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@JD90 so sorry to hear that☹️ was that to only bloods you had done? Xx

I'm so sorry @JD90 hugs and love xx

Little update with the FRER I just done, still finding it ultra hard to believe after getting a VF line on a cheapy the last few days🫣

Thanks everyone, I spoke with epau this morning and they confirmed by hcg was too low so I cancelled my scan. Advised to test in a week to make sure it's resolving. Feel like absolute rubbish but it can't be changed. It's also hit my partner super hard so we're just trying to support each other through it and move forward. 😪

So sorry @JD90 hope you're ok

@DSP21 The 2-3 weeks on digital is definitely a positive sign! Its so hard at this stage when you just want to see progression but the dilution of your wee could be so different each time.
Wait another 2days if you can and retest then but I think you can be quietly optimistic with the 2-3 week result :)

@TunnocksTCake I have more frers! These were both afternoon wee as fmu for me is much more diluted as I drink water in the night and pee. Both taken at similar times. I guess its a waiting game, i did get a 2-3 weeks on a digi this morning so i don’t know if that would’ve happened if it was a chemical? I don’t know i’m driving myself crazy

@DSP21 ooh thats a tricky one - did you take both with FMU? Have you got any other tests you can take?

Top - 14dpo
bottom - 15dpo

not sure if i’m having a chemical, just no one else I can put my anxiety out to aside from you ladies

Sorry to hear some of you are going through this, I had my second chemical this month too and doctors can’t do anything unless I have 1 more 🙄
hopefully we all get healthy babies soon 🤞🏻

@JD90 oh so sorry to hear this :( Hope you at least get an answer either way and make sure you report it to your DR just so they have it on file - I failed to do this with one of mine then when I came to them saying I had had 3 they basically didnt believe me!

@ukMummyof1 you are still v early days and pre af so its not unusual for such a light line, but as pp said I would get some FRERS for a better line, fingers crossed for you!

@ukMummyof1 I understand, it's a really stressful time. I'd definitely suggest you get a more sensitive test, these cheapie ones aren't great - if you get a 2 pack of FRERs and do one tomorrow then another 48 hours later hopefully you'll see progression with clearer lines

@Hankthehonk 11dpo in the top and one 13dpo in the second (that's if my dates are right). Never had a chemical before but so worried!

@JD90 So sorry you are going through this :(

@ukMummyof1 What dpo are you? This does look a little darker to me. You should use Frers if you can as they are much more sensitive. Hope you are not feeling too anxious, I totally empathise I've been testing daily for ten days now!

So after I got my positive on Saturday I waited 48 hours to test again and have just tested and I don't think it's got any darker, could I be having a chemical?? 😥

Looks like I'm going to be moving into the November ttc thread with you lovely lot. Unfortunately started spotting yesterday, was advised to get some bloods done and to have my scan moved to today in case it's another ectopic but started bleeding heavily overnight so looks like it was a chemical 😪 going to ring up epau this morning and tell them and if my bloods were low i expect they will probably cancel the scan, which makes sense. Such a shitty feeling but even from the first positive I had a bad feeling about things.

Thank you so much everyone! I'll call the EPAU in the week and hopefully I'll get a scan... going to test again tomorrow morning to see if my line is any darker. Also, thank you for the reassurance about the night out🙈xxx

@ukMummyof1 dont worry about drinking, I’ve found out with all 3 of mine the morning after a night out 🙈 it’s too early to cause any problems.

many maternity units are now self referral so if you can find their number it might be worth a call to see how they process you as you’ve had an ectopic previously.

congratulations

Congrats @ukMummyof1 🎉💕 I remember you posting your predicament! As others have said I really wouldn't worry about the few drinks you had, it was an isolated occasion and very early. Hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy 😊

@ukMummyof1 Oops finger slipped there. Congratulations!
I dont think you need to worry too much about having a few drinks, lots of people drink when they don't realise yet they're pregnant. I hate thinking how much I had before realising I was pregnant with my first 🤐

@ukMummyof1

@ukMummyof1 yes contact your gp and let them know and either they will contact epau on your behalf or tell you to contact them. You should hopefully be scanned around 6 weeks to confirm placement.

@ukMummyof1 I definitely see it! Tentative congrats!