince myself it’s β€˜my month’ every bloody month 😒so gloomy day for me…. Seeing the BFN never gets any easier
Reckon we should still test in the morning? X

LittleMiss2023 · 26/01/2023 10:35

AlbaGracie · 25/01/2023 12:26

Sad to say I'm out this month ladies! Finally ovulated D18 after stopping the combined pill early January. Really frustrating but missed the fertile window as DP was poorly all week and then when we DTD on day after ovulation he couldn't produce the goods as he was so exhausted poor guy πŸ™ˆ Hoping AF turns up soon ( my first normal one in 12 years!) and then fingers crossed for next month. 3 weeks to my next fertile window seems soo long!

Good luck to you all!

Hey @AlbaGracie - if you don’t mind me asking - what day did you start counting your cycle? Did you have a withdrawl bleed? I also stopped the combined pill early January, still waiting to ovulate. I was counting day 1 as first day of withdrawl bleed, but not sure whether to count from day after I stopped the pill?

MummyBear2519 · 26/01/2023 10:22

AlleycatMarie · 26/01/2023 01:09

When do you plan to test @MummyBear2519? I’m terrible for testing really early; every month I tell myself I’ll wait but I can’t! I use the excuse it’s so that I know whether I can have a drink or not πŸ˜‚
Thats great that you were ok with your 2nd pregnancy. I think sil is too scared to try again after what happened.

Think I’m going to test on the 4th early morning and see how I’m feeling. Very nervous but excited at the same time. My sister had her first scan yesterday after ivf so I’m now even more broody

Sophie3839 · 26/01/2023 09:01

I really don’t know πŸ˜… some tests are much more sensitive and claim to work up to6 days before a missed period but that could just be for people on longer cycles?! FRER are early I think but then a BFN can’t be trusted too early anyway so it can be a waste of a test :-/ I usually test 10dpo onwards

Sophie3839 · 26/01/2023 08:58

Definitely worth getting tested for progesterone :)
spotting is a nuisance cause you then can’t tell if it’s implantation bleeding or not 😩
do you have any symptoms? (I’m a terrible symptoms spotter)

Countrybean · 26/01/2023 08:57

Sophie3839 · 26/01/2023 08:55

Me too! I bought some tests yesterday but really shouldn’t have any in!
got some cheapies and a clear blue that says up to 6 days before so could technically try it Sunday πŸ˜…

must not test yet… must not test yet haha

My AF is due on 31st Jan, so between ovulation and then is 12 days.. does that mean I can test sooner?! 🀞🏼

Sophie3839 · 26/01/2023 08:55

Me too! I bought some tests yesterday but really shouldn’t have any in!
got some cheapies and a clear blue that says up to 6 days before so could technically try it Sunday πŸ˜…

must not test yet… must not test yet haha

AussieMum888 · 26/01/2023 08:31

@Sophie3839 @Countrybean hey cycle buddies!! I think I'll test Sunday morning too!! Fingers crossed for you!

I got bloods taken CD21 this month to see what my progesterone is as I spot from 10DPO do will be good to hopefully get some answers there πŸ™‚

Countrybean · 26/01/2023 08:24

Sophie3839 · 26/01/2023 08:18

Hi @AussieMum888 Think I’m on a similar timeline to you and 7dpo today and AF due 3rd feb. I have short cycles so not sure if that affects when you can test πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ
I was thinking to wait till 10dpo too :)

Also 7DPO today. Going mad πŸ˜‚ bring on sunday!

Sophie3839 · 26/01/2023 08:18

Hi @AussieMum888 Think I’m on a similar timeline to you and 7dpo today and AF due 3rd feb. I have short cycles so not sure if that affects when you can test πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ
I was thinking to wait till 10dpo too :)

Natty83 · 26/01/2023 07:35

@Hummusanddipdip my app is predicting the 3rd, cycle buddy πŸ₯°

AussieMum888 · 26/01/2023 07:21

Anyone else 7DPO or there about? Would love a testing buddy! I'm going to try hold off but I know come 10DPO I'm gonna want to test haha πŸ˜‚

AlleycatMarie · 26/01/2023 01:09

When do you plan to test @MummyBear2519? I’m terrible for testing really early; every month I tell myself I’ll wait but I can’t! I use the excuse it’s so that I know whether I can have a drink or not πŸ˜‚
Thats great that you were ok with your 2nd pregnancy. I think sil is too scared to try again after what happened.

MummyBear2519 · 25/01/2023 21:45

AlleycatMarie · 25/01/2023 21:09

Hi @MummyBear2519 I’m due af 2 days before you, keeping everything crossed. Ttc number 1 so no advice, but my sil was very unwell with HELLP in her pregnancy; I’m sorry you went through it too.

I have a big night out planned for a friends birthday on the 4th and really not sure what to do drinking wise!
Thank you was very poorly and my first was delivered 2 months premature, ddc2 I had zero problems with so hopeful that everything will be ok but prepared either way

AlleycatMarie · 25/01/2023 21:09

Hi @MummyBear2519 I’m due af 2 days before you, keeping everything crossed. Ttc number 1 so no advice, but my sil was very unwell with HELLP in her pregnancy; I’m sorry you went through it too.

Hankthehonk · 25/01/2023 20:26

I guess I'm joining in as we're TTC baby #2 - I've never participated in TTC forums before as it was impossible to track cycles first time. Struggled with PCOS and very irregular cycles/hardly ever ovulating before having my first child and eventually got lucky.
I've been off the pill for 3 months now and really surprised that my periods have been regular as clockwork, so it's a new experience tracking and feeling like we're trying "normally". Still getting used to all the abbreviations!
CD9 here and potential due date of 24 Oct, according to Flo.

Countrybean · 25/01/2023 20:12

Jonesy88 · 25/01/2023 19:31

Wallowing in the TWW here, fingers crossed for all those testing!

In anticipation of being in it for long haul, I’d love to know peoples theories on whether DTD every day or every other day during the fertile window is better and if anyone is having fertility acupuncture? Apparently it’s it’s really good for making your phases the lengths they should be but who knows!

Me too- finding it so hard. The symptom spotting is driving me insane. Will be 7dpo tomorrow and planning to test on Sunday - might still be too early but we’ll see.
I’ve never tried acupuncture personally but heard lots of good things about it.
re DTD..we followed the sperm meets egg plan which involves a bit of both πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

Jonesy88 · 25/01/2023 19:31

Wallowing in the TWW here, fingers crossed for all those testing!

In anticipation of being in it for long haul, I’d love to know peoples theories on whether DTD every day or every other day during the fertile window is better and if anyone is having fertility acupuncture? Apparently it’s it’s really good for making your phases the lengths they should be but who knows!