TTC Thread 15...........a thread full of babydust.

could somebody tell me how long this thread has been created? i mean originally and which ones of u have been there since the start?

I forgot to mention,

tania - prob won't speak to u now b4 u go for the op, good luck for it hon, fingers crossed all around for you. and hopefully you'll be back here soon with some good news. (i'll send u over loads a baby dust as well) (it's sending but can't do the little pic). let us know how you get on. don't forget to have a pamper day thou after and relax some!

OPK I mean...

Hula how are you getting on?

I think I am cd12 - gah! Kept thinking I would buy an OPT but then read the OPK thread that suggested they weren't so good. I am really torn ATM and part of me wants to give up on TTC so hard - just sticking to the once-at-weekends routine is much less stress.

But I so want to give DD a little brother or sister because she will just love it.

DH is out tonight but might coerce him tomorrow.

god girls, we need to start a new thread! dail up is soo slow with this one now, any how.

Does anyone know what happened to Hell Kat?, she was here, then not?? I can't remeber if she had the BFP or not??

I was hoping that would be the answer hester, it is my first month of persona, (quite pleased it picked up the O as well so it's loadsa bd beteen days 6-16 then I think if I OV on 12/13. infact make it day 20!... god wheres DH when u need him.. blinking men!

kiz - If we knew how men thought/feel we'd be millionaires hon! lol, I know DH has strong feelin about this whole baby thing, he was v proud in telling the whold of his SQN (about 200 men that they couldn't come over any more as we were 'making babies' i mena can u imagion the embaressment! - i've not had the nerve to run him upto work since! he's v open with his feelings thou which helps. when we first started going out thou (we've been together 5 yrs) we didn't talk about feelins at all, and sould have a massive row every six months without fail about everything, so we started leaving little messages on the computer for each other and bout how we were feelin, worked for us as we could talk about things that way then sit down and say how stupid we'd both been without arguing. (we never saved the stuff) but still I think it's what works for u really.

kyzzy - i can understand how u feel and also how ur dh feels.i dont know u or ur hubby but the way i see it mayb that bcos of his age and position with his job, he may think that he had is share of early parenthood and now he wants to enjoy his life, enjoy his money with u and hav a good time.
but u want the baby, also bcos mayb being a woman, u got that bit of motherhood and a biological clok that rings in ur mind and another baby would be just nice!!however i understand the frustration about his reactions. he cares but mayb doesnt want to show it.??

is there any of u who is waiting to test or is about 2 wks away from af?

Good norning ladies

my god girls, u lot can talk!

Hester - I can't believe the audasity of some people, that's just discussing not letting you have treatments etc..thats ur life afteer all, ur wishes,what u want for urself.I'm speechless. How can they pretend they know everything, they arent god!!

I am happy about what u feel about ur dh , jb-the more i read about u, i think an interest in u grows immensely (i dont know if i make any sense).like i wouldlove to meet u but i am just being silly.impossible, as ur too far.

i feel so lucky with my dp now.well, everytime i test, i pee and then (b4 i chiken out for the result, i giv him the stik)and he waits patiently and reads the result.so when i felt pg, a huge smile was on his face and he keps jumping about.he is so sweet and funny.i cried.i was so happy afer my m/c

Rudy - too early to test but which one of us is peatient enof to wait? hehe

Sallie -

St nick - so sorry about AF.hav some nice choc.thats my cure to any low mood.just say to urself that u wont have that privilege nxt xmas cos u'll be pg!!

Poor you, Tania; I'm not surprised you're stressed. Will be keeping my fingers crossed for you tomorrow xxx

Kizzy: I'm sure that lots of men worry that it's their fault, that their 'boys' are getting in their and conquering. After our second month of TTC, DH went out and bought some zinc tablets without saying anything. I was really pleased that this means so much to him too.

Tania: Good luck tomorrow. We'll be thinking of you. xxx

jb, sorry for my lousy memory, but is this your first month with Persona?
If it's not, don't worry - you've detected your surge and you don't really need to know any more.
If it is, the Persona is still building up information on you so yes, you probably will need to buy some more sticks and test if/when it tells you to.
I think the evening is too late - it's little brain has already told it you've missed the test. I think you only have a four hour window for testing each day.
hth
xxx

Canda hope iam on the jan thread too.
One of my bestfriends maybe pg will be happy for her thou as she had a etopic in September but i still feel alittle dont mean to be but cant help it.
Hester sorry about the BFN but remember the fat lady hasnt sung just yet. But i do know how you feel the wait just does your head in.
Have still got the headache from hell today think i might just be stressed out about the op tomorrow i am just so worried that they will not find anything and there is just no reason why iam not pg yet.
ChaCha are you about hoping that i can read your success story soon.

guys got a green day on cd 16/24-26, is that right or is it cos there will be no hormones left? will search for teh box tongiht, or might just get some more, in fact i'll buy some more i think, and route about for the box on the weekend.

RD/JEDS, Ica't find my persona box of sticks - the new ones, can I do the thing this evening? (at the mo i've got yesterdays's back in theu urrghgh I know, but I haven't a clue where it is, It's already show=nw i've OV, so do u recon that will be ok or should I scrap this month and start a fresh next? help!!!

i'' catch up later on.

Morning all. Another BFN for me, another profit hike for First Response .

Still only on day 27. Have I qualified as crazy enough to get expelled from the thread yet, Tania?

Tania, I hope that everything goes well tomorrow and that you are joining an anti-natal thread along with the rest of us in January. (how's that for positive thinking?!)XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

thanks tania2 for advice. Made me think a bit to be honest. i have not once thought how my hubby feels in all this, just apart from him beening upset at the BFN. but deep down all men must feel some sort of failure in a way. all women just blame themselves for not getting caught!

Q...HOW DOES A MAN FEEL???????

thanks everyone who posted me.

i have had a good talk with hubby tonight in car on way home from friends. he had the cheek to say
" is something wrong" so i laid into him straight away and guess what he said. oh f*ing hell i forgot and he meant it, he was so sorry for me that i went threw it alone, and asked why i never said. The worse thing is i believe him and i feel as guilty as ever now.

we had a good talk and i told him how i was feeling and using all your examples of your men to him. from talking to bellys to reading the result. so he said he is doing it next time. the test and everything. lets hope it will be my last girls.

Good morning girls.
Thanks for all thinking of me for tomorrow.
Cockenzie TWINS!!! i dont think so dont think i could cope with that.
Kizzy i was the same this month was a couple of days late and dh wasnt really fussed when i got a bfn didnt really say anything but when af arrived he said nothing and just gave me a hug but ended up in a shitty mood i just took that as he was disappointed. dont worry i feel that we seem to be more obvious that we are upset as we express our feelings and want everyone to know about it where as men go into their cave and say nothing that is with all things in life.
RD DONT test i will kick you off the thread is that what you want to hear?????
Jed are you still about.
JB gyno said i can start ttc as soon as i stop bleeding cause i am due to ov pretty much straight after the op so its a high chance that it could work the first month. not holding my breath though cause i always do and get disappointed. CD4 here and af has stopped so i will have two days without bleeding then will be bleeding again.

lol, nup fraid not, DH is away. (whispers we lied as well to the drs! lol, said 6 moths and it was only 41/2! weeee! lol) hope the tests go ok for u thou.

i'm off to watch most haunted so see u all in the mornin.

Hi everybody, haven't had time to catch up on the thread (I think I've got about 300 emails to read...)
ernest, I sent you a CAT the other day, did you get it?

will come back when I've read all of this!

Hi jingle !!
This thread is taking foe ever to download !
I am ok except sice two days before OV I have had these wierd AF like pains in stomach - only CD 11 so can't be AF - they are maddening - don't know what's going on ! Went to DR'S last Thur as she is referring mr for blood test as I have been TTC for 6 months (although I said a year!)
Any new from you!

I am. how r u hon?

Anyone around ? Quiet tonight!!!!!

Hi folks - gosh what a lengthy thread and not even Xmas yet. Nothing to report on CD11 - Waiting !!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you all for the kind thoughts you have sent about my sister. It is much appreciated.

Tania-Will be thinking about you tomorrow. Hope everything goes great.

Hester-I can't tell you how mad I was when I read your post about how you were treated. I just don't even have the words. If it makes you feel any better, AF is due for me on Wed. also, and I had to go and test this AM, too. BFN. Serves me right for having no patience whatsoever.